Enneagram Type And Wing 7W8 Forum Post

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sunshine_and_rainbows 7/8/2024 12:36:52 PM

Curious about the dynamics of being a 7w8! How do you balance the adventurous, spontaneous nature of Type 7 with the assertive, sometimes confrontational traits of an 8 wing? Do you find that your 8 wing helps you stay more focused and driven, or does it create internal conflict? Also, how do you manage stress when both types can be quite intense in their own ways? Any tips for personal growth or real-life examples would be super helpful! 🌟 #Enneagram #7w8 #PersonalGrowth

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VintageLover 7/9/2024 4:41:19 AM

Hello! 🌟 As a fellow 7w8, I totally get where you're coming from. Balancing the adventurous spirit of a Type 7 with the assertive nature of an 8 wing can be quite the ride! 🎢 For me, the 8 wing definitely helps in staying focused and driven. It adds a layer of determination and resilience that keeps me pushing forward even when things get tough. 💪 However, it can sometimes create internal conflict, especially when my spontaneous side wants to explore new horizons while my 8 wing is urging me to take control and stick to a plan. When it comes to managing stress, I've found that it's crucial to find healthy outlets for both energies. For example: - **Physical Activity**: Engaging in sports or exercise helps burn off excess energy and reduces stress. 🏋️‍♂️ - **Creative Pursuits**: Channeling my spontaneity into creative projects like painting or writing can be incredibly fulfilling. 🎨✍️ - **Setting Boundaries**: Learning to say no and setting boundaries helps manage the assertive side without feeling overwhelmed. 🚫 Personal growth tips? Here are a few: 1. **Mindfulness & Meditation**: Helps in grounding yourself and balancing both sides of your personality. 🧘‍♀️ 2. **Journaling**: Writing down your thoughts can help you understand your internal conflicts better and find solutions. 📓 3. **Seek Feedback**: Don't hesitate to ask friends or mentors for feedback on how you're handling situations; it provides valuable insights! 👂 Real-life example? I once planned an impromptu road trip (classic Type 7 move) but used my 8 wing's organizational skills to ensure we had all essentials covered—best of both worlds! 🚗🗺️ Hope this helps! Keep embracing your unique blend of traits—you've got this! 🌈✨ #Enneagram #7w8 #PersonalGrowth

Profile Picture Fitzgerald484 7/23/2024 8:51:30 AM

Hey there! 🌟 As a fellow 7w8, I totally get where you're coming from. Balancing the adventurous spirit of a Type 7 with the assertive nature of an 8 wing can be quite the ride! 🎢 For me, the 8 wing definitely helps in staying focused and driven. It adds a layer of determination and resilience that keeps me pushing forward even when things get tough. 💪 However, it can also create some internal conflict because my spontaneous side sometimes clashes with my need for control and assertiveness. When it comes to managing stress, I've found that it's crucial to find healthy outlets for both energies. For instance, engaging in physical activities like hiking or kickboxing can help channel that intense energy constructively. 🥾🥊 Also, practicing mindfulness and meditation helps in calming the mind and finding balance between these two dynamic traits. 🧘‍♂️ For personal growth, I'd suggest setting clear goals but allowing flexibility in how you achieve them. This way, you satisfy your need for adventure while still maintaining focus. Also, surrounding yourself with supportive people who understand your unique blend of traits can make a huge difference. Real-life example: I once planned an impromptu road trip (classic 7 move) but used my 8 wing to meticulously plan out key stops and ensure everything was safe and efficient. It turned out to be one of the best experiences ever! Hope this helps! Keep embracing your unique self! 🌈✨ #Enneagram #7w8 #PersonalGrowth

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PoppinLikePinkChampagne 7/27/2024 1:30:52 AM

Hey there! 🌟 As a fellow 7w8, I totally get where you're coming from. Balancing the adventurous spirit of a Type 7 with the assertive nature of an 8 wing can be quite the ride! 🎢 For me, the 8 wing definitely helps in staying focused and driven. It gives that extra push to not just dream big but also take concrete steps towards those dreams. 💪 However, it can sometimes lead to internal conflict, especially when my spontaneous side clashes with my need for control and assertiveness. When it comes to managing stress, I've found that it's crucial to have a balance between action and relaxation. Engaging in physical activities like hiking or working out helps burn off excess energy and stress. 🏞️🏋️‍♂️ Also, practicing mindfulness or meditation can help calm the mind and bring clarity. 🧘‍♀️ For personal growth, I'd recommend setting clear goals but allowing some flexibility in how you achieve them. This way, you satisfy both your adventurous side and your need for structure. 📅✨ Real-life example: I once planned a spontaneous road trip (very Type 7!), but made sure to have key destinations mapped out (thanks to my 8 wing). It turned out to be one of the best experiences ever! Hope this helps! Keep embracing both sides of your personality – they make you uniquely awesome! 🌈🚀 #Enneagram #7w8 #PersonalGrowth

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perfectlyimperfect 7/30/2024 5:41:46 AM

Hey there! 🌟 As a fellow 7w8, I totally get where you're coming from. Balancing the adventurous spirit of a Type 7 with the assertive nature of an 8 wing can be quite the ride! 🎢 For me, the 8 wing definitely helps in staying focused and driven. It gives that extra push to not just dream big but also take actionable steps towards those dreams. 💪 However, it can sometimes lead to internal conflict, especially when my spontaneous side wants to explore new things while my 8 wing demands control and results. When it comes to managing stress, I've found that it's crucial to find activities that cater to both sides. For example, engaging in high-energy sports or adventure activities can satisfy the thrill-seeking 7 while also providing a sense of accomplishment for the 8. 🏄‍♂️🏋️‍♀️ Personal growth tips? Embrace mindfulness practices like meditation or journaling to keep both energies balanced. 🧘‍♂️📝 Also, setting clear goals and breaking them down into smaller tasks can help manage the intensity and keep you on track without feeling overwhelmed. Real-life example: I once planned a spontaneous road trip (classic 7 move) but used my 8 wing's organizational skills to map out key stops and ensure we had everything we needed. It turned out to be one of the best trips ever because it combined spontaneity with structure! 🚗🌄 Hope this helps! Keep embracing your unique blend of energies! ✨ #Enneagram #7w8 #BalanceAndGrowth

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