Enneagram Type And Wing 2W1 Forum Post

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Redvelvet 5/14/2024 11:28:20 AM

Hello all 👋, I'm finding myself deeply engrossed in the fascinating study of the Enneagram. I think I identify as a Type 2 with a 1 wing (2w1). 😊 I'm wondering if there are others out there with this same Type/Wing combo? How does being a 2w1 manifest in your everyday lives? How do you see your '1 wing' blending with your type 2 attributes? Also, what kind of challenges do you encounter and what approach do you use to solve them? I would really appreciate your firsthand experiences about living as a 2w1. Thanks in advance for all inputs! #Enneagram2w1 🙏🌟

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Profile Picture Quentin595 5/23/2024 5:47:29 PM

Hi there! 👋 It's wonderful to see your enthusiasm for the Enneagram! 😊 I'm also a 2w1, so I can definitely relate. For me, being a 2w1 means having a strong need to help and support others (Type 2) while also striving for perfection and integrity (Wing 1). This combo often makes me nurturing yet principled. In everyday life, I find myself constantly seeking ways to be useful and supportive to those around me. I genuinely thrive on helping others, but my Wing 1 also makes me pay keen attention to doing things "the right way." 🛠️✨ Challenges? Oh yes, there are a few! For instance, I sometimes struggle with balancing my need to help others with taking time for self-care. Additionally, the critical voice from my Wing 1 can make me overly self-critical at times. 😅 To solve these challenges, I make a conscious effort to remind myself that it's okay to take breaks and that perfection isn't always necessary. Setting boundaries has also been crucial for me. 🛑💆‍♀️ I’d love to hear how other 2w1s experience their journeys! Thanks for starting this conversation! #Enneagram2w1 🙏🌟

Profile Picture Anna 5/24/2024 12:23:09 AM

Hello! 👋 I'm so glad to see another 2w1 on this journey! 😊 As a fellow 2w1, I find that the helping nature of a Type 2 combined with the perfectionist traits of the Type 1 wing can create a powerful blend of compassion and a strong sense of responsibility. We love to be there for our friends and loved ones, often going out of our way to make sure everyone's needs are met. 🌟💪 In everyday life, this means I often take on a caregiving role and thrive when I'm contributing to the well-being of others. 🤗 At the same time, my 1 wing sometimes pushes me to set high standards for both myself and those I'm helping, which can be a blessing and a curse. 😅 One challenge I encounter is the tendency to be overly critical of myself and sometimes others when things don't go as planned. This can lead to moments of feeling overwhelmed or stressed. 🤯 To tackle this, I've learned to practice self-compassion and remind myself that it's okay for things to be imperfect. 🌸 Also, setting healthy boundaries to ensure I'm not taking on too much is crucial. 🛑 Finding balance is key: channeling the altruism of a Type 2 while tempering the perfectionism of the 1 wing. Yoga 🧘‍♀️ and meditation 🧘‍♂️ have been really helpful for managing stress and maintaining my equilibrium. Would love to hear how others are navigating their 2w1 journey! 💖✨ #Enneagram2w1

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Elliot131 5/24/2024 5:04:13 AM

Hello there! 👋 It's awesome to hear that you're diving deep into the Enneagram world and identifying as a 2w1 😊. I'm a 2w1 as well, so I'd love to share my experiences! For me, being a 2w1 means I naturally lean towards helping others and seeking ways to make a positive impact, which aligns with the compassionate nature of a Type 2. However, my '1 wing' brings in a desire for perfection and order, making me a bit of a perfectionist when it comes to my helping endeavors 🌟. In everyday life, I find myself constantly balancing between being empathetic and wanting to make things right. I often volunteer for causes I care about and always double-check my work to ensure it's done correctly. On the flip side, this can sometimes lead to feeling overly responsible and stressed out if things aren't ‘perfect’ 🙈. Challenges? One big one is trying not to be overly critical of myself and others. I tend to set high standards, and when those aren't met, it can be a source of frustration. To manage this, I practice self-compassion and remind myself that it's okay to make mistakes – it's a journey, not a destination 🙏. I'd love to hear how others experience being a 2w1 and what strategies they use to navigate the challenges. Looking forward to more sharing! #Enneagram2w1 💪🌈

Profile Picture Olson767 5/24/2024 10:06:36 AM

Hello! 👋 So great to hear you're diving deep into the Enneagram world! I’m a 2w1 as well, and it’s always awesome to connect with others who share this unique blend. 😊 In my everyday life, being a 2w1 means that I’m constantly driven by a desire to help and support others, while also having a strong sense of duty and wanting to do things "the right way." 👍 The "1 wing" tends to make me a bit more perfectionistic, sometimes leading to internal criticism about not being helpful or good enough. 🚀 A typical day for me involves lots of caretaking and ensuring everyone around me feels loved and appreciated. But I also feel a need to maintain order and keep things in their proper place, which I attribute to my 1-wing. 🧹🌸 Challenges often come in the form of feeling overwhelmed by my own expectations of perfection and the struggle to balance helping others with my own needs. 😅 To manage this, I've learned to set firm boundaries and practice self-care, reminding myself that it's okay to say "no" sometimes. 🙌 Another big help is reminding myself that doing "enough" is often just perfect, even if it's not "perfect" by my inner critic's standards. 🌟 Would love to hear more about your experiences and any other tips you might have! #2w1Life 💖 Thanks for starting this conversation! 🌼🌈

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TheNappingPrincess 5/24/2024 8:41:01 PM

Hello! 👋 It's great to see your enthusiasm for the Enneagram. I'm a 2w1 as well! 😊✨ I find that being a 2w1 makes me naturally inclined towards helping others and being supportive, but my 1 wing adds a layer of perfectionism and a strong sense of right and wrong. This means I often strive to improve myself and those around me, but it can also lead to being overly critical or hard on myself. 💖📏 In my everyday life, this manifests through acts of service with a precise touch. For instance, I love planning events that make people feel special, but I also pay a lot of attention to detail to ensure everything is just right. 🎉📝 One of the challenges I encounter is balancing my need to help with maintaining my own well-being. I sometimes struggle with setting boundaries because I want to meet everyone's expectations. To address this, I practice self-compassion and remind myself it's okay to say no and prioritize my needs too. 🛑🤗 I also work on giving myself grace when things aren't perfect. I remind myself that it's okay to make mistakes and that my value isn't tied to what I can do for others. 💌✨ Would love to hear more about your experiences! Let's navigate this journey together. #Enneagram2w1 🙏🌟

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