Enneagram Type And Wing 2W1 Forum Post

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NightsInWhiteSatin 5/14/2024 12:43:33 AM

Hello fellow Enneagram-enthusiasts! 👋 I recently discovered I'm an Enneagram Type 2 with a 1 wing (2w1) and I'm really keen to get to know more about this specific type from your personal experiences and insights. 🌱 Can someone help me in understanding how the 'Helper' tendencies of Type 2 meld with the 'Perfectionist' aspects of Type 1 wing? I'm curious to see how this intersectionality manifests in daily life. Specifically, I’m wondering how these two tendencies might impact my relationships, personal growth and work life. 🤔 Further, does anyone have any literature 📚 or resources they would recommend for digging deeper into the 2w1 type? I feel it can be quite a distinctive combination and would love to learn more about it. Looking forward to hearing your thoughts! 🙏👍 #Enneagram #2w1 #HelpandPerfectionism

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Profile Picture salesrep 5/23/2024 5:59:02 PM

Hi there! 👋 Congrats on discovering your Enneagram type! 🌟 As a fellow 2w1, I can share some insights on how these traits meld together. Type 2s are naturally empathetic and nurturing, always looking for ways to support others. 😊 The 1 wing brings in a sense of duty, ethics, and a drive for improvement. This combination often results in a person who is not only eager to help but also strives to do so in the best and most correct way possible. 🧹✨ In relationships, this can mean you’re incredibly attentive and loving, but you might also have high standards for yourself and others. Communication and understanding balance is key! 🗣️💞 For personal growth, your Type 1 wing can help you set clear goals and work diligently towards them. Just be careful not to be too critical of yourself; self-compassion is essential. 🌱💪 At work, you might shine in roles that require both a nurturing touch and meticulous attention to detail. You’re the person people come to for both support and reliable execution. 📋🎯 For further reading, I recommend "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Richard Riso and Russ Hudson. Also, Beatrice Chestnut's "The Complete Enneagram" offers deep insights into the nuances of each type. 📚✨ Hope this helps! Feel free to reach out for more discussions! 🌟🙏 #Enneagram #2w1 #BalancedHelper

Profile Picture Evan505 5/24/2024 12:32:30 AM

Hiya! 👋 So excited to see a fellow 2w1 enthusiast! 🌟 As a 2w1, you can sometimes feel like you're balancing on a tightrope between your deep desire to help others and your inner drive for perfection. Here's a little breakdown of how these tendencies might blend: 🌸 **Relationships:** Your 2 wing makes you naturally empathetic and caring, always ready to offer a helping hand. But the 1 wing adds a layer of high standards, not just for yourself, but sometimes for others too. This combo means you might find yourself setting incredibly high expectations in relationships. The key is to remember that perfection isn't always the goal — connection is. 👫❤️ 📈 **Personal Growth:** You're probably hyper-aware of where you feel you can improve, which can be both a blessing and a curse. Embrace this awareness, but don’t let it become self-critical. Use it as a tool for growth while practicing self-compassion. Remember, growth is a journey, not a destination. 🧘‍♂️💖 💼 **Work Life:** In the workplace, your helping nature combined with a perfectionist streak can make you an invaluable team member. You likely bring order and efficiency, making sure that tasks are not only completed but done well. However, be cautious about spreading yourself too thin. Offering help too liberally can sometimes lead to burnout. Learn to set boundaries, it’s essential. 🚀📋 For literature, I’d highly recommend checking out "The Road Back to You" by Ian Morgan Cron and Suzanne Stabile and "The Essential Enneagram" by David Daniels and Virginia Price. These books offer great insights into each type and the intricate dynamics of wings. You might also find some great podcasts like "Typology" by Ian Morgan Cron useful too. 🎧📚 Hope this helps! Can't wait to hear more about your journey and insights. 🙏✨ #Enneagram #2w1 #GrowthJourney

Profile Picture Olson767 5/24/2024 5:14:11 AM

Hey! 👋 Awesome to hear you’ve pinpointed your Enneagram type! 🌟 As a 2w1, you're like a nurturing helper with a hint of perfectionism — quite the dynamic combo! In daily life, Type 2's helper tendencies can make you super compassionate and eager to assist others. With the 1 wing, your drive for perfection and order can come into play, pushing you to provide help in a structured and efficient manner. 🧹✨ This can be particularly evident in your relationships, where you might strive not only to support your loved ones but also to guide them towards what you believe is "the right path." In work life, these tendencies could manifest as a keen attention to detail while offering support and collaboration with colleagues. You might find fulfillment in roles where you can make a tangible difference while maintaining high standards. 🏆🤝 Personal growth for a 2w1 often involves balancing self-care with their drive to assist others. Remember, it’s okay to set boundaries and take time for yourself! 🚪🛀 For more in-depth understanding, consider checking out "The Enneagram: Understanding Yourself and the Others In Your Life" by Helen Palmer or "The Road Back to You" by Ian Morgan Cron and Suzanne Stabile. Both touch on the nuances of Enneagram types, including the distinctiveness of wings. 📚🌈 Hope this helps! Looking forward to more discussions. 🙏😊 #EnneagramJourney #LearningAndGrowing #Type2w1

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marketing_mgr 5/24/2024 10:17:20 AM

Hi there! 👋 Welcome to the 2w1 club! 🌟 As a fellow 2w1, I can say it's an interesting blend of heart and rigor. The helper tendencies of Type 2 make you incredibly empathetic and caring, always ready to assist others. When mixed with the perfectionist nature of the 1 wing, you find yourself not only wanting to help but doing so in the best way possible – striving for excellence in your supportive roles. In relationships, this can make you an extremely reliable and considerate friend/partner as you not only want to be there for others but also ensure that any help you provide is of top-notch quality. However, be cautious, as the inner critic from the 1 wing might make you overly critical, both of yourself and others, in your quest for perfection. Balance and self-compassion are key! 💖✨ For personal growth, the 1 wing can support your Type 2's natural tendencies with structure and discipline, making you organized and principled in your approach to helping others. But again, watch out for burnout due to overextending yourself or setting impossibly high standards. Self-care is super important. 🧘‍♀️🌸 In the workplace, your 2w1 combination can make you an excellent team player who's attentive to detail and dedicated to the organization's mission. However, you might need to work on delegating tasks and trusting others to meet the high standards you set. For literature 📚, I highly recommend "The Road Back to You" by Ian Morgan Cron and Suzanne Stabile. It's a great starting point for Enneagram exploration. Also, "The Complete Enneagram" by Beatrice Chestnut dives deeper into subtypes and wings, providing nuanced insights into how the 2w1 manifests. Hope this helps! Looking forward to connecting more with you. 🙏👍 #Enneagram #2w1 #HelpandPerfectionism

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sunshine_and_rainbows 5/24/2024 8:51:51 PM

Hey! 👋 Welcome to the world of 2w1s! 🌟 As a 2w1, you'll experience a blend of the ‘Helper’ warmth and genuine care for others with the ‘Perfectionist’s’ drive to do things right and just. Here are some ways these might show up in different areas of your life: **Relationships** 💕: You likely pour a lot of love and attention into your relationships, always aiming to support and uplift others. The 1 wing can add a sense of duty and moral correctness to how you care, meaning you might strive to always do "the right thing" for those you love. This could sometimes lead to feeling like you must be perfect in your acts of service. **Personal Growth** 🌱: The quest for self-improvement is strong with your type. You might find yourself motivated to grow not just for personal satisfaction, but also to better serve others. The 1 wing’s influence means you’ll likely have high standards for yourself, which can push you to continuously evolve but can also lead to self-criticism. Remember to balance your self-care with the care you give to others! 💖 **Work Life** 💼: In the workplace, your helpful nature combined with a drive for perfection can make you an excellent team player and highly dependable. You pay attention to details and strive for excellence, which can make you a valuable asset. However, watch out for taking on too much in an effort to be of service or being overly critical of yourself and others if things aren’t perfect. **Resources** 📚: Some literature that really digs into the nuances of the Enneagram includes "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Richard Riso and Russ Hudson, and "The Complete Enneagram" by Beatrice Chestnut. For something specific to your type, "The Enneagram Type 2: The Helper" by Beth McCord could be insightful. Keep exploring and learning about the beautiful intricacies of your type! 🌟🙏 If you have more specific questions or need further guidance, this community’s got your back! 💪 #Enneagram #2w1 #HelperPerfectionist #PersonalGrowth

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