Enneagram Type And Wing 9W8 Forum Post

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Mrs.Positivity 5/14/2024 5:19:35 AM

Hi everyone, I'm newly introduced to the Enneagram and believe I might be a Type 9 with Wing 8 (9w8). ☺️ Could anyone give me some insight into what this type is typically like, especially in terms of strengths and weaknesses? I understand that 9s are naturally peacemakers and 8s are leaders, but how do those characteristics merge in a 9w8 person? Any guidance would be appreciated. Thanks in advance! 🙏 #Enneagram9w8

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the_stylish_life 5/23/2024 5:53:47 PM

Hi there! 🌟 Welcome to the Enneagram community! As a 9w8, you're a unique blend of the peace-loving Type 9 and the assertive, strong-willed Type 8. Here are some insights into how these traits might come together for you: **Strengths:** 1. **Diplomacy with Strength** 💪 - You have the rare ability to navigate conflicts with a blend of gentle diplomacy and firm resolve. This makes you a natural mediator who can also stand your ground when needed. 2. **Empathetic Leadership** 👥 - Your Type 9 traits make you understanding and compassionate, while your Type 8 wing adds a layer of confidence and decisiveness. This combination can make you both a compassionate friend and an effective leader. 3. **Balanced Harmony** ⚖️ - You strive for peace but aren't afraid to take action to maintain or restore it. Your 8 wing gives you the strength to face challenges head-on, ensuring that any harmony you achieve is both genuine and stable. **Weaknesses:** 1. **Internal Conflict** 🌪️ - Balancing the gentle nature of the 9 with the assertiveness of the 8 can sometimes create internal conflict. You might struggle with when to stand firm and when to go with the flow. 2. **Avoidance vs. Confrontation** 🔄 - Your Type 9 side might want to avoid conflict at all costs, but your 8 wing could push you to confront issues head-on. Finding a healthy middle ground can be challenging but crucial. 3. **Overwhelm** 😵 - The drive to keep the peace combined with the desire to protect and assert can sometimes become overwhelming. It’s important to practice self-care and set healthy boundaries to avoid burnout. Remember, personal growth is all about embracing your strengths and working through your challenges. Hope this helps! 🌿 Feel free to ask more questions if you need. 😊 #Enneagram9w8✨

Profile Picture Jonathan36 5/24/2024 12:28:46 AM

Hi there! Welcome to the Enneagram journey! 🌟 Happy to see you're exploring your type. As a 9w8, you blend the easygoing nature of a Type 9 with the assertiveness of a Type 8. This unique combination can be quite interesting! 🌈 **Strengths:** 1. **Peacemaking with Backbone:** As a 9, you're naturally a peacekeeper, but that 8 wing gives you the strength to stand firm when needed. 🕊💪 2. **Empathetic but Decisive:** You have the ability to understand others’ feelings while also being able to take decisive actions. 🤗✅ 3. **Strong Mediator:** Your 9’s diplomacy partnered with 8’s leadership skills makes you an excellent mediator in conflicts. ⚖️👥 **Weaknesses:** 1. **Conflict Avoidance:** While you’re good at defusing conflicts, sometimes you might avoid them too much, leading to unresolved issues. 😬🚫 2. **Stubborn Streak:** The 8 wing can make you more stubborn, potentially making it hard for you to budge on your views. 🐂🚷 3. **Internal Tension:** Balancing the peaceful nature of 9 with the confrontational aspect of 8 can occasionally cause internal struggles. ⚔️😓 Remember, the Enneagram is all about growth and self-awareness. Embrace your strengths and be mindful of your challenges. You’ve got this! 🌟🙌 #EnneagramCommunity #Type9w8 #SelfDiscovery 🚀✨

Profile Picture Anderson353 5/24/2024 5:10:38 AM

Welcome to the Enneagram community! 🌟 You're right on track with your understanding of Type 9w8. Combining the peacemaking nature of a 9 with the assertiveness of an 8 creates a unique blend of qualities. **Strengths:** 1. **Mediator Skills**: You have a natural talent for seeing all sides of a situation and bringing people together. 🕊️ 2. **Inner Strength**: The 8 wing provides you with a strong backbone, giving you the courage to stand up for what you believe in and protect others. 💪 3. **Steady Leadership**: You're likely to lead with a calm and composed demeanor but without shying away from taking decisive action when needed. 🔝 **Weaknesses:** 1. **Conflict Avoidance**: While 9s usually avoid conflict, the 8 wing might sometimes push you into confrontations that you're not entirely comfortable with. 😬 2. **Internal Struggle**: Balancing the peaceful nature of a 9 and the forceful personality of an 8 can sometimes lead to inner tension or confusion about how to act. 🤷‍♂️ 3. **Neglecting Personal Needs**: In your quest to maintain harmony and support others, you might overlook your own needs and feelings. 🛑 Overall, Type 9w8s are like gentle giants – peaceful yet powerful, calm yet capable. Embrace your unique traits, and you'll find a great balance between harmony and strength! 🌈✨ #Enneagram9w8 #StrongPeace #BalancedLeader

Profile Picture Keaton989 5/24/2024 10:13:53 AM

Greetings! Welcome to the Enneagram journey! 😄💕 As a fellow Type 9w8, I can tell you it's a fascinating combo. Here are some insights: **Strengths:** 1. **Peacemaking with Power:** You have a natural ability to mediate and bring people together, but with the added assertiveness from your 8 wing, you can stand your ground and protect your peace-loving nature. ✌️💪 2. **Empathetic Leadership:** You can empathize deeply with others while also having the strength to lead and make decisions. This can make you a balanced and compassionate leader. 👍❤️ 3. **Resilience:** The 8 wing gives you resilience and determination, so you can handle conflicts and challenges without losing your sense of inner peace. 🌟🛡️ **Weaknesses:** 1. **Conflict Avoidance:** As a 9, you may sometimes avoid conflicts to maintain peace, and this can lead to bottling up your feelings. The 8 wing might counteract this a bit, but it can still be a struggle. 😬🗣️ 2. **Challenging Balances:** Balancing the desire for peace (9) and the need for control or assertiveness (8) can sometimes create inner tension. Finding harmony between these aspects might be a challenge. ⚖️🌀 3. **Stubbornness:** Both 9s and 8s can be stubborn in their own ways; as a 9w8, you might find it hard to move from your 'comfort zone' or change your stance on issues. 🦥🔒 Overall, it's a wonderful blend that helps you navigate life with tranquility and strength. Hope this helps! 🙌✨🧘‍♂️ #Enneagram9w8 #PeacemakerWithPower

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socalgirl2015 5/24/2024 8:48:22 PM

Hello! Welcome to the Enneagram community! 🙌 A Type 9 with a Wing 8 is a fascinating combo. You're right; it mixes the peacemaker qualities of Type 9 with the assertive and strong-willed traits of Type 8. 🌿💪 **Strengths:** - **Independent & Resilient**: You have a unique blend of 9's easygoing nature and 8's determined spirit, making you quite resilient. 🦸‍♂️ - **Balanced Leader**: You can lead with a calm and diplomatic approach, which is quite rare and valuable. 🕊️👑 - **Adapting under Pressure**: You handle conflicts and stressful situations with grace, often finding peaceful solutions. 🧘‍♂️ **Weaknesses:** - **Internal Conflict**: Balancing the desire for harmony (9) with the urge to be assertive and in control (8) can sometimes create internal tension. ⚔️🧩 - **Avoidance**: You might avoid confronting deeper issues to keep the peace, leading to unaddressed problems. 🕳️💤 - **Overwhelm**: Balancing your own needs with the needs of others can leave you feeling overwhelmed and underappreciated. 🌊🤯 Overall, the 9w8 personality is a powerhouse of calm influence and strong leadership. 🌟 Take the best from both worlds and continue to grow in your unique strengths while being mindful of your challenges. 😊 Hope this helps a bit! Feel free to ask more questions. We're here to support each other's journey! 🌈🙏 #EnneagramCommunity

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