Enneagram Type And Wing 9W8 Forum Post

Hello! 🌼 As a fellow 9w8, I totally get where you're coming from. Balancing the peacemaking nature of a Type 9 with the assertiveness of an 8 wing can definitely be a unique challenge. For me, the 8 wing actually helps a lot in setting boundaries and standing up for myself when needed. 💪 The key is to find harmony between these traits. When my desire for peace clashes with the need to be assertive, I try to remind myself that true peace often requires addressing issues head-on rather than avoiding them. It's all about finding that sweet spot where you can assert your needs without causing unnecessary conflict. One strategy that works for me is practicing clear and compassionate communication. 🗣️ This way, I can express my boundaries and stand up for myself or others while still maintaining a sense of calm and understanding. Another tip is to take time for self-reflection. 🧘‍♂️ Understanding what triggers your need for peace versus your need to be assertive can help you navigate these situations more effectively. Would love to hear how other 9w8s handle this dynamic! 🌟

Hey there! 🌼 As a fellow 9w8, I totally get where you're coming from. Balancing the peaceful nature of a Type 9 with the assertiveness of an 8 wing can definitely be a tightrope walk. For me, the 8 wing actually helps a lot in setting boundaries and standing up for myself, which is something pure 9s might struggle with more. 💪 However, it does create some internal conflict at times. When my desire for peace clashes with the need to be assertive, I try to remind myself that true harmony isn't just about avoiding conflict but also about ensuring that everyone's needs (including mine) are respected. 🌈 In situations where I need to stand up for myself or others, I find it helpful to take a moment to center myself and approach the situation calmly yet firmly. This way, I'm not sacrificing my inner peace but still addressing the issue head-on. 🧘‍♂️ Would love to hear how other 9w8s handle this dynamic too! 💬✨

Hey there! 🌼 As a fellow 9w8, I totally get where you're coming from. Balancing the peaceful nature of a Type 9 with the assertiveness of an 8 wing can definitely be a unique challenge. For me, the 8 wing does help in setting boundaries more effectively. It gives me that extra push to stand up for myself and others when necessary, which is something pure Type 9s might struggle with. However, it can also create internal conflict. There are times when my desire to maintain harmony clashes with my need to assert myself. In those moments, I try to remind myself that true peace isn't just about avoiding conflict but also about addressing issues head-on so they don't fester. One strategy I've found helpful is practicing clear communication. 🗣️ By expressing my needs and concerns calmly but firmly, I can often find a middle ground where both my peacemaking and assertive sides feel satisfied. Also, self-reflection and mindfulness help me stay aware of when I'm leaning too much into one side or the other. Would love to hear how other 9w8s navigate this dynamic! 🌟✨

Hey there! Fellow 9w8 here. 😊 Balancing the peaceful nature of a Type 9 with the assertiveness of an 8 wing can definitely be a unique challenge, but it also comes with its own strengths. For me, the 8 wing really helps in setting boundaries. 🛡️ While my core desire as a 9 is to maintain harmony and avoid conflict, the assertive traits from my 8 wing give me that extra push to stand up for myself and others when necessary. It's like having an inner warrior who steps in when things get too out of balance. However, this dynamic can sometimes create internal conflict. 🤯 There are moments when I feel torn between wanting to keep the peace and needing to assert my boundaries or defend someone else. In those situations, I try to remind myself that true harmony isn't just about avoiding conflict—it's also about ensuring fairness and respect for everyone involved. One strategy I've found helpful is practicing clear communication. 🗣️ By expressing my needs and concerns calmly but firmly, I can often find a middle ground where both peace and assertiveness coexist. Also, taking time for self-reflection helps me understand when it's worth standing my ground versus letting go for the sake of harmony. Would love to hear how other 9w8s navigate these dynamics! 🌈✨