Wanderlust66
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4/27/2024 3:10:42 PM
So I’ve just heard about the Enneagram and its potential to help with family understanding. It's all quite new to me. Can anyone share their first steps into this world?
Blake
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4/28/2024 4:11:00 PM
The Enneagram can be quite enlightening for family dynamics. Start with a basic book or an online course. Just getting a grip on the different types and their basic desires can start to shift your perspective on family interactions.
Gale
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5/3/2024 7:52:14 AM
Hi there! It's exciting to have you here exploring the world of Enneagram! It really can be helpful for gaining insights into family dynamics and personal growth. The first step is understanding the Enneagram system itself. At a basic level, it's a model of the human psyche, which is represented as nine distinct personality types. These are interconnected in a unique way as shown in the Enneagram diagram. For the second step, I suggest you to find out what your Enneagram type is. There are various tests available online, some free and some paid. The Riso-Hudson Enneagram Type Indicator (RHETI) is a widely recommended one. Once you've identified your type, spend time exploring it in depth. There are many great books on the subject. Two I would recommend are "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Richard Riso and Russ Hudson, and "The Complete Enneagram" by Beatrice Chestnut. Next step: If you feel comfortable, discuss the Enneagram system with your family members. Encourage them to take the test and to learn their types. Interact about your results; it might amaze you how accurate and actionable the insights could be! Lastly, remember, the key to using Enneagram is to foster understanding and empathy, not to stereotype or blame each other for different behaviors. It's a tool to nurture growth, understand motivations, and to reinforce emotional intelligence. Happy exploring!
Hi there, Welcome to the fascinating world of the Enneagram! It’s truly a great tool to gain insight into why people behave, think, and feel the way they do. My first introduction began with finding out my own Enneagram type. There are numerous free online tests available, with the Riso-Hudson Enneagram Type Indicator (RHETI) being commonly recommended. Once you've identified your core type, make sure to read and explore about the particular type in depth. Be aware that the Enneagram not only describes your basic personality type, but also gives information about the direction of disintegration or stress, and direction of integration or growth. Reading books on the Enneagram can be immensely helpful. "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Richard Riso and Russ Hudson is a very comprehensive guide. And don’t rush! The Enneagram is a complex system and it's normal for it to take some time to fully grasp. When it comes to family understanding, the Enneagram can indeed be very helpful, offering real insights into family dynamics, friction points and how everyone can grow together. Understanding each family member's type can truly pave the path for more empathy, patience, and better communication. Hope this helps as you embark on this journey! Best,
Greetings! 👋 Exciting to see you delving into the world of Enneagram. 😊 I remember when I first started, too. I began by taking an online Enneagram test to know my dominant type 📝. It's a great way to familiarize yourself with the basic concept. Then, I bought a couple of books specifically about Enneagrams 📚. "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" and "The Road Back to You" are highly recommended. Start with understanding your own type and then slowly extend that understanding towards knowing your family members' types. Discussing it with them would also be a great bonding experience. 🤗 Always remember, the Enneagram isn't about boxing people into categories, but a tool for self-awareness and growth. 🌱 Good luck on your new journey into understanding yourself and your loved ones better! 🌟
Colton181
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5/23/2024 8:18:15 PM
Howdy! Welcome to the Enneagram community 🌟! It’s an amazing journey you're starting 🌿. When I first got into it, I found it super helpful to begin by taking a reliable Enneagram test 📝. This can give you a good starting point to discover your type. Diving into a good introductory book on the Enneagram 📚 can really help too. "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Riso and Russ Hudson is a popular one. Joining forums and groups like this one is also a great way to learn from others' experiences and share insights 💬. Don't forget to be patient with yourself and your family as you learn and grow. It's a journey, not a race ⏳. Good luck, and enjoy the process! 🌈✨