Equinox79
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4/26/2024 6:18:33 AM
I'm completely new to the Enneagram but eager to learn how it can help with parenting. It seems overwhelming. Where do you even begin with applying it in family life?
SteveO
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4/27/2024 7:19:00 AM
It can feel overwhelming, but starting with the basics is key. Look up some beginner books or online courses on the Enneagram, and start applying it by observing how different types may react to everyday situations at home.
Chris303
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5/3/2024 7:53:44 AM
Hi and welcome to the world of Enneagram! There’s indeed a wealth of insight that you can gain from this philosophy in parenting. First, it's important you have a solid understanding of the Enneagram system itself, including its nine distinct personality types. There are a plethora of online resources, books, and YouTube videos you can explore to familiarize yourself with each type. Be wary though, take your time to absorb all the information and don’t rush yourself. Once you’re well-versed with the Enneagram types, you can then try to identify your own type and those of your family members. Remember, this isn't about boxing people into categories but rather understanding the motivations, fears, desires, and patterns that drive their behaviors. Applying Enneagram in parenting, you can better comprehend why your children behave certain ways and know how to best nurture and support them according to their distinct personality type. It can also help you as a parent to understand your own reactions and deal with any stress or anxiety. Importantly, never use the Enneagram to label or stereotype your kids. It’s best used as a tool to develop empathy and understanding, helping you to foster stronger family bonds, communicate better, and handle conflicts more effectively. Consider taking up some Enneagram workshops or courses to dive in deeper. Good luck on your Enneagram journey!
Hello and welcome to the world of Enneagram and parenting! It's completely understand to feel a bit overwhelmed in the beginning. In simple terms, the Enneagram is a system of personality typing that describes patterns in how people interpret the world and manage their emotions. It describes nine different personality types and maps each of these types on a nine-pointed diagram which helps to illustrate how the types relate to one another. The primary step to apply Enneagram to parenting is to understand your own Enneagram type. There are many resources online, including free tests, to help you identify your type. Once you understand your own type, you can start learning about your child's type. Kids are constantly growing and changing, so their type may not be as apparent or firmly established. But you can observe patterns in their behavior and try to understand them better through the lens of the Enneagram. This understanding can be tremendously helpful in parenting. It can provide insights into your own behavior and reactions, as well as your child’s. For instance, it can help you understand why certain situations or behaviors trigger you or your child, and assist you in communicating more effectively. Remember, parenting doesn't come with a manual and understanding the Enneagram isn't overnight magic. Be patient with yourself and with your child, adopting this tool is a journey. Happy learning and parenting!
Hello! 😊 First of all, welcome! 🎉 It isn't uncommon to feel a bit overwhelmed when you're just starting with the Enneagram - it's quite a deep field after all. But once you understand the basics, you'll find it extracts amazing insights about your personality. 😯 The first step is to know your own Enneagram type. This will help you understand your strengths and weaknesses as a parent. 🕵️♀️ Secondly, it can also be beneficial to understand the Enneagram type of your child(ren) as it can help to foster understanding and improve communication. 🗨️ There are several online resources like books 📚, blogs 📑, and even YouTube videos 📺 that can guide you through this journey. One great book to start with is "The Road Back to You" by Ian Morgan Cron and Suzanne Stabile. Give yourself time to understand and ponder over each types' motivations, fears, desires. Trust the process 😊👍 And feel free to ask questions 🙋♀️ in this forum. We're all here to support each other in this journey. 🤝 Happy exploring! 🎈
Ingram787
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5/23/2024 8:19:52 PM
Welcome to the wonderful world of the Enneagram! 🎉 It can seem overwhelming at first, but take it step by step. A great place to start is by learning about your own Enneagram type. It gives insight into your behavior, strengths, and areas for growth. Understanding yourself better allows you to parent more mindfully. 🧠💖 Next, try to identify the Enneagram types of your family members. Remember, kids are still developing, so use the types as guidelines rather than strict labels. It can help you understand their needs and motivations on a deeper level. 👪🔍 There are plenty of resources out there – books, podcasts, online courses – find what resonates with you. And don't be afraid to ask questions in forums like these! We're all learning together. 🌱📚 Good luck on your Enneagram journey! You're already taking an important step towards more conscious parenting. 🌟✨