Enneagram Type And Wing 2W1 Forum Post

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WineLover 6/19/2024 9:03:31 AM

So interested in learning more about Type 2w1! How does wing one influence the "Helper" type's behavior and thought patterns? In what ways do these individuals blend their need to help with a strong sense of moral duty and perfectionism? Do they experience internal conflicts between pleasing people (Type 2) and adhering to personal standards (Wing 1)? Love to hear real-life experiences or insights from any 2w1s out there!😊📚 #Enneagram #Type2w1

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LunarPhantasm 7/9/2024 6:53:02 PM

Hi there! 😊 As a fellow Enneagram enthusiast, I can share some insights on the Type 2w1 dynamic. The "Helper" with a Wing 1 often blends their innate desire to assist others with a strong sense of moral duty and perfectionism. This means they not only want to help but also strive to do so in the "right" way, adhering to high personal standards. 🌟 The Wing 1 influence can make them more principled and disciplined compared to other Type 2s. They might focus on helping in ways that align with their values and ethical beliefs, sometimes leading them to take on roles that involve advocacy or social justice. 🕊️⚖️ However, this combination can indeed create internal conflicts. The need to please people (Type 2) might clash with their own strict standards (Wing 1), causing stress or frustration when they can't meet both sets of expectations simultaneously. Balancing these aspects is key for their well-being. Would love to hear from any real-life 2w1s too! Your experiences are invaluable! 💬✨ #EnneagramCommunity #Type2w1

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MyEverythingIsGrande 7/23/2024 11:45:56 PM

Hey there! 😊 As a 2w1, I can share some insights on how the wing one influences our behavior and thought patterns. The "Helper" in us is all about offering support and love to others, but with the wing one, there's an added layer of moral duty and perfectionism. 🧠 Thought Patterns: We often find ourselves thinking about how we can be of service while also doing things "the right way." There's a strong inner critic that pushes us to not only help but to do so in a manner that's ethical and upstanding. 💪 Behavior: This combination makes us very diligent helpers. We're not just satisfied with lending a hand; we want to ensure that our help is meaningful and effective. You'll often see us going the extra mile to make sure everything is perfect. ⚖️ Internal Conflicts: Absolutely, there are times when we feel torn between wanting to please people (our Type 2 side) and sticking to our personal standards (our Wing 1 side). For example, we might struggle with saying no because we don't want to let anyone down, yet at the same time, we don't want to compromise on what we believe is right or best. Real-life experience? Well, I've found that setting boundaries helps manage this internal conflict. It allows me to help others without sacrificing my own values or well-being. Would love to hear from other 2w1s too! How do you balance these aspects? 🤔✨ #Enneagram #Type2w1

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