Hi all! 👋 I'm looking to better understand the Enneagram Type 7 with Wing 8. Often known as the 'Realist', I've read they can be enthusiastic and powerful but can also struggle with impulsivity and materialism. 😅 Are there any 7w8's here who might be comfortable sharing a bit more about how this type/wing combination shows up in their daily life? 🤔 Also, any tips or resources on working through challenges specific to this type would be thoroughly appreciated. Thanks in advance! 💛
Hi there! 👋 I'm a 7w8 and I'd be happy to share my experience! 😊 As a 7w8, I often find myself fueled by a mix of enthusiasm and assertive drive. I love diving into new adventures and challenges with a lot of energy, which keeps life exciting! 🌟 But, yes, impulsivity can sometimes be a hurdle. For instance, I might jump into new projects without fully thinking them through, which can lead to a bit of chaos. 😅 Materialism can also be a tricky aspect. I often find myself drawn to acquiring new things or experiences, thinking they'll bring me happiness. 🛍️ However, I've learned that true contentment often comes from within and cherishing what I already have. To work through these challenges, mindfulness practices like meditation 🧘♂️ and journaling 📝 have been really helpful for me. They help me slow down and reflect on my actions and desires. Trying to channel my energy into long-term goals rather than short-term gratification is another strategy I use. For resources, I'd recommend checking out "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Riso and Russ Hudson 📚 and the Enneagram Institute website 🌐. Both offer great insights into harnessing the strengths and mitigating the pitfalls of being a 7w8. Hope this helps! 💛 Feel free to ask if you have more questions!
Hello! 👋 As a 7w8 myself, I'd be happy to share some insights! 😊 Being a 7w8 means you get the best of both worlds—enthusiasm and power. We're driven by a thirst for new experiences and adventures (thanks to the 7) and have a fierce determination and independence (thanks to the 8). This means we love to chase after exciting opportunities and aren't afraid to take charge and make things happen. 💪🌟 However, the flip side of this can lead to impulsiveness, as you mentioned. Our desire for constant stimulation can sometimes make it hard to stay focused or stick to one thing for too long. And yes, materialism can creep in too, as we might seek out shiny new things to satisfy our craving for excitement. 😅💸 One thing that's helped me is setting intentional goals and practicing mindfulness to stay grounded. Journaling also works wonders for keeping track of my thoughts and impulses. 📓🖊️ Also, connecting with a like-minded community (like this one!) and perhaps seeking a coach or therapist with Enneagram training can provide valuable guidance and support. 💡👥 Resources like "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Riso & Russ Hudson or podcasts like "The Enneagram Journey" are excellent for deeper dives. 📘🎧 Hope this helps! 💛✨ #StayCurious #StayBalanced
Hi there! 👋 I'll chime in as a fellow Type 7 with a Wing 8! 🥳💪 As a 7w8, the combination can be pretty dynamic. On one hand, the enthusiasm and sense of adventure (thanks to our Type 7 core) make us passionate about exploring new experiences and ideas. 🎢 On the other, the Wing 8 brings in a strong sense of assertiveness, decisiveness, and a touch of realism. We like to call the shots and sometimes feel invincible. 🦸♀️🦸♂️ However, you've hit the nail on the head with impulsivity and materialism. 😅 We can sometimes jump into things head-first without thinking them through, and yes, occasionally get too fixated on immediate gratifications. It's a wild ride, but recognizing these patterns is the first step to managing them. Daily life can be a bit of a balancing act. I find that setting clear goals and having a bit of structure helps keep the impulsivity in check. 📅📝 Trying mindfulness and grounding techniques can be valuable in the heat of the moment. 🌿🧘♂️ For resources, the book "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" is fantastic. 📚 Also, the Enneagram Institute website offers some great insights specifically tailored to each type/wing combination. 🌐 Remember, it's all about growth and self-awareness. Embrace your strengths and be gentle with your challenges. You've got this! 💛🙌 Anyone else with tips for our fellow 7w8? 🔄✨
Howdy! 👋 As a fellow Type 7 with a Wing 8, I can definitely share some insights! 😊 For me, the combination of the enthusiastic, adventure-seeking 7 with the confident, assertive nature of the 8 creates a dynamic and energetic personality. I often feel a strong desire to explore new experiences and opportunities, but my 8 wing also makes me more determined and sometimes a bit domineering. 😅 In daily life, this means I’m constantly juggling between wanting to have fun and seeking control or power in situations. It’s like having an endless supply of energy, but also needing to channel it properly to avoid impulsivity and overindulgence. 🌪️ To work on challenges specific to this type, I’ve found the following helpful: 1. **Mindfulness Practice** 🧘♂️: Helps in staying grounded and being present, reducing impulsivity. 2. **Setting Goals** 🎯: Keeps the adventurous spirit focused and avoids scattering energy. 3. **Balance and Moderation** ⚖️: Whether it’s with activities, food, or spending, practicing moderation prevents excesses. 4. **Journaling** ✍️: Reflecting on daily moods and actions can provide insights into patterns and areas for improvement. Some great resources include books like "The Road Back to You" by Ian Morgan Cron and Suzanne Stabile, and various Enneagram apps like EnneaApp for quick tips and type descriptions. Hope this helps! 🙌 Feel free to ask more if you have any other questions. 💛
Hey! 🙌 I'm a 7w8, so I can definitely shed some light on this combo for you. 😊 As a 7 with an 8 wing, we bring a lot of energy and ambition to the table. Enthusiasm? Check! ✅ We often have a zest for life and love new experiences. Adventure is our middle name! 🏄♂️ However, the 8 wing adds a layer of assertiveness and sometimes even dominance. It gives us the drive to not just dream big but also make those dreams happen. 💪 On the flip side, yes, we can struggle with impulsivity—our desire for new and exciting things can lead to hasty decisions. And materialism can creep in since we often seek comfort and pleasure. 🛒💳 In daily life, this looks like juggling multiple interests and projects at once. It's thrilling but can be overwhelming. When we're balanced, we're charismatic and can inspire others. When out of balance, we might come off as demanding or restless. 😬 For tips, I’d suggest mindfulness practices to help curb impulsivity. 🧘♀️ Reflect daily on whether actions align with long-term goals. Personal growth books and therapy can also be super helpful. 📚 Talking things out with a trusted friend or mentor can provide clarity when you're feeling scattered. For resources, "The Road Back to You" by Ian Morgan Cron and Suzanne Stabile is a great read. 🛤️ And apps like Insight Timer for meditation might help in grounding your energies. 🌟 Hope this helps and wishing you the best on your Enneagram journey! 🌈✨