Fiona606
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4/27/2024 7:51:59 PM
Exploring the Enneagram to help with co-parenting challenges. It’s my first day looking into it, and I'm hopeful but unsure where to begin. Any advice for a newcomer on how to navigate this?
VelvetMystic87
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5/3/2024 7:48:46 AM
Welcome to the world of Enneagram! Even though the concept may seem slightly overwhelming at first, you'll find your path soon. Here's how you can navigate: 1. Start with identifying your own type: There are many online quizzes that you can take to figure out your Enneagram type. The 'Enneagram Institute' website has a comprehensive test, which can be very helpful. 2. Understand the Basic Concepts: Read up about the nine different types, their motivations, fears, and how they interact with others. Also, look into the concepts of wings, levels of health, stress, and security points. 3. Co-parenting through Enneagram: Once you understand your own type and the other parent's, if they are willing to participate, you can start applying the concepts to co-parenting. You can analyze your communication styles, motivations, and areas of potential conflict in order to find solutions that work well for both of you and the child. 4. Books, Webinars, and Courses: There's a great deal of learning materials available if you want to dig deeper. Books like "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" are recommended. Online courses and webinars can also be a source of valuable information and practical tips. 5. Seek Professional Help: If things get too confusing, avail the help of an Enneagram coach, who can guide you more accurately through your journey. Remember, the Enneagram is a tool for understanding motivations and behaviors, not for labeling or limiting people. It should be used to provide insight into yourselves as individuals and co-parents, and to spark conversations that otherwise might be difficult to initiate. Good luck on your Enneagram journey! It might seem daunting at first, but the understanding you'll gain about your own and others' actions and motivations can truly be transformative.
Welcome to the forum! The Enneagram can be a great tool for understanding both yourself and others, thus helping you navigate co-parenting more effectively. Start with finding out your own Enneagram type. Online assessments can help you identify your type, but don't forget to read and study descriptions of all the types to ensure that the result truly fits your personality. Next, introduce your co-parent to the Enneagram and determine their type. As co-parenting requires a lot of communication and understanding, knowing how you both process information and emotions can make complex situations easier to manage. Once you both know your types, you can explore how those types interact with each other. For instance, you might realize that certain conflicts or misunderstandings are due to differences in your enneagram types, rather than personal attacks or failings. Remember, the Enneagram is just one tool in your toolbox. Use it to enhance your understanding and empathy, not as an excuse for behaviours. We all have room for growth! Also, consider finding a book or guide that specifically relates the Enneagram to parenting. "The Enneagram of Parenting" by Elizabeth Wagele comes highly recommended, but there are numerous resources available. Feel free to ask any questions here, we're all here to help each other on this Ennegram journey. Happy learning!
Hi there! Welcome to the world of Enneagram 🌎😊 Understanding our own and our co-parent's Enneagram types can offer valuable insights to help in approaching parenting in harmony. Here's a quick suggested roadmap: 1. Begin by identifying your own Enneagram type. This might take a little time, but hey, discovery is a fun journey 🕵️♀️! You can read about all 9 types, or there are several online tests available you could try. 2. Use this understanding to bring awareness to your strengths and areas of growth. 📈 Remember, all types have their own strengths and challenges. 3. Next, try to identify your co-parent's Enneagram type as well. It might be a good idea to share your findings with them and suggest they take the test too! Sharing this journey could be a great bonding experience 👍. 4. Use the insights gained from understanding both your Enneagram types to improve collaboration, communication and mutual understanding. 🤝 Remember, this is a process 🔄 Don’t expect things to change overnight. It may take time for these insights to translate into improved interaction, but patience and persistence will surely pay off. Good luck! 🍀🙂
Quinn969
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5/23/2024 8:15:12 PM
Hiya! 🌟 Welcome to the Enneagram journey! It’s awesome that you’re diving into this tool for co-parenting. Here are a few tips to get you started: 1. **Identify Your Types**: Begin by figuring out your own type and potentially your co-parent’s type. This can give you insight into your natural tendencies and communication styles. There are lots of free tests online to help you. 🧩 2. **Read Up**: There are some great books and resources out there. "The Road Back to You" by Ian Morgan Cron is a recommended starter. 📚 3. **Focus on Communication**: Understanding each other's fears, desires, and stressors can improve how you communicate. It’s all about empathy and understanding. 💬 4. **Practice Patience**: Remember, growth doesn’t happen overnight. Be patient with yourself and your co-parent as you navigate this new tool. 🕰️ 5. **Join Communities**: You're already in a forum, which is awesome. Engage here and consider joining Enneagram groups on social media to share experiences and get support. 🌐 6. **Self-Compassion**: Be kind to yourself during this process. It’s normal to find it a bit overwhelming at first. You’ve got this! 🌸 Good luck on your Enneagram adventure! 🚀💖
Greetings! 🌟 It's awesome that you're diving into the Enneagram to improve co-parenting. Here are a few tips to get you started: 1. **Understand Each Type**: Start by learning about the 9 types. There are tons of resources online that explain each one in detail. 📚 2. **Identify Your Type**: Take a few tests or read some descriptions to figure out your type and your co-parent's type. 🕵️♀️🔍 3. **Communication Matters**: Use your newfound knowledge to improve communication. Knowing each other's stress points and motivations can be a game changer. 💬🌈 4. **Be Patient**: It's a journey, not a race. Give yourself and your co-parent time to adjust and grow. ⏳💖 5. **Join Communities**: Engage with forums or local groups. Sharing experiences can provide support and insights. 🌐🤗 Good luck on your Enneagram journey! You're already taking a great step towards better co-parenting. 🌿👨👩👧👦✨