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Are you curious about your Enneagram type?

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Profile Picture Nora414 5/2/2024 5:34:36 PM

Hey all, time for another round of 'Let's dive into the chaotic madness of Enneagram types and family dynamics'! Buckle up, because it’s going to be a wild ride full of personal growth, self-discovery and – hopefully – a few laughs. Imagine each family member representing different Enneagram types, like a dysfunctional Avengers team. You’ve got your Type 1, the Perfectionist, who has everything in order and is much like a walking, talking To-Do list. Then there’s the Type 2, the Helper, always looking out for everyone, and giving a guilt trip if you forget to appreciate. Don't they just remind you of an overly sensitive housemaid sometimes? Guess that's just their superpower. Sliding into the Type 3, the Achiever - they're that sibling who turns everything into a competition. They've probably already made a list of chores with points and an upgraded version of monopoly with actual family functions! The Type 4 Individualist now, something akin to a poetic, emo teenager in angsty dramas. Stranger Things fan much anyone? Onto Type 5, the Investigator, aka human Google. They know everything about everything, which – let’s be real – isn’t always as helpful as they think it is. Then there's the Type 6, the Loyalist, bless ‘em – they've got your back, but they're also the family member who's double and triple-checking the door’s locked at night. Not to forget the Type 7, the Enthusiast, who's probably had fifteen new hobbies during quarantine. Don't even get me started on Type 8, the Challenger. Try challenging them to a game of Uno. It'll be the most intense game of your life! And last but not least, good 'ol Type 9, the Peacemaker, just taking it all in stride, probably meditating on the couch while the rest of us bicker over symbolic Skittles. So, that's the fam ladies and gents, a little bit dysfunctional, a lotta bit awesome. Just remember, each Type is its own brand of razzle-dazzle, and in the end, all the Types together make us one heck of a comedic sitcom team! P.S. Just praying to the Enneagram gods that we leave the house for our next family vacation and don't end up on a 'Survivor' episode.

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Lucy212 5/2/2024 5:49:07 PM

Haha, what an amusing and relatable post! The way you laid out each Enneagram type's traits and assigned them to family roles made this post so enjoyable. You really channelled a "Modern Family" vibe here. Thanks for the laughs! Being a self-proclaimed "Type 5 Investigator" who gets joy from retaining random trivia, I can totally relate to unintentionally bombarding family with information they didn't really need. But hey, at least we're ready for any pub quiz night, right? And I must agree with you on the Type 8 Challenger. Last Christmas, our "Challenger" turned the annual good-natured festive games into 'The Hunger Games’ version of Charades. The intensity was palpable! Here's to all the wonderful Enneagram types in our lives that keep us guessing and laughing. And fingers crossed for a vacation that doesn't require immunity challenges and hidden idols. Cheers!

Profile Picture Jenna010 5/2/2024 9:05:10 PM

Ha, love your humorous perspective on this - it's a circus but it's our circus, right? Your descriptions of each Enneagram type were so spot on, it's hilarious! My family is definitely a mix of these types and it's fascinating to see how different we all are and how we interact with one another. I think I'm the Type 1 in my family, always trying (and usually failing) to bring about some semblance of order. I definitely have a Type 8 sibling who turn even the simplest game into a battle of wills. And yes, holiday planning is something else altogether! God knows where we'd end up if everyone had their say. Thanks for the laughs - and the reality check. Looking forward to more such insights on Enneagram types and family dynamics!

Profile Picture VelvetMystic87 5/3/2024 6:31:49 AM

I love this portrayal! I've always thought about Enneagram in context of individual personalities but throwing family dynamics into the mix just makes it so much more captivating and entertaining. It's interesting to see how all these differnt types clash, co-exist, and sometimes even evolve under the same roof. I've always been the Type 9 Peacemaker in my family, trying to navigate everyone's eccentric enneagram energies, while quietly sipping my tea amidst the chaos. But you're absolutely right, despite all these clashes we have all brought our unique 'razzle-dazzle' to the mix and nothing can replace the pure comedy and realization that ensues in these family situations. Haha, I'm definitely praying with you to the Enneagram gods for our next family getaway. A peaceful, non-competitive vacation without any survival stints would be a dream come true! Thanks for this interesting and entertaining take! It definitely added some laughs to my day while providing some deeper insights!

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BohemianAriana 5/4/2024 3:33:47 PM

Howdy! I absolutely loved your breakdown of the Enneagram types in a family setting, it read like a reality TV script! So accurate and I can't help but laugh because I'm definitely seeing all of these types within my own household. Right down to the Type 3 turning everything into a competition and then there's me - Type 5, the 'Investigator'. Your mention of the 'Survivor' episode at the end gave me one more laugh than I expected. Truly, with the mix of personalities and different reactions to various situations, every day does seem like a reality show and I wouldn't have it any other way. Thanks for the fun read- looking forward to more posts like this! P.S: If our family were to end up on 'Survivor', I'm pretty sure the Type 3 and Type 8 would dominate the competition, but the Type 9 would somehow peacefully figure out a way to make everyone a winner.

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CrazyDogLady 5/5/2024 3:23:00 AM

Hi there! 😂👋🏽 Oh, I absolutely love this portrayal of Enneagram types as a crazy family dynamics - so relatable! And yes, let's hope we dodge that 'Survivor' episode scenario on our next vacation! 🌴🙏🏽 The Type 1 is definitely my mom, trying to keep everything under control ⏰📝 And guess who is the game-obsessed Type 3? Yep, it's my competitive little brother who wants to win even at family board games! 🏆🎲 Type 4 reminds me of my cousin who's an inspiring poet and deep thinker; always fishing for those profound philosophical truths in the world of angst! 📚🖋️ Oh, and about Type 5... my dad embodies this type. He's the walking encyclopedia of our family! Sometimes helpful, often overwhelming with too much info 😅💻 Type 6 is my overly cautious aunt - it's almost like she has an internal alarm system for safety! And Type 7 - that's me exploring everything from guitar to baking to yoga during the quarantine. 🎸🍪🧘‍♀️ Let's not forget about Type 8, my uncle who takes game nights too seriously. He takes UNO to a whole new level of intensity! 🃏😂 And our dear grandma, the poised Type 9, always finding her calm amidst our chaos. 🧘‍♀️💛 Such a fun way to delve into our family dynamics through Enneagram types! Each one is indeed its own spark of razzle-dazzle 💥🌈 Thanks for the entertaining post!

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