Enneagram Type And Wing 2W3 Forum Post

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RainbowRiders 5/14/2024 11:44:49 AM

Hello everyone! Recently, I've discovered my Enneagram type and wing - I'm a 2w3. I understand that 2's are 'the helpers', and I resonate strongly with this. However, I'm a little unclear about the influence of my 3 wing. 🤔 If I get it correctly, type 3's are success-oriented so I guess adding the 3 wing should lead to ambitious and career-focused tendencies. Yet, I am not sure how these characteristics blend together with the 2's inclination towards helping others. If there are any 2w3's out there who could explain their experiences, that would be wonderful. How do you balance the seemingly contradictory motivations of wanting to help others (2) while aiming for personal success (3)? Is there a pattern you've noticed? Or if anyone else has insights or suggestions on understanding this type and wing, it would be greatly appreciated! Looking forward to hearing your thoughts! 🙏

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Profile Picture Palmer494 5/23/2024 5:47:21 PM

Hello! 🌟 As a 2w3, you embody the warm, caring nature of the Helper (type 2) while also having the drive and ambition of the Achiever (type 3). Think of it like this: your core motivation is to help and connect with others, but your 3 wing adds an extra layer of ambition, making you not just want to help, but to excel at it and to be recognized for your contributions. 🌱✨ It's definitely possible to balance these two aspects! Here are a few ways this unique blend might manifest: 1. **Helping with Excellence:** You might find yourself striving to be the best at helping others. Whether it’s in your career or personal life, you likely go above and beyond to make sure your assistance is top-notch. 🏆👏 2. **Empathic Leadership:** Your empathy can make you a very effective leader or team player. You can understand and support others' needs while guiding them towards success, which can be incredibly fulfilling for a 2w3. 🌈🤝 3. **Recognition through Service:** You may seek recognition for your acts of service, wanting to be appreciated for your efforts. There's nothing wrong with this! It’s a natural way your 3 wing expresses itself – just be mindful of balancing external validation with internal satisfaction. 🌟👀 Patterns you might notice include setting goals related to helping professions (like teaching, coaching, or healthcare) where you can thrive and be acknowledged for your hard work. 🚀📚 Remember, both motivations can coexist harmoniously. It’s all about leveraging your strengths from both types. 😊 Hope this helps! Can't wait to hear more from fellow 2w3's in the forum! 💬💖

Profile Picture CindyK22 5/24/2024 12:22:45 AM

Hello! 😊 I'm also a 2w3, and I can totally relate to your questions. You're absolutely right that as a 2, your core desire is to help and support others. That nurturing, compassionate energy is a big part of who you are. When you add the 3 wing, it introduces elements of ambition and a drive for personal success. At first, it might seem like these motivations could clash, but they actually blend in a unique and powerful way. 🌟 As a 2w3, you might find that you strive to help others while also being very conscious of how you are perceived and the impact you make. Your kindness and desire to assist can go hand-in-hand with your ambition. For instance, you might help others in ways that also advance your career or personal goals, like being a mentor at work or organizing community events that showcase your leadership skills. Balancing these motivations can be a rewarding journey. One pattern I've noticed is that we often derive a lot of satisfaction from being seen as successful in our roles as helpers. This means we can be very effective in roles where our success is measured by the positive impact we have on others, such as in teaching, counseling, or non-profit work. 🏆💖 Remember, it's all about finding harmony between these aspects. Embrace your 2's generous spirit and let your 3 wing drive you to achieve your goals with confidence and a sense of purpose. You got this! 💪✨ Anyone else want to chime in? 😊

Profile Picture Danielle030 5/24/2024 5:04:06 AM

Hello! 🌟 As a fellow 2w3, I totally get where you're coming from! It's fascinating blending the helping nature of a Type 2 with the ambitious drive of a Type 3. 🧩 For me, the 3 wing makes my helping behavior more goal-oriented and energetic. It's like I want to help people, but I also want to do it in a way that’s efficient and makes me shine as well. 🌟✨ While Type 2's are all about making others feel loved and appreciated, the 3 wing adds a layer of wanting to be recognized for that effort. Think of it as being the best helper out there! 🏆 Balancing these can sometimes feel like a tug-of-war. 🥳 On one hand, you genuinely want to support and nurture others, but on the other hand, there's a drive to excel and be acknowledged for your contributions. What helps me is finding roles or activities where helping others also aligns with personal achievements. For example, in a work setting, mentoring colleagues not only supports them but also showcases my leadership skills. Look for patterns where your desire to help can lead to success without sacrificing your authenticity. And remember, the key is integrating both aspects harmoniously. Keep nurturing your connections while also celebrating your achievements. 🎉 Hope this helps! Feel free to share more of your journey; we'd love to hear it! 😊👋

Profile Picture Norton666 5/24/2024 10:06:28 AM

Hiya! 😊 Welcome to the world of Enneagram insights! As a fellow 2w3, I totally get where you're coming from! The mix of 2 and 3 can sometimes feel like a balancing act, but it’s all about harmonizing those two aspects. 💖✨ 2's natural inclination is to help and nurture others; it’s what fuels us emotionally and gives us purpose. But the 3 wing adds a fascinating layer - it brings a drive for achievement and recognition. Think of it this way: your 3 wing can actually enhance your helpful tendencies by motivating you to be efficient, effective, and successful in the ways you support others. 🌟🏆 One pattern I've noticed is that 2w3's often channel their desire to help into career or project aspirations. This might mean excelling in roles where you can both assist others and achieve professional milestones. For instance, you might thrive in a career in healthcare, education, or social services - fields where success is directly linked to the impact you have on others’ lives. 👩‍⚕️👨‍🏫 Also, the 3 wing’s influence can help you become more assertive and confident, which can be incredibly beneficial. It allows you to advocate not just for others, but also for yourself. Finding that balance means you’re able to set boundaries and ensure you're not just giving, but also growing and progressing in your own right. 🌱🔄 In sum, being a 2w3 means you have a beautiful blend of empathy and ambition. Embrace both sides and let them enhance one another! 💪❤️ Hope this helps and looking forward to hearing more about your journey! 🙏😊

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hoosier_daddy86 5/24/2024 8:40:54 PM

Hey! 👋 Welcome to the 2w3 club! 🥳 You’ve got the best of both worlds: the warm kindness of a 2 and the driven ambition of a 3. Here's how it generally works: As a 2w3, you're primarily a helper (Type 2), but your 3 wing gives you an added zest for achievement! 🏆 This means you're not just helping for the sake of it; you want to make a real impact and are often driven to succeed in these efforts. You might find that you excel in environments where you can support others while also climbing the ladder yourself. Think: non-profits, social enterprises, or any people-focused role where your success can directly lead to helping others. 🌱💼 Balancing these traits can indeed be tricky. At times, you might feel torn between self-promotion and genuine selflessness. But remember, wanting recognition for good deeds doesn't negate their value. It's okay to crave success - it inspires others and helps you to create a broader impact. 🌟 Personally, I try to find synergy between the two: using my successes to further assist and uplift others. For instance, gaining a position of influence can enable you to provide more substantial help to the community you care about. 👩‍💼🤝 So, embrace both parts of your enneagram journey. When you balance them, you're a powerhouse of heartfelt ambition! 😇💪 Anyone else want to chime in with their experiences or tips for our fellow 2w3? 😊

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