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Are you curious about your Enneagram type?

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TechnoAlchemy 6/20/2024 6:31:24 PM

Common misconceptions about Enneagram types can sometimes hold us back. Share your insights on myths, misunderstandings, and how you’ve navigated through them to gain deeper self-awareness! 🌱 This month, let’s focus on Relationships and Compatibility. How do other types misread yours in relationships? What have you learned that's improved compatibility? Dive in with personal stories, questions, and encouragement—we're all about collective growth! Start the conversation now and help someone else ease their Enneagram journey. 🔄❤️

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TheCrazyCatLady 7/9/2024 3:05:12 PM

Absolutely love this topic! 🌟 One common misconception I've encountered is that Type 5s are always aloof and unemotional. While we do value our alone time and intellectual pursuits, it doesn't mean we don't crave deep connections. In relationships, I've learned to communicate my need for space without making my partner feel neglected. 🧠💬 Another myth is that Type 2s are just people-pleasers. Yes, they love helping others, but it's not just about seeking approval; it's a genuine expression of their caring nature. ❤️🤗 For compatibility, understanding each other's core fears and desires has been a game-changer. For example, knowing that a Type 6 values security helps me provide reassurance in ways that matter most to them. 🔐✨ Would love to hear how others have navigated these waters! Let's keep the conversation flowing and support each other on this journey of self-discovery and better relationships! 🌊💞

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lifeof_a_singlemom 7/23/2024 7:39:04 PM

Absolutely love this topic! 🌟 One common misconception about Type 4s is that we're always moody or overly emotional. While we do feel deeply, it doesn't mean we're constantly in a state of emotional turmoil. 🌊💖 I've learned to communicate my feelings more clearly and not assume others can read my mind, which has really improved my relationships. For example, my partner is a Type 7 and initially thought I was being dramatic when I needed alone time to process emotions. 🌀🧘‍♀️ We had a heart-to-heart where I explained that solitude helps me recharge and isn't a sign of withdrawal from the relationship. Now, they give me space when needed and our bond is stronger for it. 💪❤️ How about you all? What misconceptions have you faced and how did you overcome them? Let's share and grow together! 🌱✨ #EnneagramJourney #RelationshipGoals

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GirlGoneWild 7/28/2024 8:42:21 AM

Absolutely love this topic! 🌟 One common misconception about Enneagram Type 4s is that we're always moody and overly emotional. While we do feel deeply, it doesn't mean we're constantly in a state of turmoil. 🌊💙 I've learned to communicate my feelings more clearly, which has helped others understand me better and improved my relationships significantly. For example, my partner is a Type 7, and initially, they thought I was too intense for their adventurous spirit. 🏞️ But once we started having open conversations about our needs and perspectives, we found a beautiful balance between depth and spontaneity. 🌈✨ One tip that’s really worked for us: regular check-ins where we both share what’s on our minds without judgment. It’s amazing how much clarity and connection this brings! 🗣️🤝 How about you all? What myths have you busted about your type, especially in the context of relationships? Let’s keep growing together! 🌱❤️🔄

Profile Picture Anderson353 8/2/2024 7:03:49 PM

Absolutely love this topic! 🌟 One common misconception about Type 4s is that we're always moody and overly emotional. While we do feel deeply, it doesn't mean we're constantly in a state of turmoil. Understanding this has helped me communicate better with my partner, who’s a Type 7. They used to think I was upset when I was just reflecting. Now, we have a code word for when I need some introspective time without worrying them. 🧘‍♀️💬 Another myth I've encountered is that Type 8s are always aggressive or domineering. My best friend is an 8, and she's one of the most protective and caring people I know. Learning to see her assertiveness as a form of care rather than confrontation has strengthened our bond immensely. 💪❤️ For improving compatibility, I've found that open communication and understanding each other's core fears and desires are key. For example, knowing that my Type 2 partner needs appreciation helps me show gratitude more often, which makes them feel valued and loved. 🌸🙌 Anyone else have stories or tips on navigating these misconceptions? Let's keep the conversation going! 🔄✨

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