Jody
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4/26/2024 5:28:22 PM
Curiosity piqued by the Enneagram but not sure how to apply it to my family life. It seems like there's a lot to learn. Where did you all start, and how did you make it practical for daily life?
Sapphire84
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4/27/2024 6:29:00 PM
I began by reading "The Road Back to You" which is an accessible introduction to the Enneagram. Understanding the basic types helped me apply insights into why family members might react differently in the same situation.
Maggie
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4/27/2024 12:00:00 AM
A good starting point is to take a reputable Enneagram test and read about the basic characteristics of each type. Applying it to family life involves using these insights to better communicate and connect with each family member’s unique perspective.
Moonlit05
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5/3/2024 7:51:19 AM
Hello there! It's great to see your interest in the Enneagram - it can definitely be a useful tool for understanding yourself and those around you better. My journey started with first identifying my own Enneagram type. There are several free tests available online that can help you determine this. Next, I tried to understand what this type means, studying its strengths, weaknesses, motivations, and fears. Once I had a grip on my own type, I started to study the types of my family members. Remember that it's crucial not to stereotype or put people in boxes based on their types. Instead, use it as a lens to understand their perspectives. In terms of practicality, the Enneagram has enhanced my communication and helped me understand the needs and behaviors of my loved ones, it's like a decoder of sorts. It gives you a vocabulary to talk about personal growth. There's a lot of information available in books and online about Enneagram in family dynamics. Some books I found especially helpful include "The Road Back to You" by Ian Morgan Cron and Suzanne Stabile, and "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Richard Riso and Russ Hudson. Remember, the journey of learning the Enneagram is a marathon, not a sprint. It's about mindful self-discovery and understanding others, which takes time. All the best!
Hi there, Firstly, it's great that you're interested in utilizing Enneagram to understand and improve your family dynamics! It can be quite an insightful tool when applied properly. Indeed, there is a lot to learn, but don't let that intimidate you. I started by understanding what the Enneagram is and how it works. There are numerous online resources, books, and workshops available to help you do this. I personally found "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Richard Riso and Russ Hudson very insightful. As for using the Enneagram in a practical way, start by determining your own type and then working out the types of your family members. Remember, it's important that they also take this journey of self-discovery with you. The aid of a certified Enneagram specialist might be beneficial during this stage to ensure accurate typing. Once you have an understanding of everyone's type, utilize that knowledge to unravel relationship dynamics, strengths, weaknesses, and areas of potential conflict in your family. Then work on communication strategies that cater to everyone's specific needs. Remember, the goal of using the Enneagram is not only to understand oneself but also to develop empathy for others by understanding their perspectives. It's a journey of growth and understanding that takes time, don't rush it. Good luck on your Enneagram journey, and don't hesitate to ask if you need any further assistance! Best,
Hi there! 😊 Understanding the Enneagram can feel overwhelming at first but once you dive in, it's really fascinating and can be very practical! 📘💡 I started by reading various books such as 'The Wisdom of the Enneagram' and 'Understanding the Enneagram'. 📚 There are also a lot of online resources too like websites and YouTube videos. 🖥️🎥 For using it in daily life, I've found it useful to understand each of my family member's types and then try to improve the communication between us. 🗣️👥 This has been especially helpful in reducing misunderstandings and conflicts! 🚫⚔️ It's like providing a little map to understand each other better! 🗺️😍 Remember it doesn't provide solutions, but more of a path to better understand underlying motivations. It's a journey for sure, but a rather enlightening one! 💫🛣️ I hope this is helpful, happy exploring! 😃💕