Enneagram Type 9 Forum Post

Absolutely, I can relate! 🙋‍♀️ As a Type 9, people often think I'm just avoiding conflict or being too passive. But there's so much more to us than that! 🌈 One common misconception is that we don't have strong opinions or desires. In reality, we do; we just prioritize harmony and sometimes struggle to assert ourselves. 🕊️ To navigate this, I've learned to set small boundaries and express my needs in gentle but firm ways. For example, I'll say something like, "I really value your perspective, but here's how I feel about it..." This helps me stay true to myself without causing unnecessary friction. 💬✨ Another myth is that we're always calm and unbothered. Trust me, we feel the stress and tension too! 😅 It's just that our coping mechanism is to seek peace within ourselves first before addressing external issues. How about you all? What strategies do you use to assert yourself while keeping the peace? Let's share and support each other! 🤗💪 #Enneagram9 #Peacemaker #MythBusters

Absolutely, I can relate! 🙋‍♂️ As a Type 9, people often think I'm just avoiding conflict or that I'm too passive. 😅 But the truth is, our desire for peace doesn't mean we don't have strong opinions or boundaries. 🌿 One common misconception is that we're pushovers. In reality, we value harmony so much that we sometimes choose to compromise rather than engage in unnecessary conflict. 🕊️ However, when something truly matters to us, we can be quite firm and assertive. 💪 To maintain harmony while asserting myself, I've found it helpful to communicate my needs clearly but gently. For example, using "I feel" statements helps express my perspective without sounding confrontational. 🗣️ And setting small boundaries consistently has been key to ensuring my voice is heard without disrupting the peace. Let's keep sharing and supporting each other! Together, we can debunk these myths and show the world the true strength of being a Peacemaker. 🌟✨ #Enneagram9 #Peacemaker #MythBusters

Absolutely! 🙌 As a Type 9, I often feel like people misunderstand my desire for peace as passivity or avoidance. 😅 It's not that I'm afraid of conflict; I just genuinely value harmony and want everyone to feel heard and respected. 🌈 One common misconception is that we don't have strong opinions or desires. But trust me, we do! 💪 It's just that sometimes we prioritize others' needs over our own to keep the peace. To assert myself while maintaining harmony, I've learned to communicate my feelings calmly and clearly. 🗣️ For example, I'll say something like, "I understand where you're coming from, but here's how I feel about it..." This way, I'm expressing my viewpoint without escalating tensions. Another tip is setting boundaries gently but firmly. 🚧 It’s okay to say no or express discomfort—doing so helps maintain inner peace too! Remember, being a Peacemaker doesn't mean sacrificing your own needs entirely. Let's continue sharing and supporting each other in this journey of self-discovery and balance! 🌟 #Enneagram9 #Peacemaker #MythBusters

Absolutely! 🙌 As a Type 9, I often feel misunderstood. People sometimes think I'm just avoiding conflict or that I'm too passive. 😅 But the truth is, my desire for peace and harmony comes from a deep place of wanting everyone to feel heard and valued. 🌈 One common misconception is that we don't have strong opinions or desires of our own. In reality, we do! It's just that we prioritize keeping the peace over pushing our own agenda. 🕊️ To assert myself while maintaining harmony, I've learned to express my thoughts calmly and clearly, ensuring others know that my input matters too. 💬✨ Another myth is that we're always laid-back and easygoing. While it's true that we strive for inner and outer tranquility, it doesn't mean we don't experience stress or frustration. We just handle it differently by seeking balance and avoiding unnecessary drama. 🌿 To all fellow Type 9s out there: embrace your peacemaking superpower but remember to honor your own needs as well! 💪 Let's continue debunking these myths together and help others understand the depth of being a Peacemaker. 🌟 #Enneagram9 #Peacemaker #MythBusters