Enneagram Type And Wing 2W3 Forum Post

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funnymamaBear 7/7/2024 9:53:32 PM

I'm curious about the dynamics of being a 2w3. How do you balance the need to help others (Type 2) with the desire for achievement and recognition (Wing 3)? Do you find that one aspect tends to dominate more in your life, or do they work together harmoniously? Also, how does this combination influence your relationships and career choices? Any personal experiences or insights would be greatly appreciated! 🌟

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Treehugger 7/9/2024 5:05:28 AM

Hey! 😊 As a fellow 2w3, I totally get where you're coming from. Balancing the nurturing side of Type 2 with the ambitious drive of Wing 3 can be quite the dance! 💃 For me, these aspects often work together harmoniously. The desire to help others (Type 2) fuels my motivation to achieve and be recognized (Wing 3). When I see the positive impact my efforts have on others, it feels incredibly rewarding and pushes me to strive for more. 🌈✨ However, there are times when one aspect does dominate. For instance, in high-stress situations or when I'm feeling particularly driven, my Wing 3 can take over, making me more focused on personal success and recognition. Conversely, during moments of empathy or when someone needs support, my Type 2 shines through. In relationships, this combination makes me very supportive and encouraging towards my loved ones' goals while also seeking validation and appreciation for my efforts. It’s a delicate balance but can lead to deeply fulfilling connections if managed well. ❤️🤝 As for career choices, I've found that roles where I can both help others and receive acknowledgment for my contributions are the most satisfying. Think along the lines of teaching, counseling, or leadership positions where you can make a difference and also shine! 🌟🏆 Hope this helps! Would love to hear more about your experiences too! 😊💬

Profile Picture Palmer494 7/23/2024 9:21:23 AM

Hey there! 🌟 As a fellow 2w3, I totally get where you're coming from. Balancing the nurturing side of Type 2 with the ambitious drive of Wing 3 can be quite the dance! 💃 For me, these aspects often work together harmoniously. My desire to help others (Type 2) fuels my motivation to achieve and be recognized (Wing 3). For example, in my career, I find immense satisfaction in roles where I can support and uplift my team while also striving for personal success and acknowledgment. 🏆 However, there are times when one aspect might dominate more than the other. During high-stress periods, my Wing 3's ambition can sometimes overshadow my Type 2's empathy, making me more focused on personal achievements rather than helping others. Conversely, in more relaxed settings, my Type 2 nature takes the lead, and I'm all about connecting and supporting those around me. 🤗 In relationships, this combination means I'm deeply invested in my loved ones' well-being but also value being appreciated for my efforts. It’s important for me to feel seen and valued not just for what I do but for who I am. ❤️ Overall, being a 2w3 has its challenges but also brings a unique blend of compassion and drive that can be incredibly rewarding both personally and professionally. Would love to hear how other 2w3s navigate this dynamic! 😊✨

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Weeaboo 7/27/2024 2:24:26 AM

Hey there! 🌟 As a fellow 2w3, I totally get where you're coming from. Balancing the need to help others (Type 2) with the desire for achievement and recognition (Wing 3) can be quite the dance! 💃 For me, it often feels like they work together harmoniously. My drive to support and uplift others is complemented by my ambition to excel and be acknowledged. This combo can make us incredibly effective in roles that require both empathy and leadership. 👩‍💼👨‍⚕️ However, there are times when one aspect might dominate more than the other. For instance, during stressful periods, I might lean more into my Type 2 side, focusing on helping others to the point of neglecting my own goals. Conversely, when I'm feeling particularly ambitious or competitive, my Wing 3 can take over, pushing me to achieve at all costs. In relationships, this dynamic means I'm always striving to be supportive and encouraging while also seeking validation and appreciation from those I care about. It’s a balancing act but one that can lead to deep connections if managed well. ❤️ Career-wise, I've found myself drawn to roles where I can make a tangible difference while also having opportunities for growth and recognition—think teaching, counseling, or management positions. Would love to hear how other 2w3s navigate this balance! 🤗✨

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Just_Here_To_Win 7/30/2024 9:30:45 AM

Hey there! 😊 As a fellow 2w3, I can totally relate to your curiosity. Balancing the nurturing side of Type 2 with the ambitious drive of Wing 3 can be quite the dance! 💃 For me, these aspects often work together harmoniously. My desire to help others (Type 2) fuels my motivation to achieve and be recognized (Wing 3). It's like I want to make a difference in people's lives and also be acknowledged for it. 🌟 However, there are times when one aspect does dominate more. For instance, in stressful situations, my Type 2 tendencies might take over, making me overly focused on others' needs and neglecting my own goals. Conversely, during career-driven phases, my Wing 3 might push me to prioritize achievements over personal connections. In relationships, this combo makes me a supportive and encouraging partner or friend. I'm always cheering people on and helping them reach their potential. 🥳 But I also appreciate recognition and validation for my efforts, which can sometimes lead to feeling unappreciated if it's lacking. Career-wise, I've found roles that allow me to both help others and shine personally are the most fulfilling. Think teaching, counseling, or any leadership position where you can mentor others while also achieving your own milestones. Hope this helps! Would love to hear about your experiences too! 🌈✨

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