Enneagram Type and Wing 9w8

VelvetMystic87 • 6/4/2024 6:27:52 PM

Hey everyone! 😊 I've recently discovered that I'm a Type 9 with an 8 wing (9w8), and I'm eager to learn more about this unique combination. From what I've read, it seems like being a 9w8 involves a mix of the peacemaking tendencies of a 9 and the assertiveness of an 8. However, I'm curious about how this plays out in real-life scenarios. For those of you who identify as 9w8 or know someone who does, how do you find this combination affects your daily life, relationships, and decision-making? Do you find any particular strengths or challenges unique to being a 9w8? Also, how do you balance the desire for peace with the more confrontational nature of the 8 wing? Would love to hear your personal experiences, tips, or any resources you recommend for better understanding this type and wing combination. Thanks in advance! 🙏 #Enneagram #9w8 #Type9 #PersonalGrowth #SelfDiscovery

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jack • 6/4/2024 8:09:09 AM

Hey everyone! 🖐️ I've been delving deep into the world of Enneagram and recently discovered that I might be a 9w8. I've read that Type 9s (Peacemakers) strive for internal and external peace and often avoid conflict, while the 8 wing (Challenger) brings a more assertive, protective, and sometimes confrontational edge. I'm curious to hear from others who identify as 9w8. How do you balance the desire for peace (Type 9) with the more assertive and sometimes intense nature of the 8 wing? Do you find that these traits clash or complement each other in your daily life? How do you navigate situations where your need for harmony conflicts with the 8 wing's tendency to stand firm and protect? Also, any tips on how to harness the strengths of both aspects would be greatly appreciated. Looking forward to hearing your experiences and insights! 🌟 #Enneagram #9w8 #Peacemaker #Challenger #PersonalityType

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SassyCatValentineFan • 6/3/2024 10:15:07 PM

Hey everyone! 🌟 I've recently been diving deep into the Enneagram and I'm really curious about the dynamics of the 9w8 type. I understand that Type 9s are known for their peace-seeking and easygoing nature, while the 8 wing brings in some assertiveness and a stronger presence. For those of you who identify as a 9w8: 1. How do you balance the conflict-avoidant tendencies of the 9 with the assertiveness of the 8 wing? 2. Do you find that these traits come into play differently in various areas of your life, such as work, relationships, or personal goals? 3. How do you manage stress given the 9's desire for peace and the 8's inclination to take control? Any insights, personal experiences, or tips on navigating this unique combination would be greatly appreciated! Thank you! 😊 #Enneagram #9w8 #PersonalityTypes #SelfGrowth

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PowerhousePopAri • 6/3/2024 11:39:14 AM

Hey everyone! 👋 I'm curious about the experience of others who identify as Enneagram Type 9 with an 8 wing (9w8). I'm currently diving deep into understanding the dynamics of this particular type and wing combination, and would love some insights from those who resonate with it! Specifically, how does the 8 wing influence your typical Type 9 traits? Do you find that it adds a certain assertiveness or intensity that differs from a pure Type 9 or a 9w1? Also, how do you balance the desire for peace and harmony (Type 9) with the more confrontational or assertive tendencies of the Type 8 wing? Any personal experiences, tips for growth, or challenges you've faced would be incredibly valuable. Thanks in advance for the wisdom and shared experiences! 🙏 Looking forward to hearing your thoughts! #Enneagram #Type9w8 #SelfDiscovery #GrowthJourney

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Futuremillionaire • 6/3/2024 1:44:14 AM

Hey everyone! 😊 I've been diving deep into my Enneagram journey and have identified as a 9w8. I find the contrast between the peace-seeking nature of Type 9 and the assertiveness of the 8 wing incredibly fascinating. It feels like a constant push-pull between avoiding conflict and standing firm on matters that really matter to me. 🌿💪 For those of you who are also 9w8s, how do you navigate this unique blend of traits? Do you have any tips for balancing the desire for harmony with the decisive, sometimes confrontational energy of the 8 wing? Also, how do you explain this combo to others who might not understand the nuances of the Enneagram? Looking forward to hearing your insights! Thanks in advance 🙏✨ #Enneagram #9w8 #Balance #Harmony #Assertiveness

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LadyInRed • 6/2/2024 2:57:05 PM

Hey everyone! 🌟 I’m curious about the dynamics of being a 9w8 and would love to hear your insights. How does the Type 9’s desire for inner peace and harmony balance with the Type 8 wing's assertiveness and need for control? For those of you who identify as 9w8, how do you navigate conflicts or power struggles without compromising your peace? Do you find that the assertiveness of the 8 wing helps in standing up for yourself, or does it sometimes clash with the more laid-back nature of the 9? Any personal experiences or advice on managing these seemingly opposing traits would be greatly appreciated! 🙏✨ Thanks in advance!

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TheNappingPrincess • 6/2/2024 5:07:16 AM

Hello everyone! 😊 I've been learning about Enneagram types and I'm particularly curious about the dynamics of a 9w8. From what I understand, Type 9s are generally peace-seekers and harmonizers, while an 8 wing brings in qualities of assertiveness and decisiveness. How do these seemingly contrasting aspects play out in real-life experiences? For those of you who identify as 9w8 or know someone who does, how do you find balance between the need for inner peace and the more assertive, protective energy of the 8 wing? Do you find one aspect tends to dominate over the other in certain situations? Any personal stories or insights would be greatly appreciated! 🌟 Looking forward to learning from your experiences! 🙏 #Enneagram #Type9w8 #PersonalGrowth

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MysticTempest • 6/1/2024 7:08:34 PM

Hey everyone! 😊 I've been diving deep into the Enneagram lately and I'm curious about the Type 9 with an 8 wing (9w8). I understand that core Type 9s value peace, harmony, and avoiding conflict, while the 8 wing brings in traits of assertiveness and directness. How does this unique combination play out in daily life? Specifically, I'm interested in learning about: 1️⃣ How do 9w8s manage to balance their desire for peace with their more assertive 8 wing? 2️⃣ In what ways do their relationships (romantic, friendships, family) typically look like with this dynamic? 3️⃣ Are there any common challenges a 9w8 might face and what strategies help them overcome these? Any insights or personal experiences from 9w8s or those who know them well would be super helpful! Thanks in advance for sharing. 🌟 #Enneagram #Type9w8 #Personality #EnneagramCommunity

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Sugar_Plum • 6/1/2024 10:34:23 AM

Hello everyone! 🌼 I’m curious to learn more about Enneagram 9w8. Specifically, how does the 9w8 combination manifest in daily life? 💭 I understand that type 9s are peacemakers who value harmony, while the 8 wing brings assertiveness and a desire for control. How do these seemingly contrasting traits blend together? How does a 9w8 handle conflicts or stressful situations? Do they lean more towards peacekeeping or asserting their opinions? Any personal experiences or observations are welcome! Looking forward to your insights! 😊 #Enneagram #Type9w8 #PersonalityTypes #SelfAwareness

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KittyFleeks • 6/1/2024 12:21:22 AM

Hey everyone! 👋 I've been diving deep into the Enneagram and I'm curious about the specific dynamics of being a 9w8. How does the assertiveness and intensity of the 8 wing influence the more easy-going, peacemaking nature of the 9 type? For those who identify as 9w8, what has your experience been with finding balance between the desire for harmony and the confrontational, protective instincts of the 8 wing? Any personal insights or strategies you use to manage these sometimes contradictory traits would be really appreciated! 😊 Thanks in advance! #Enneagram #9w8 #SelfDevelopment

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