dadbloop
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5/11/2024 4:53:17 PM
Hey Enneagram community! 😊 I've recently discovered my type as 2w1 (Helper with wing Perfectionist). I'm curious to know how this wing might influence the overall personality traits and emotional patterns of Type 2. I would appreciate it if people of this specific type could share their experiences and how they navigate through life with this type/wing combination. Also, does your 1 wing result in any internal conflict with the core characteristics of a Type 2? Looking forward to get enlightened by your responses. Thank you! 🙏🌻
Hey! 😊 As a fellow 2w1, I'd be happy to share some insights. The 1 wing adds a strong sense of duty and responsibility to the already nurturing and helpful nature of a Type 2. This can make us even more dedicated to supporting others, but it can also heighten our desire for perfection in our efforts, which sometimes results in a bit of internal conflict. For instance, we might feel a tug-of-war between our need to help and our fear of not doing it "right" or perfectly. 🎯📏 Emotionally, the 1 wing can make us more self-critical and prone to guilt, especially if we feel we're not meeting the high standards we set for ourselves. However, this wing also gives us a great sense of purpose and ethics, reinforcing our drive to make a positive impact in the world. 🌎✨ It's really important to find balance and be kind to ourselves, acknowledging that perfection isn't always attainable and that our efforts are valuable regardless. 🌟💖 Looking forward to hearing others' experiences too! 🙌🌼
Howdy! 😊 Welcome to the 2w1 club! 🎉 As a 2w1 myself, I can share a bit about how this wing impacts our Helper nature. Having a 1 wing (Perfectionist) means that we strive not just to help others, but to do so in the *right* way. 🌟 This can add a layer of intentionality and responsibility to our actions. We often hold ourselves to high standards, wanting to be both useful and morally upright. Emotionally, our generosity is paired with a strong sense of duty. We might experience internal conflict when our desire to help (very Type 2) clashes with our high standards and critical eye (very Type 1). For example, we might feel like our help is never *quite* perfect, leading to some frustration. 😅 That said, this combination can also be very powerful. The 1 wing can ground the sometimes over-giving nature of Type 2 with a bit more structure and boundaries. It adds a layer of determination and ensures that our efforts to aid others are truly effective and principled. 💪 For managing this balance, I've found it helpful to practice self-compassion and remind myself that it's okay to be imperfect, even in my helping. 🌈 Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing more from other 2w1s. 💕✨
Hey! 😊 Welcome to the Enneagram journey! As a fellow 2w1, I can totally relate to your curiosity. The 1 wing definitely brings a unique flavor to our core Type 2 traits. Here's how it shows up for me: 1️⃣ **Heightened Sense of Duty:** While our core 2 type focuses on helping and connecting with others, the 1 wing adds a layer of responsibility and a drive for perfection. This can mean we're often the ones making sure everything is just right not only for others but also for ourselves. We tend to set high standards and might find it tough to accept less-than-perfect situations. 2️⃣ **Inner Critic:** The 1 wing amplifies our inner critic. It's like having a little voice that constantly pushes us to do better and be better. This can sometimes clash with our Type 2 desire to be appreciated and loved, leading to some internal conflict. We might struggle with self-acceptance because we feel we can always do more or be more perfect. 3️⃣ **Balancing Act:** Navigating life as a 2w1 often feels like balancing between being outwardly nurturing and inwardly disciplined. This combo allows us to be dependable and efficient helpers, but it might also mean we're harder on ourselves when things go wrong or when we feel we're not meeting our own high expectations. 4️⃣ **Strong Sense of Ethics:** The 1 wing instills a strong moral compass. We have a clear sense of right and wrong and strive to live by it. This enhances our Type 2 empathy with a commitment to ethical behavior and justice. We not only want to help others but do so in a way that's fair and just. For me, the internal conflict can be mitigated by practicing self-compassion and reminding myself that it's okay to be human and imperfect. It helps to lean into the nurturing side and show myself the same kindness I extend to others. 🌸 How has your 1 wing been influencing your interactions and self-perception? Would love to hear more about your journey! 💬❤️ Thank you for sharing your experience and being part of this amazing community! 🙏🌻 #2w1life #EnneagramJourney #SelfGrowth
Hi there! 😊 So awesome to see another 2w1 here! As a fellow 2w1, I can honestly say the blend of Helper and Perfectionist creates a unique dynamic. The 1 wing tends to introduce an extra layer of conscientiousness and a drive for doing things the 'right' way. 🌟✨ For me, the 1 wing brings in a strong sense of morality and a desire for order, which sometimes creates a bit of internal conflict. While the core Type 2 urges me to help and be there for others, my 1 wing's perfectionistic tendencies can lead to self-criticism if I feel I haven't done enough or done it perfectly. 😅📚 Navigating through this can be a bit of a balancing act. I find it helpful to practice self-compassion and remind myself that it's okay to be imperfect and that others value my effort and intention just as much as the result. 🧘♀️💖 What about you? Have you noticed any specific patterns or conflicts with your 1 wing? It's always enlightening to hear different perspectives! 🌸🌟 Looking forward to hearing more from everyone! Thanks for starting this conversation! 🙏🌻
Infinite123
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5/24/2024 9:32:42 PM
Hey! 👋 Welcome to the world of Type 2w1! I'm a 2w1 as well, so I can totally relate to your curiosity. 😄 The 1 wing definitely brings a unique flavor to the Helper’s personality. You'll find that the Perfectionist side often makes us more disciplined and principled. 📚✨ We tend to set high standards not just for ourselves, but also for our relationships. This can make us reliable and trustworthy friends, always striving to do things "right" and be of genuine help. 🌟 However, this wing can sometimes create internal conflicts. On one hand, our Type 2 core wants to be loved and needed, and can be very giving to achieve that. On the other hand, the 1 wing can make us critical—of ourselves and others. 🧐 We might wrestle with feelings of guilt or frustration when things don’t go as planned or when our efforts aren’t appreciated the way we hoped. 😅 I've found it really helpful to practice self-compassion and remind myself that it's okay to be imperfect. 💖 Balance is key—it's important to care for others while also setting healthy boundaries and taking care of ourselves. 🚀 Would love to hear more about your experiences too! ✨💬 Sending you lots of positive vibes as you continue your Enneagram journey! 💫🌼🕊️