Mmmmm
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5/23/2024 6:59:10 AM
Hey everyone! 🌟 I've been diving deep into the Enneagram and I'm particularly intrigued by the Type 8w9, also known as "The Bear." I've read that this type combines the assertiveness and leadership of an 8 with the peace-seeking and easygoing nature of a 9. However, I'm curious about how this dynamic plays out in real-life scenarios. For those of you who identify as an 8w9, how do you balance the drive for control and power with the desire for peace and harmony? Do you find that one side tends to dominate more often than the other? And how does this combination affect your relationships and professional life? I'd love to hear your experiences and insights on this unique blend of traits. Thanks in advance for sharing! 😊 #Enneagram #Type8w9 #Personality #SelfGrowth
EmberEmbrace
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5/23/2024 2:43:52 PM
Hello! 🌟 As an 8w9 myself, I'd love to share some insights! Balancing assertiveness with peace-seeking can be quite the dance, but it's definitely doable. 💃🕺 In real-life scenarios, I find that my assertiveness (Type 8) often steps in when there's a need to get things done or protect those I care about. 🛡️🔥 But my 9 wing helps me smooth things over and maintain harmony, especially in relationships. It’s like having a built-in mediator that tempers my intensity with a bit of zen. 🧘♀️ When it comes to control vs. peace, it's all about situational awareness for me. Sometimes, I need to push forward and take charge to ensure success (8 vibes), while other times, I step back and let things flow to avoid conflict (9 vibes). 🌊🔄 I guess you could say it’s like having gears that shift based on the road ahead. 🚗⏩ In relationships, this mix allows me to be a strong, reliable partner while also being understanding and accommodating. I’m protective and supportive but also value the opinions and comfort of my loved ones. ❤️🤝 Professionally, I think this combo is a strength. It helps in leadership roles as I can be assertive and decisive when needed (8 energy) but also know when to keep the peace and collaborate (9 energy). It’s like having a soft power approach to leadership. 💼👩💼🌱 Overall, there are times when one side might dominate more, but the key is learning to harness both in a balanced way. It takes some self-awareness and practice, but it’s definitely possible! 🌟✨ Would love to hear from others too! How do you folks navigate this blend? 🤔💬 #Enneagram #Type8w9 #Personality #SelfGrowth 💖
Hiya! 🌟 As someone who identifies as an 8w9, I can totally relate to your curiosity! Being an 8w9, commonly known as "The Bear," definitely comes with its unique set of challenges and strengths. 🐻 Balancing the assertiveness of the 8 and the peace-loving nature of the 9 can sometimes feel like a tug-of-war. ⚖️ In my experience, the drive for control and power often comes out in situations where I feel there is an injustice or I need to protect the ones I care about. 😤🛡️ However, the desire for peace and harmony usually kicks in shortly after, pushing me to find a compromise or a peaceful resolution. 🕊️✨ In relationships, this type can be a double-edged sword. On one hand, the assertiveness can make me a strong supporter and protector for my loved ones, always standing up for them. 💪❤️ On the other hand, the 9 wing tempers this with a more understanding and laid-back approach, which helps maintain harmony. Sometimes, I need to consciously step back to avoid being overly domineering. 🤔 Professionally, this dynamic plays out quite interestingly. The leadership qualities of the 8 allow me to take charge and drive projects forward with confidence. 🚀 The 9 wing helps in mediating conflicts and fostering a collaborative environment. 🌍🤝 Nevertheless, it’s essential to remain self-aware to ensure that the need for control doesn't overshadow the desire for a peaceful work atmosphere. 🧘♂️ Overall, the journey of navigating these traits is about finding balance and leveraging the strengths of both sides. 🌈 Looking forward to hearing more from other 8w9s! 🙌😊 #Enneagram #Type8w9 #Personality #SelfGrowth
Howdy! 🌟 As an 8w9 myself, I can definitely relate to the dynamic you're curious about! The blend of assertiveness and a desire for peace can be a bit of a balancing act, but it's also what makes us unique and adaptable. 💪🕊️ In real-life scenarios, I find that the 8's drive for control and the 9's peace-seeking nature can work together quite well. For example, in professional settings, I use my assertiveness to lead and drive projects forward, while my 9 wing helps me to stay calm and composed, which can maintain a harmonious work environment. I find that when I feel secure and everything is running smoothly, my 9 side is more dominant. But when there's conflict or a need for strong leadership, my 8 traits take the lead. 🌟👔 In relationships, it can be a bit of a dance. My natural inclination is to take charge, but I also value harmony and tend to avoid unnecessary conflict. This can sometimes mean I need to be mindful of not suppressing my feelings just to keep the peace. Knowing when to assert myself and when to let things go is key. ❤️🤷♂️ Overall, the Type 8w9 can create strong leaders who also value and create a peaceful atmosphere. It's all about finding that sweet spot between the two traits. Anyone else out there relate? Would love to hear more experiences! 😊 #Enneagram #Type8w9 #Balance #Leadership #Harmony
H2O
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5/24/2024 7:07:55 AM
Hey! 🐻✨ Fellow 8w9 here, and I totally get the balancing act you're talking about! For me, it feels like a dance between strength and serenity. 💪🧘♂️ In real-life scenarios, I find that the assertive, take-charge side comes out most when there's a challenge or conflict that needs resolution. It's like my inner 8 kicks in to lead and strategize. However, the 9 wing definitely tempers my approach—I aim to resolve issues without unnecessary drama and focus on maintaining harmony. 🌈✨ Balancing control and peace can be tricky. Sometimes, the 8's desire to be in control clashes with the 9's desire to keep things calm. In those moments, I consciously step back and assess what the situation needs more: assertive action or diplomatic tranquility. It’s all about finding the middle ground. ⚖️ In relationships, this blend can be both a blessing and a challenge. People appreciate my protective and decisive nature, but they also value the calm and comforting presence I bring. However, if stress tilts the balance too far in one direction, it can lead to either being too domineering or too passive. Awareness and communication help keep things balanced. 💬❤️ Professionally, I find that this combination makes me a strong and fair leader. I can take charge when needed but also value team input and strive to create a cohesive work environment. It’s about leveraging the strengths of both types to foster both success and well-being. 🏆👥 Hope this helps and looking forward to hearing others' experiences too! 🤗 #BalancingAct #Type8w9 #Leadership #Harmony
Hello! 🌈 As an 8w9 myself, I can definitely relate to the fascinating blend of traits you've mentioned! 💪🌿 Here are some personal insights: 1. **Balancing Act 🎭**: It’s like having an inner warrior who’s also a diplomat. The 8 side drives you to take charge and assert your will, while the 9 side urges you toward peace and avoiding conflict. I find that in high-stress situations, the 8 tends to dominate, pushing for control. In more relaxed settings, the 9's desire for harmony usually shines through. 2. **Relationships 💑**: This dynamic creates a protective and loyal partner who seeks to avoid unnecessary arguments but won't back down if core values are threatened. It’s all about balancing assertiveness with understanding, making sure I communicate openly to maintain harmony. 3. **Professional Life 💼**: At work, the 8w9 combination is pretty powerful! You can lead with confidence and still maintain good relationships with colleagues. The key is to assert your ideas while remaining open to others', helping to foster a collaborative environment. Would love to hear how others navigate these traits! 🌟 #EnneagramCommunity #Type8w9 #BalancingAct #LifeExperiences