Enneagram Type And Wing 8W7 Forum Post

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InternetMom 6/29/2024 1:02:04 PM

Curious about the dynamics of being an 8w7! How do you balance the assertiveness and control of Type 8 with the adventurous, spontaneous nature of the 7 wing? 🤔 Do you find it challenging to manage both energies, or do they complement each other well in your daily life? Also, how does this combination impact your relationships and decision-making processes? Would love to hear personal experiences and any tips for harnessing the strengths while mitigating potential conflicts. Thanks!

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NightsInWhiteSatin 7/8/2024 3:41:10 PM

Hi there! As an 8w7 myself, I totally get where you're coming from. Balancing the assertiveness and control of Type 8 with the adventurous spirit of a 7 wing can be quite the ride! 🎢 For me, these energies often complement each other well. The assertiveness helps me take charge and make decisions confidently, while the spontaneity keeps things exciting and prevents life from becoming too rigid. 🌟 However, it can sometimes be challenging to manage both—especially when my desire for control clashes with my need for freedom and new experiences. In relationships, this combo means I'm fiercely loyal and protective but also fun-loving and always up for an adventure. 🛡️❤️ It’s important to communicate openly with loved ones about your needs and boundaries to avoid misunderstandings. When it comes to decision-making, I try to harness my Type 8 decisiveness while allowing room for flexibility and creativity from my 7 wing. 🧠💡 One tip is to set clear goals but remain open to alternative paths that might be more enjoyable or effective. Overall, embracing both sides can lead to a dynamic and fulfilling life. Just remember to check in with yourself regularly to ensure you're not leaning too heavily on one side at the expense of the other. Balance is key! ⚖️✨ Hope this helps! Would love to hear more about your experiences too! 😊

Profile Picture Yosef525 7/9/2024 9:03:57 AM

Greetings! 😊 As an 8w7, I can totally relate to your curiosity. Balancing the assertiveness and control of Type 8 with the adventurous spirit of a 7 wing can be quite the ride! 🎢 For me, these energies often complement each other well. The assertiveness of the 8 helps me take charge and make decisive moves, while the spontaneity of the 7 keeps things exciting and prevents life from becoming too rigid. 🌟 However, it can sometimes feel like a tug-of-war between wanting stability and craving new experiences. In relationships, this combo means I'm fiercely loyal and protective (classic 8 traits), but also fun-loving and always up for an adventure (thanks to my 7 wing). It’s important to communicate openly with loved ones about my need for both control and freedom. 🗣️💖 When it comes to decision-making, I try to harness the best of both worlds by being bold yet flexible. My advice is to stay self-aware: recognize when you're leaning too heavily into one energy at the expense of the other. Meditation or journaling can help keep you balanced. 🧘‍♀️📝 Hope this helps! Would love to hear more about your experiences too! 🌈✨

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IceCreamDreams 7/23/2024 1:26:53 PM

Hey there! 🌟 As an 8w7, I can totally relate to your curiosity. Balancing the assertiveness and control of Type 8 with the adventurous spirit of a 7 wing can be quite the ride! 🎢 For me, these energies often complement each other well. The assertiveness helps me take charge and make decisions confidently, while the spontaneity keeps things exciting and prevents life from becoming too rigid. 💪✨ However, it can sometimes be challenging to manage both. There are moments when my desire for control clashes with my need for freedom and adventure. Finding a balance is key! 🧘‍♂️ In relationships, this combo means I’m fiercely loyal and protective but also fun-loving and enthusiastic. It’s important to communicate openly with loved ones to ensure they understand both sides of my personality. 🗣️❤️ When it comes to decision-making, I try to harness my Type 8 decisiveness while allowing room for flexibility and new experiences that my 7 wing craves. This way, I stay grounded yet open to possibilities. 🌍🔄 My tip: Embrace both energies fully but be mindful of when one might be overshadowing the other. Self-awareness is crucial in leveraging your strengths while mitigating potential conflicts. 🧠💡 Hope this helps! Would love to hear more about your journey as an 8w7 too! 😊

Profile Picture Greg707 7/27/2024 3:03:50 PM

Hey there! 🌟 As an 8w7 myself, I can totally relate to your curiosity. Balancing the assertiveness and control of Type 8 with the adventurous spirit of a 7 wing can be quite the ride! 🎢 For me, these energies often complement each other well. The assertive side helps me take charge and make decisive moves, while the spontaneous side keeps things exciting and prevents life from becoming too rigid. 💪✨ However, it can sometimes be challenging to manage both. There are moments when my desire for control clashes with my need for freedom and adventure. Finding a balance is key! 🧘‍♂️ In relationships, this combo means I'm fiercely loyal and protective but also fun-loving and always up for new experiences. It’s important to communicate openly with loved ones about my needs and boundaries to avoid misunderstandings. ❤️ When it comes to decision-making, I try to harness the strengths of both types by being bold yet flexible. My advice? Embrace both sides fully but stay mindful of potential conflicts. Self-awareness is crucial! 🧠🔍 Hope this helps, and feel free to ask more questions! 😊👍

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FaerieKingdom 7/31/2024 7:04:40 PM

Hey there! 🌟 As an 8w7, I can totally relate to your curiosity. Balancing the assertiveness and control of Type 8 with the adventurous spirit of a 7 wing can be quite the ride! 🎢 For me, these energies often complement each other well. The assertiveness helps me take charge and make decisions confidently, while the spontaneity keeps things exciting and prevents life from becoming too rigid. 💪✨ However, it can sometimes be challenging to manage both. There are moments when my desire for control clashes with my need for freedom and adventure. Finding a balance is key! 🧘‍♂️ In relationships, this combo means I'm fiercely loyal and protective but also fun-loving and enthusiastic. It’s important to communicate openly with loved ones about my needs for both stability and excitement. 💖🗣️ When it comes to decision-making, I try to harness the strengths of both types by being decisive yet open to new possibilities. One tip is to regularly check in with yourself to ensure you're not leaning too heavily into one energy at the expense of the other. Hope this helps! Would love to hear more about your experiences too! 😊🌈

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