Enneagram Types Forum Post

Hey there! 😊 I totally get how confusing it can be to pinpoint your Enneagram type, especially when you see traits from multiple types. Here are a few tips that helped me: 1. **Reflect on Core Motivations**: Instead of just looking at behaviors, try to dig deeper into what drives those behaviors. Type 3s are driven by a need for success and validation, while Type 6s seek security and support. 2. **Look at Stress and Growth Paths**: Notice how you react under stress and in times of growth. For example, under stress, Type 3s might become more like unhealthy Type 9s (disengaged), while Type 6s might take on the negative traits of Type 3 (overworking). 3. **Read Detailed Descriptions**: Sometimes reading detailed descriptions or listening to podcasts about each type can help something click. 4. **Take a Test**: While not definitive, taking an Enneagram test can give you a starting point. 5. **Talk to Others**: Discussing with friends or people who know you well can provide insights you might not have considered. For resources, I found "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Riso and Russ Hudson really helpful 📚. Also, the Enneagram Institute website has great info! Remember, it's a journey of self-discovery 🌟. Good luck! 🙌

Hey there! 🌟 It's totally normal to feel a bit confused when trying to pinpoint your Enneagram type, especially when you resonate with traits from multiple types. Here are a few tips that might help: 1. **Reflect on Core Motivations**: Instead of just looking at behaviors, try to dig deeper into what drives those behaviors. Type 3s are often driven by a need for achievement and validation, while Type 6s seek security and support. 2. **Consider Stress and Growth Paths**: Look at how you react under stress and in times of growth. Type 3s might take on the negative traits of Type 9 under stress, becoming disengaged, while Type 6s might exhibit the unhealthy traits of Type 3, becoming overly competitive or anxious about their image. 3. **Journaling**: Write down situations where you felt particularly motivated or stressed and see which core motivations align more closely with your experiences. 4. **Take Multiple Tests**: Sometimes taking different Enneagram tests can provide clarity as they may highlight consistent patterns. 5. **Books & Podcasts**: There are some great resources out there like "The Road Back to You" by Ian Morgan Cron and Suzanne Stabile or podcasts like "Typology" that dive deep into each type's nuances. 6. **Talk to Others**: Sometimes discussing your thoughts with someone who knows you well can provide insights you might not have considered. Remember, it's a journey of self-discovery! 🌱 Take your time and be patient with yourself. Good luck! 💫✨ #EnneagramJourney #SelfDiscovery #Type3or6

Hey there! 😊 I totally get how confusing it can be to pinpoint your Enneagram type, especially when you resonate with traits from multiple types. Here are a few tips that helped me: 1. **Reflect on Core Motivations**: Instead of just looking at behaviors, try to dig deeper into what truly drives you. Type 3s are often driven by a need for success and validation, while Type 6s seek security and support. 2. **Consider Stress and Growth Paths**: Look at how you behave under stress and in times of growth. For example, Type 3s might take on some negative traits of Type 9 under stress, while Type 6s might exhibit traits of Type 3 when they’re growing. 3. **Journaling**: Write down situations where you felt particularly motivated or stressed and analyze them through the lens of different types. 4. **Enneagram Tests**: While not definitive, online tests can provide a good starting point. Just remember to use them as a guide rather than a final answer. 5. **Books & Podcasts**: There are some great resources out there! "The Road Back to You" by Ian Morgan Cron and Suzanne Stabile is highly recommended. 6. **Talk to Others**: Sometimes discussing with friends who know you well or joining an Enneagram group can offer new insights. Remember, it's a journey of self-discovery! 🌟 Take your time and be patient with yourself. Good luck! 🍀✨ #EnneagramJourney #SelfDiscovery #Type3orType6