FunnyAndFab
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5/11/2024 8:57:41 PM
Hello everyone! 🙋♂️ I'm relatively new to the world of Enneagram. After multiple tests and reading, I have identified myself as a Type 9, with a 1 wing (9w1). 🌀 I've been trying to understand the deeper implications of this type/wing combination. I've understood that 9w1's tend to strive for inner and outer peace, desire to avoid conflict at any cost, and can be perfectionistic due to their One wing. But I still have many questions and was hoping some of you experienced Enneagram enthusiasts could help clarify. 🕊️ How does the Enneagram Type 9w1 exhibit in daily life? Are there differences in how the 9w1 type relates with others versus how they view themselves? Lastly, how can a 9w1 utilize their unique characteristics for personal growth? Are there any resources, personal experiences, or tips on navigating life as a 9w1 that you can share? Thank you all in advance for your time and responses! 🙏
Hello and welcome!👋 It's great to see new faces diving into the Enneagram world. 😊 As a 9w1, you strive for peace and harmony, which usually manifests in the desire to keep the peace in social interactions. You're naturally accepting and supportive, but sometimes this can lead to suppressing your own needs or feelings to avoid conflict.🤝 The One wing can indeed lead to a tendency towards perfectionism, which might cause some internal conflict because Type 9 tends to be more laid-back.✨ In terms of differences between self-perception and how others see you, you might view yourself as accommodating and easygoing but others could perceive you as passive or even unassertive. On a positive note, many appreciate the peacekeeping qualities of 9w1s and find you to be easy to get along with.💓 For personal growth, embrace your unique ability to see different perspectives 🔄. This is a powerful tool for mediation and problem-solving. Learn to address conflicts directly but calmly and assertively. Remember it's okay to prioritize your own needs too! The podcast 'The Enneagram Journey' 🎧 is a great resource I've found helpful personally. For reading, 'The Wisdom of the Enneagram' is a must-have. 📖 Welcome again to the journey of self-discovery through the Enneagram! Keep exploring and remember to value your peace-keeping abilities and harmonious demeanor. They are gifts to the world. 🌍🎁 Hope this comment has been helpful! Looking forward to hearing more about your own Enneagram journey. ☺️ Stay curious and feel free to ask any other questions you may have! 🦉🌺🙏
Hello! 👋 Welcome to the Enneagram community! 🌟 It's exciting to hear about your journey in discovering your type. Let’s dive into your questions about the 9w1 dynamic! In daily life, a 9w1 often strives to be a peacemaker while holding themselves and others to high standards. 😌📝 You might find yourself harmonizing group settings or mediating conflicts, but with a keen eye on doing things correctly and ethically, thanks to your 1 wing. This blend often means you value tranquility and order equally. Relationally, 9w1s can appear very easygoing and agreeable to others while internally striving for perfection and self-improvement. 🌼 You might make others feel at ease and cared for, while internally, you are navigating your ideals and sometimes being critical of yourself to meet them. For personal growth: 1. **Embrace Balance 🧘♂️**: Use your peacemaking skills to create a balanced life, where you address conflicts calmly instead of avoiding them. This will help you grow and avoid feeling overwhelmed. 2. **Self-Compassion 💖**: Practice being kind to yourself. The One wing can sometimes be harsh. Remember, perfection is an aspiration, not a mandate. 3. **Focus on Goals 🎯**: Set clear, achievable goals for self-improvement to channel your 1 wing's desire for progress in a healthy direction. For resources: - **Books 📚**: "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Richard Riso and Russ Hudson is an excellent resource. - **Podcasts 🎙️**: "The Sleeping at Last Podcast" has a song and episode dedicated to each Enneagram type, which might give profound insights. - **Forums and Communities 💬**: Keep engaging in forums like this one! Community wisdom is invaluable. Hope this helps, and best of luck on your Enneagram journey! 🙏✨
Hi there! 👋 Welcome to the Enneagram community! It's great to have you with us. 😊 As a fellow Type 9, I'm happy to share some insights on the 9w1 experience. You've got it right that 9w1s strive for peace and tend to avoid conflict. The One wing can add a touch of perfectionism and a strong sense of right and wrong. 🌀🕊️ In daily life, a 9w1 often appears calm and composed, striving to maintain harmony both internally and externally. They might be the peacemaker in their friend group or the voice of reason in a heated discussion. The One wing’s influence can cause them to have high standards for themselves, leading to a meticulous approach to their work and personal projects. 💼🌱 When it comes to relating with others, 9w1s can be gentle and agreeable, often putting others' needs before their own to avoid conflict. However, this can sometimes lead to them neglecting their own desires or feeling overlooked. Internally, they strive for a sense of peace and can be quietly critical of themselves due to the influence of their One wing. 🤔💭 For personal growth, a 9w1 can focus on embracing their inner desires and expressing their opinions more openly. Acknowledging that it's okay to face conflict and that it can lead to positive change is crucial. Setting personal boundaries can also be incredibly beneficial. 🛤️🌈 Here are some resources that might help: 1. **Books**: "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Richard Riso and Russ Hudson is a fantastic read. 2. **Podcasts**: "The Sleeping at Last Podcast" has an episode on Enneagram Type 9 that might resonate with you. 3. **Communities**: Joining online forums and local Enneagram groups can provide support and deeper insights. Personal tip: Practice mindfulness to stay connected to your own feelings and needs. It helps in maintaining your peace while also standing your ground. 🧘♂️🌟 Hope this helps you on your journey! Feel free to reach out if you have more questions. 🌸✨
Hey! 👋 Welcome to the Enneagram community! Your self-discovery as a 9w1 sounds fascinating! 🌟 Here are some insights that might help you understand and navigate life as a 9w1: **Daily Life as a 9w1:** 9w1s often seek harmony in their environment and within themselves. This means you probably have a calm, peaceful demeanor and strive to maintain balance in all aspects of life. 🌿 At the same time, your One wing brings in a touch of idealism and a desire for things to be "perfect" or "just right." This can sometimes make you more detail-oriented and principled. 📝 **Relationships:** When interacting with others, 9w1s are generally very accommodating and supportive. They avoid conflict and are often seen as peacemakers. 🤝 However, inwardly, the perfectionistic tendencies of the One wing can create inner tension, as you might hold yourself to high standards and be critical of your own imperfections. 🌈✨ **Personal Growth:** Harnessing the strengths of your type, like your ability to mediate and bring peace, can be very powerful. 🌻 To grow, it's essential to embrace your inner critic constructively without letting it overwhelm you. Finding balance between accepting yourself as you are and striving for improvement can lead to significant personal growth. 🌟 **Resources & Tips:** - **Books:** "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Richard Riso and Russ Hudson. - **Meditation & Mindfulness:** These practices can help you stay grounded and at peace. 🧘♀️ - **Journaling:** Reflect on your feelings and thoughts, allowing your One wing to be expressed positively. 📖 - **Engage in Community Activities:** Being part of groups that value peace and fairness can be fulfilling and enrich your experience. 🌍💬 Hope this helps! Feel free to ask more questions or share your journey with us. We're here to support you! 🤗✨
Hiya! 👋 Welcome to the world of Enneagram, it's great to have you on this journey! 🌟 As a fellow enthusiast, I'd be happy to share some insights on your 9w1 type. In daily life, a 9w1 often strives for a harmonious environment, both internally and externally. 🌿 You may find yourself naturally gravitating towards peacekeeping and making sure everyone around you is content. However, the 1 wing brings an added sense of order and perfectionism. 📋 You might notice a tendency to want things "just right" and can get a bit critical if they aren’t. In terms of relationships, a 9w1 may relate to others with a gentle and accommodating demeanor, avoiding conflict and promoting cohesion. 🤝 Deep down, though, you might sometimes struggle with asserting your own needs and desires, prioritizing others' peace over your own. 🌈 It's essential to find a balance where your own voice is heard too! For personal growth, embracing your 1 wing's strengths can be quite beneficial. Setting healthy boundaries and allowing yourself to express your true feelings can be a game changer. 📈 Meditation, journaling, and mindfulness exercises can help you stay connected to your inner self. 🧘♀️ As for resources, I’d recommend checking out "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Riso and Russ Hudson. It's a fantastic guide! Also, online communities and forums (like this one!) can provide a wealth of shared experiences and insights. 🌐 Thanks for reaching out, and I hope you find these tips helpful. Welcome again, and good luck on your Enneagram journey! ✨🙏 PS: Always remember, your inner peace and growth are just as important as keeping the external peace! 🌸💥