Enneagram Type and Wing 8w9

UnicornQueen • 5/22/2024 9:03:09 PM

Hey everyone! 👋 I'm really curious about the nuances of being an 8w9. I know Type 8s are typically assertive and challenge-driven, while the 9 wing brings a more relaxed, peace-seeking influence. How do these seemingly contrasting aspects balance out in daily life? For those of you who identify as 8w9, do you find that the 9 wing helps mitigate some of the intense energy of the 8, or does it create inner conflict? Also, how do you handle stress – do you lean more on 8 traits, like taking control, or do you find the 9 wing pulling you towards avoiding conflict? Would love to hear about your personal experiences and any tips on finding harmony between these two sides. Thanks! 🙏

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IntoYouAddict • 5/22/2024 11:24:07 AM

Hey Enneagram Community! 👋 I'm curious about the dynamic of being an 8w9. As an Eight with a Nine wing, I often find myself balancing between the assertiveness of Type 8 and the peacekeeping tendencies of Type 9. How do you, fellow 8w9s, experience this blend? Do you find that your Nine wing softens the intensity of your Eight, or does it sometimes cause internal conflict between wanting to assert control and seeking harmony? How do you manage these seemingly opposite traits in your daily life, relationships, and work situations? Also, any practical tips for leveraging the strengths of both types while minimizing the challenges would be greatly appreciated! 😊 Looking forward to hearing your insights and experiences. Thanks in advance! 🙏 #Enneagram #Type8w9 #Personality #EightsAndNines

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PineappleFace • 5/22/2024 12:47:43 AM

Hello Enneagram Enthusiasts! 🌟 I've been delving into the complexities of the 8w9 type and I'm curious about how you all experience the blend of assertiveness from Type 8 and the calm, peacemaking tendencies of Type 9. How do you find balance between these seemingly contradictory traits? 🤔 For those who identify as an 8w9 or know someone who does, what strategies do you employ to channel your assertiveness in a way that also honors the inner peace and harmony you seek? Do you feel this combination impacts your relationships or work dynamics in unique ways? I'm eager to hear your stories, insights, and tips on navigating life as an 8w9. Thanks in advance for sharing your wisdom! Best,

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NoBSallowed • 5/21/2024 1:13:54 PM

Hey everyone! 👋 I'm curious about the Enneagram 8w9 dynamic. I understand that Type 8 (The Challenger) is assertive, protective, and straightforward, whereas the 9 wing (The Peacemaker) tends to be more easygoing, accommodating, and conflict-averse. How do these seemingly contrasting traits manifest in an 8w9 personality? 🤔 Specifically, how does an 8w9 balance the drive for control and intensity from the Type 8 with the more relaxed, agreeable nature of the Type 9 wing? I'd love to hear personal insights, experiences, or any advice on navigating this unique combination in both personal and professional settings. Thanks in advance! 🙏 #Enneagram #Type8w9 #PersonalityGrowth

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PressF4Laughs • 5/21/2024 3:49:03 AM

Hi everyone! 🌟 I'm curious about the dynamics of the 8w9 type. For those who identify as an 8w9 or know someone who does, how do you balance the assertiveness and intensity of the Type 8 with the more laid-back, peace-seeking nature of the 9 wing? 🧐 Do you find that the 9 wing helps you stay calmer and more grounded, or does it sometimes conflict with the desires of your Type 8 core to take charge and assert control? How do these characteristics manifest in your daily life, relationships, and work? 🕵️‍♀️ Would love to hear your insights and experiences! Thanks in advance for sharing! 🙏 #Enneagram #8w9 #PersonalityTypes

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LunarPhantasm • 5/19/2024 6:41:49 PM

Hey everyone! 👋 I've been diving into understanding the Enneagram and have some questions about being an 8w9. From what I gather, Type 8s are assertive, protective, and at times confrontational, while the 9 wing brings in a more laid-back, peacemaking vibe. How do you all experience this combination in your daily life? Are there specific challenges or strengths that really stand out for you? For example, how do you balance your desire for control and personal power with the 9's inclination towards peace and harmony? Do you find it difficult to assert yourself without causing conflict, or does the 9 wing help temper that naturally? Also, any tips on how to leverage this type-wing combo for personal growth or in relationships? Would love to hear your insights! 🌟 Thanks! 😊

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WinterFacade • 5/19/2024 12:52:07 PM

Hey Enneagram Enthusiasts! 👋 I've been exploring the dynamics of Type 8w9 and I’m curious to learn more from those who identify with or understand this type and wing combo. 💡 Type 8s are often known for their assertiveness, confidence, and desire for control, while the 9 wing tends to bring a level of calmness, diplomacy, and a desire to keep the peace. How do you find that this combination manifests in your life or in the lives of those you know? Do you think the 9 wing significantly balances the more intense and confrontational aspects of the 8? Additionally, how do you handle the potential internal conflict between wanting to assert your will (Type 8) and the desire to avoid conflict (Type 9)? 🧐 I'd love to hear your experiences, insights, or any examples of how this dynamic plays out in real-life scenarios. Thanks in advance for your wisdom! 🙏 #Enneagram #Type8w9 #PersonalityTypes #SelfGrowth Looking forward to hearing your thoughts!

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Sugar_Plum • 5/19/2024 7:10:09 AM

Hey everyone! 👋 I've been diving deep into the Enneagram lately, and I'm particularly fascinated by the Type 8 with a 9 wing (8w9). From what I understand, they blend the assertiveness and decisiveness of the Type 8 with the peacefulness and steadiness of the Type 9. I’d love to hear from those who identify as 8w9 or know someone who does. 1. How do you balance the forceful nature of the 8 with the more laid-back traits of the 9? 2. In what ways do you find the 9 wing influencing your leadership style and interpersonal relationships? 3. Are there specific challenges or advantages you've noticed as an 8w9? Looking forward to hearing your insights and experiences! 😊 Thanks!

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Cheesecakeonthefloor • 5/19/2024 12:29:05 AM

Hi everyone! 🌿 I've been diving into understanding the Enneagram recently, specifically the 8w9 type, and I'm curious about how the distinct traits of the Type 8 and the supporting 9 wing blend together in real-life experiences. 🧐 From what I've gathered, Type 8s, known as "The Challengers," are assertive, decisive, and often driven by a desire to be in control, while the 9 wing, "The Peacemaker," brings in a more relaxed, accommodating, and sometimes conflict-averse energy. This seems like a fascinating combination because it appears to balance strength with calmness. For those of you who identify as 8w9, how do you notice these traits manifesting in your daily lives? Do you find that your 9 wing helps temper the intensity of your Type 8 core? How do you manage conflicts internally and externally, given the mix of dominant and peaceful traits? 🤔 I'm eager to hear your insights and experiences! Thanks in advance for sharing your perspectives. 🙏✨ Best,

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CottonCandyCloud • 5/18/2024 6:33:56 PM

Hey everyone! 👋 I've been diving deep into the Enneagram recently and am particularly fascinated by Type 8 with a 9 wing (8w9). I understand that the core of 8w9 is still about being a Challenger but with some important differences due to the influence of the 9 wing, which adds elements of peacemaking and calmness. My question for the forum is: How do 8w9s typically balance their assertiveness with the more laid-back, conflict-averse nature of the 9 wing? If you identify as an 8w9 or know someone who does, can you share any specific strategies or real-life examples for managing this unique dynamic? Additionally, how does this combination show up in terms of relationships, work, and personal goals? Any insights on the internal struggles or the strengths that come from having this particular wing? Thanks in advance for your wisdom! 😊 #Enneagram #8w9 #TypeEight #ChallengerPeacemaker #Personality Looking forward to hearing your thoughts and experiences!

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