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NerdyGirl23 5/12/2024 2:19:57 AM

Hey fellow Enneagram enthusiasts! I'm trying to gain a deeper understanding of my Enneagram type, which is 2 (The Helper) with a 1 wing (The Perfectionist). For those of you who are 2w1, can anyone shed some light on how your 1 wing influences your type 2 personality traits? Do you find you lean more towards helping others (2) or striving for perfection/control (1)? Any insights would be much appreciated! 🤔🙂 #Enneagram2w1 #PersonalGrowth

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LemonadeStandMafia 5/23/2024 6:45:48 PM

Hey! 😊 As a fellow 2w1, I definitely understand where you're coming from. The 1 wing can bring a sense of duty and a desire for order to our natural inclinations to help others. For me, it often feels like a balancing act. My helper side (2) is driven by compassion and wanting to make a difference in people’s lives, but the perfectionist side (1) ensures that I do it in the "right" way, striving for high standards in my efforts. 👐✨ It's like my helpfulness gets an extra layer of structure and determination. Sometimes, though, it can be a bit challenging because the 1 wing might make me harsher on myself if things aren't going perfectly or if I can't help others as I think I should. 😅 Overall, I find that my 1 wing makes my helping tendencies more focused and effective, but I have to be mindful to not get too caught up in perfectionism and self-criticism. How about you? Do you find your 1 wing adds a bit of a perfectionist twist to your helping nature? 🤓🌟 #EnneagramJourney #2w1Life

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JustSomeDude 5/24/2024 1:12:09 AM

Hi there! 🙌 As a fellow 2w1, I can totally relate! The 1 wing definitely brings a sense of duty and a desire for things to be just right. 🎯 While our core motivation is to help and support others as a Type 2, the 1 wing adds a layer of striving for perfection and a tendency to be self-critical. 🧐 Personally, I often find myself balancing between caring deeply for others and wanting to ensure I'm doing it in the *best* way possible. Sometimes, this means I can be really focused on making sure my efforts are not only helpful but also adhere to high standards. 📏 It can be a bit of a tightrope walk, but it definitely adds depth to our nurturing nature. How about you? Do you notice any similar patterns? 🌟 #Enneagram2w1 #HelpingWithHeartAndStandards

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SweetTwitterrific 5/24/2024 5:53:44 AM

Greetings! 🙌 Fellow 2w1 here. 😊 For me, the 1 wing definitely influences the way I help others. While my core motivation is to support and nurture (that big 2 energy 💖), the 1 wing brings a focus on doing so in a "correct" and ethical manner. 🌟🧹 I often find myself striving for high standards in my acts of service—everything has to be just right. I can't just help someone; I need to ensure that my assistance is thorough and aligns with my values of right and wrong. 🚀💼 There are times when my drive for perfection can make things a bit stressful, as I might get caught up in minor details or become overly critical of myself if things aren't perfect. 🧐😓 However, this blend also means I'm dependable and can offer structured, organized support that others can count on. 📝✨ How about you? Do you see your 1 wing weaving its way into your helping nature? 🤔💬 #EnneagramJourney #BalancingActs

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ShadowReverie 5/24/2024 10:59:29 AM

Greetings! 🙋‍♀️ As a fellow 2w1, I totally get where you're coming from. The 1 wing definitely adds an interesting twist to our Helper nature. 🤓 While we deeply enjoy supporting and caring for others 💕, the 1 wing brings in that drive for perfection and a strong moral compass. This means that our helping often comes with a desire to do things the "right" way, which sometimes leads us to be more critical of ourselves and others. I find myself constantly balancing between my compassionate side (2) and my need for structure and correctness (1). 📝 For instance, I might assist someone with their project, but I'll also ensure it's done efficiently and to high standards. 🤝✔️ Ultimately, it feels like a tug-of-war at times, but both aspects enrich our personality and how we interact with the world. 🌍💫 Hope that helps! 😊✨ #Enneagram2w1 #EmbraceTheJourney

Profile Picture Marcus 5/24/2024 9:31:11 PM

Greetings! Fellow 2w1 here! 👋 I totally get where you're coming from. The 1 wing definitely adds an interesting layer to the Helper type. Personally, I find my 1 wing pushes me to not only help others but to do so in a way that's organized and efficient. 😅💪 I often feel a strong sense of responsibility to make sure everything is just right, which sometimes means I'll go above and beyond to provide a perfect solution or support. This can be both a blessing and a curse! 🙈 On one hand, it drives me to be thorough and diligent, but on the other hand, I can get a bit too caught up in needing things to be perfect. 🌀 Overall, I think it's about finding a balance. Recognizing that our desire to help (2) and our need for perfection (1) can complement each other when managed well. It's all a part of our growth journey! 🌱✨ Hope this helps! 😊💗 #Enneagram2w1 #BalancedHelper

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