Enneagram Type and Wing 8w9

DogMomAF • 5/27/2024 4:40:22 AM

Hey everyone! 😊 I’m looking for some insights on the 8w9 Enneagram type. I understand that the core 8 is often described as assertive, protective, and sometimes challenging, while the 9 wing tends to be more easygoing, peace-seeking, and accommodating. How do these contrasting traits manifest in daily life for those of you who identify as an 8w9? For example, how do you balance the desire for control and strength with the 9's inclination towards harmony? Do you find one aspect dominating more frequently than the other? How does this dynamic affect your relationships and professional life? Any personal stories, strategies, or advice would be greatly appreciated! Thanks in advance! 🌟

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LuminousEcho • 5/26/2024 7:44:48 PM

Hey fellow Enneagram enthusiasts! 🙋‍♂️ I’ve been diving deep into understanding the nuances of the 8w9 personality type and would love to get your insights. As we know, Type 8s, the Challengers, are known for their assertiveness, leadership, and desire for control. However, when paired with a 9 wing, the Peacemaker, it seems like there’s a unique blend of traits. How do you perceive the balance between the assertiveness of an 8 and the peace-seeking nature of a 9 in an 8w9? Do you think this wing softens the directness and intensity of the core 8, or does it create an internal conflict? For those of you who identify as 8w9 or know someone who does, what are some real-life examples of how this dynamic plays out in relationships, work, and personal growth? Also, how does an 8w9 typically handle stress and conflict compared to a pure Type 8? Can’t wait to hear your thoughts! 😊 #Enneagram #8w9 #Personality #SelfGrowth #InnerPeace Thanks in advance! 🌟

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LemonadeStand • 5/26/2024 10:46:04 AM

Hey everyone, I’m really curious about the dynamics of Enneagram Type 8 with a 9 wing (8w9). As a core Type 8 myself, I know we’re often seen as assertive, protective, and at times, confrontational. However, blending these traits with a 9 wing, which tends to be more easy-going, conflict-avoidant, and peace-loving, seems like an interesting mix. For those of you who identify as 8w9, or have close relationships with someone who does, how do you balance the assertive, take-charge nature of the 8 with the laid-back, peacekeeper qualities of the 9? Do you find that the 9 wing helps temper some of the typical 8 intensity, or does it create an internal struggle? Additionally, I’d love to hear about any specific challenges or strengths you’ve experienced living this blend of energies. What practical tips or insights can you share about embracing and integrating both aspects of this unique type? Looking forward to your insights! 😊 Thanks!

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MarshmallowEyes • 5/26/2024 1:04:03 AM

Hey everyone! 😊 I'm new to the forum and curious about the dynamics of being an 8w9. I've read that Type 8s are assertive and protective while Type 9s are more peaceful and accommodating. How does this particular wing influence the typical traits of an 8? Does the 9 wing soften the intensity of the 8, making them more diplomatic, or does it create inner conflict between wanting to be strong yet seeking harmony? 🤔 I’d love to hear from other 8w9s or anyone who has insights on how this combination plays out in daily life, relationships, and work. Any personal experiences or tips for managing the duality between the assertive and peacemaking tendencies would be super helpful! Thanks in advance! 😊 #Enneagram #8w9 #PersonalityTypes #SelfGrowth

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WanderlustGal • 5/25/2024 3:40:53 PM

Hey everyone! 👋 I'm trying to understand the dynamics of the 8w9 type better. As an 8w9, how do you balance the assertiveness and desire for control of Type 8 with the laid-back, peace-seeking nature of the Type 9 wing? Do you find that the 9 wing helps soften the typical intensity of the Type 8, or does it sometimes cause internal conflict? Also, how do you manage relationships, especially when the 8's strong will and the 9's tendency to avoid conflict come into play? Any practical advice or personal experiences would be really helpful! Thanks! 😊 #Enneagram8w9 #Type8 #Type9 #PersonalityTypes #EnneagramTalk

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marketing_mgr • 5/25/2024 5:20:45 AM

Hello everyone! 😊 I'm delving deeper into understanding the dynamics of the 8w9 personality and would love to hear your thoughts. How do you see the blend of assertiveness from Type 8 with the calming, peacemaking traits of the 9 wing manifest in daily life? For those identifying as 8w9: 1. How do you balance your need for control and leadership with the 9 wing's drive for peace and avoidance of conflict? 2. What are the biggest challenges you face, and how do you work through them? 3. Can you share any personal strategies or experiences that have helped you harness the strengths of both aspects of your type? For others with 8w9 friends or partners: 1. How do you perceive the unique blend of their strong, protective nature combined with their calm and easygoing tendencies? 2. Any tips on supporting and understanding them better? Looking forward to your insights! Thanks in advance for sharing. 🌟 Warm regards,

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Richardson070 • 5/24/2024 7:22:00 PM

Hey everyone! 🌟 I've been diving deep into the Enneagram recently and am fascinated by the nuances of the 8w9 type. I'm curious about how other 8w9s experience their blend of assertiveness and calm. How do you balance the drive for control and power typical of Type 8 with the more easy-going, peace-seeking nature of the 9 wing? Do you find that one aspect tends to dominate more in certain situations? Also, how do you navigate relationships as an 8w9? Do you feel like the combination of strength and serenity helps or complicates interactions with others? Looking forward to hearing your insights and experiences! 😊 Thanks!

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Kira737 • 5/24/2024 8:38:05 AM

Hi everyone! 👋 I’ve been exploring the Enneagram and have recently identified as an 8w9. I find the blend of the assertive, protective qualities of the Type 8 with the more laid-back, peaceful traits of the Type 9 to be quite an intriguing combination. That said, balancing these two energies can sometimes be confusing. For fellow 8w9s, how do you navigate situations where your assertiveness or desire for control conflicts with your need for peace and avoiding conflict? Any specific strategies or personal experiences you can share? Additionally, how do you feel your 9 wing influences your primary 8 traits in both positive and challenging ways? Thank you! Looking forward to hearing your insights. 😊 #Enneagram #8w9 #Type8 #Type9

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Dana404 • 5/23/2024 10:54:53 PM

Hi everyone! 😊 I've recently discovered that I'm an Enneagram 8w9, and I'm trying to understand how this affects my personality and behaviors more deeply. As an 8w9, I know the primary Type 8 traits emphasize being assertive, protective, and challenging, while the 9 wing brings a sense of calmness and desire for peace. However, I'm struggling to pinpoint how these contrasting energies play out in my daily life, especially in my relationships and at work. Can anyone with experience as an 8w9 share insights or examples of how the 9 wing influences your Type 8 traits? How do you balance the assertiveness and drive of an 8 with the peace-seeking nature of a 9? Any tips on recognizing when one wing is taking over too much? Looking forward to your thoughts and stories! Thanks in advance! 🌟 #Enneagram #8w9 #personality #selfdiscovery

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Mmmmm • 5/23/2024 6:59:10 AM

Hey everyone! 🌟 I've been diving deep into the Enneagram and I'm particularly intrigued by the Type 8w9, also known as "The Bear." I've read that this type combines the assertiveness and leadership of an 8 with the peace-seeking and easygoing nature of a 9. However, I'm curious about how this dynamic plays out in real-life scenarios. For those of you who identify as an 8w9, how do you balance the drive for control and power with the desire for peace and harmony? Do you find that one side tends to dominate more often than the other? And how does this combination affect your relationships and professional life? I'd love to hear your experiences and insights on this unique blend of traits. Thanks in advance for sharing! 😊 #Enneagram #Type8w9 #Personality #SelfGrowth

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