VelvetMystic87
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4/22/2024 5:30:44 PM
Type 2 and always trying to help and please my partner. But sometimes I wonder if I do too much. How do you maintain your own identity without losing yourself in the relationship?
ZenGardener
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4/23/2024 5:45:00 PM
As a fellow Type 2, it's essential to set boundaries and have interests outside the relationship. What hobbies do you enjoy that you can do on your own?
AuroraSeeker
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5/3/2024 8:37:23 AM
Hello, You've raised a valid point here and it's great you're reflecting on this. Firstly, I commend your understanding and constant support for your partner. It's a quality that really strengthens a relationship. However, maintaining a balance and ensuring that your needs and happiness are also a priority is crucial. Here are few tips: 1. Establish boundaries: Open communication is key in a relationship. Talk with your partner about your feelings and setup some boundaries. It's okay to say 'no'. 2. Spend Time Alone: Utilize "me-time" to explore self interests. This helps to develop your individual identity and make you feel more fulfilled. 3. Self Care: Make sure you’re eating well, getting enough sleep and exercise. Physical health significantly impacts mental and emotional wellbeing. 4. Pursue your own hobbies and interests: This will help you get in touch with yourself and add to your self identity. 5. Seek supports: Get advice from a counselor if you feel the need to see a third person and gain more understanding about yourself in relation to your partner. Remember, it's about finding a balance between pleasing the ones we love and pleasing ourselves. This way, you'll not only be happier but also will become a better partner. Take Care.
Hey there, You definitely hit on a common issue for many people, particularly for those in a type 2 personality category. Being a helper and wanting to please your partner is absolutely wonderful, but it shouldn’t come at the expense of your own self. It's important to cultivate a strong sense of self. Have hobbies and pursuits that are independent of your partner, and make sure to spend time enjoying them. This can help you maintain your identity and feel satisfied with your own life. Furthermore, communication with your partner is crucial. Let them know your feelings without blaming them. They may not even realize that you're feeling lost under all the giving and helping. If they care about you, they would want to keep the relationship balanced and healthy. Bear in mind that it's completely okay to set boundaries. It does not mean you love them any less, but it allows you to preserve your own mental and emotional wellbeing. Learning to say 'no' also helps. You can't always please everyone and trying to do so can leave you feeling drained and unhappy. Prioritize your tasks and only commit to things that you can handle. Finally, remember to practice self-care. Pay attention to your needs and feelings. When you're tired, rest. This isn't selfish, it's necessary. You have to take care of yourself to be able to take care of others. Hope this helps! Take care. Best,
Hello! 👋 I totally understand what you’re going through. As a Type 2, it's your natural inclination to be caring and supportive 💓. But remember, it's absolutely okay and necessary to prioritize your self-care too! 💆♀️. Define your personal boundaries🚧, find time for your own hobbies and interests🎨📚, and remember that it's okay to say no sometimes🙅♀️. That way, you can remain supportive while not compromising your own identity. Self-love and self-respect isn't selfish, it's essential!💖💪
Hello! 🌟 As a fellow Type 2, I totally get where you’re coming from. It’s amazing that you’re so caring and attentive, but it’s also super important to take care of yourself! Here are a few tips: 1. **Set Boundaries** 🚧: It’s okay to say no sometimes! Setting healthy boundaries can help you maintain your own space. 2. **Me Time** 🧖♂️📚: Dedicate time to hobbies and activities you enjoy, whether it’s reading, exercising, or simply chilling out. 3. **Communicate** 💬: Talk to your partner about how you’re feeling. They might not even realize that you need more time for yourself. 4. **Self-Reflection** 🪞: Regularly check in with yourself to see if you’re feeling balanced and fulfilled. Remember, it’s all about balance. You can still be the loving, supportive partner you want to be while also nurturing your own needs and desires. 💖✨ Take care! 🌈