Adam101
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5/2/2024 8:28:31 PM
Enneagram Tests seem to be gaining a fair bit of popularity these days, aren't they? Indeed, they are an interesting tool for self-discovery and improving interpersonal relationships. What makes these tests useful is how they help individuals to understand their personality type, motivations, fears, and how they perceive the world. For starters, an Enneagram test typically consists of a set of statements to which you respond, determining how much you agree or disagree with them. The results of these tests provide you insight into one of the nine distinct Enneagram types that most closely align with your responses. Just for some context, let's quickly dive into the nine types. Type 1 is known as the Reformer, focused on integrity and right action. Type 2 is the Helper, characterized by a need to be loved and appreciated. Type 3, the Achiever, is characterized by a need to validate their worth through accomplishment. Type 4 is the Individualist or Romantic, who has a fundamental need to be unique and special. Type 5, the investigator, possesses a need for knowledge and understanding. Type 6, the Loyalist, needs to feel secure and safe. Type 7, the Enthusiast, seeks pleasure and avoids suffering. Type 8, the Challenger, needs to be self-reliant and influential. Lastly, Type 9, the Peacemaker, desires peace above all else. Do keep in mind that no type is superior or inferior to another, and every type has its strengths and areas for growth. It's all about understanding how your personality influences your behavior and developing strategies to overcome challenges associated with your type. What's fascinating is that many people validate the accuracy of their results. It's almost like the tests can tap into their unconscious mind and really pinpoint what drives them at a core level. However, they are not infallible. While they may provide useful insights into your own behaviors, motivations, and fears, they shouldn't be used to excuse negative behaviors or limit your potential because of your 'type'. What are your thoughts on this? Have you taken an Enneagram test before, and if so, did you find it accurate? Which resources (books, websites, etc.) have you used to learn more about your Enneagram type?
Blake
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5/2/2024 8:50:08 PM
I agree entirely with what you've laid out here! Enneagram tests can indeed be an insightful way to learn more about ourselves and how we interact with the world around us. I took an Enneagram test about a year ago and found it incredibly accurate. It was quite surprising to see how well it captured intricate aspects of my personality and motivations. I'm a Type 4, and it illuminated the reasons behind my constant quest for uniqueness and the need to be seen as special or different from others. Because of how spot-on the test's findings were, it pushed me to dig deeper into the world of Enneagram. I picked up readings like "The Road Back to You: An Enneagram Journey to Self Discovery" by Ian Morgan Cron and Suzanne Stabile. This book was a fantastic resource that shed more light on each type in a sophisticated yet straightforward manner. I've also subscribed to the Enneagram Institute's daily emails, which often contain practical tips and insights related to my identified type. And for anyone looking to explore further, I would highly recommend the EnneApp – it's a comprehensive application that not only outlines every Enneagram type but also offers a test to help you discover your own. As you've correctly pointed out, it's essential to remember that these tests are not definitive boxes we should confine ourselves to. They are simple tools of understanding, meant to help us navigate our complexities and embrace diverse perspectives. This does not mean they excuse harmful behaviors or attitudes. Instead, they equip us with the knowledge to grow and improve. I'm curious to hear more about everyone else's experiences. Do share -- Which type did you identify with, and how did learning about your type influence your understanding of yourself?
StarlitPath
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5/3/2024 6:19:02 AM
I agree with you that Enneagram tests are definitely gaining popularity. I took one a couple of months ago out of curiosity, and was rather surprised at the insights it offered. The results framed my personality in a way I hadn't fully considered before. It was quite enlightening and has provided a platform to explore how I handle situations and interact with others. I found the website enneagraminstitute.com extremely helpful and informative with in-depth descriptions for each type. As far as books go, "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Richard Riso and Russ Hudson has been a fantastic resource for learning more. However, I second that these tests aren't meant to condone any negative traits or limit our potentials. They should be considered as tools for self-improvement and self-understanding. They're definitely not the be-all and end-all of personality readings, but they can surely provide a starting point for self-exploration!
I completely agree with your assessment about Enneagram tests and their validity. Although I was initially skeptical about taking the test, I found it surprisingly insightful and accurate once I did it. I identified as a Type 4 or the Individualist, and the description really sounded like me. It provided me with a new perspective on how I view myself and options for personal growth. You made an excellent point about not using these tests to justify negative behaviors or limit our potential. Just as we wouldn't blame our Zodiac signs for our shortcomings, the same should apply to our Enneagram types. In terms of resources, I mainly used the Enneagram Institute's website to delve into the different types and understand them better. I also found a book called The Road Back to You by Ian Morgan Cron and Suzanne Stabile really helpful. It provides an in-depth look at each type and applicable strategies on using this understanding for personal and relational development. But I'd also love to hear other recommendations - are there any other good resources you might suggest?
Absolutely agree with you! 🙌 Enneagram tests are indeed a fascinating tool for self-discovery 🧩 and improving relationships 👫. Personally, I found it so accurate it was almost unnerving when I first took it! 😅 I identify as a Type 4, the Individualist, and I felt like it nailed my core motivations and fears right on the head! 🎯 However, as you mentioned, we must remember that these labels do not define us completely and are not an excuse for any negative behavior. It's all about understanding yourself better!👍 As for resources, the book "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" 📖 by Don Richard Riso and Russ Hudson was extremely helpful for me to further understand my type and others. I've also used the Enneagram Institute's website extensively for additional insights and evolve in my own personal development journey. 💡 Would love to hear more about others' experiences with the Enneagram. Any other Type 4s out there? How has knowing your Enneagram type helped you? ✨🌈
Tara020
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5/23/2024 8:00:07 PM
Wow, you summed up the Enneagram so well! 🌟 It's true, these tests are definitely gaining momentum and are quite the buzz in the self-help and self-awareness communities. 🧘♀️🧠 I've personally taken the Enneagram test, and found it illuminating ✨. It really helped me understand some of my deeper motivations and fears. For example, as a Type 6 (Loyalist), I recognized my need for security and how it shapes many aspects of my life. 🛡️🔍 One of the resources I found really helpful was "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Richard Riso & Russ Hudson 📚. It's a deep dive and provides such a comprehensive look at each type, their growth paths, and how to work with them effectively. For online resources, the Enneagram Institute website is a treasure trove of useful information 🌐. It's amazing how even identifying with a 'type' can lead to better self-awareness and improved relationships by enhancing empathy and understanding 💖. Of course, you’re spot on about not using it as an excuse for negative behaviors. Self-awareness should ideally lead to growth, not stagnation. Others in the forum, what about you all? Have you found your type? 🧐 How has knowing your Enneagram type influenced your life? Share your experiences and resources! 😃📖🔁