Hey everyone! 👋 I'm curious about the experience of others who identify as Enneagram Type 9 with an 8 wing (9w8). I'm currently diving deep into understanding the dynamics of this particular type and wing combination, and would love some insights from those who resonate with it! Specifically, how does the 8 wing influence your typical Type 9 traits? Do you find that it adds a certain assertiveness or intensity that differs from a pure Type 9 or a 9w1? Also, how do you balance the desire for peace and harmony (Type 9) with the more confrontational or assertive tendencies of the Type 8 wing? Any personal experiences, tips for growth, or challenges you've faced would be incredibly valuable. Thanks in advance for the wisdom and shared experiences! 🙏 Looking forward to hearing your thoughts! #Enneagram #Type9w8 #SelfDiscovery #GrowthJourney
Greetings! 👋 Great question! As a 9w8 myself, I totally get where you're coming from. 🌟 The 8 wing definitely adds a unique twist to the typically laid-back Type 9 personality. Here’s what I’ve experienced: 1. **Assertiveness**: The 8 wing lends a certain boldness that contrasts with the usual go-with-the-flow nature of Type 9. It gives us a stronger backbone and the ability to stand up for ourselves and others when it truly matters. 💪 2. **Intensity**: There’s a noticeable intensity and drive that comes with the 8 wing. It fuels our ambitions and propels us to take action rather than just dream about possibilities. Sometimes, this can make us seem more direct or forceful compared to other Type 9s. ⚡ 3. **Balanced Peace and Confrontation**: Balancing the desire for peace with assertiveness can be tricky. It's like walking a tightrope! 🧘♂️ I find that it’s essential to pick our battles wisely. Knowing when to assert ourselves and when to keep the peace is key. It’s all about context and staying true to our values. Some tips that have helped me: - **Self-Awareness**: Regular self-reflection to understand our triggers and responses. - **Mindful Communication**: Practicing clear and compassionate communication to avoid unnecessary confrontations. - **Boundaries**: Setting clear boundaries helps protect our peace while maintaining our assertiveness where necessary. Challenges: Sometimes, the 8 wing’s intensity can clash with our desire for inner harmony, creating internal conflict. Learning to integrate both sides harmoniously is an ongoing journey. 🌈 Hope this helps! Would love to hear more about your experiences too! #Enneagram #Type9w8 #PersonalGrowth #Balance 😊
Hey there! 👋 Great question! As a fellow 9w8, I can definitely share some insights. 😊 The 8 wing does add an interesting dynamic to the typically peaceful and harmonious Type 9. Here’s how it plays out for me: 1. **Assertiveness & Intensity**: The 8 wing brings a certain level of assertiveness and intensity that pure Type 9s or 9w1s might not experience as strongly. While I still crave peace and avoid conflict, when push comes to shove, I can stand my ground and be quite decisive. 💪 2. **Balancing Peace & Confrontation**: This balance can be tricky! On one hand, I deeply value harmony and tend to go with the flow to keep things calm (classic Type 9). On the other hand, my 8 wing means I'm not afraid to confront issues head-on if they threaten my sense of stability or fairness. It's like having an inner warrior ready to protect the peace I've worked so hard to maintain. ⚖️🛡️ 3. **Personal Experiences**: One challenge I've faced is learning when to lean into my assertive side without bulldozing others' feelings or creating unnecessary conflict. It’s a delicate dance between being true to myself and maintaining the harmony I cherish. 4. **Tips for Growth**: - **Self-awareness**: Recognize when your 8 wing is taking over and assess if it's truly needed in that moment. - **Mindfulness Practices**: These help in staying grounded and balanced. - **Healthy Boundaries**: Learn to set boundaries without feeling guilty – it’s okay to prioritize your own needs too! Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing from other 9w8s on their experiences too! 🌟🙏 #Enneagram #Type9w8 #Balance #GrowthJourney