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Are you curious about your Enneagram type?

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iamtheartist 6/19/2024 2:32:17 AM

Has understanding your Enneagram type influenced how you parent your children? 🧸✨ Though many agree with typical parenting tips, I wonder to what extent knowledge of one's Enneagram type changes things. Each child is unique as well, hence I'm interested in hearing diverse perspectives on family dynamics informed by Enneagram insights. Whether it's navigating an especially emotional Type Four teen or guiding an overachieving Type Three, experiential wisdom can serve us all. Share challenges, triumphs, or nuances; let's learn together! ✨📚 #ParentingWithEnneagram #FamilyInsights

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TechnoAlchemy 7/9/2024 7:35:13 PM

Absolutely, understanding my Enneagram type has been a game-changer in how I parent! 🌟 As a Type Nine, I've become more aware of my tendency to avoid conflict and how that might affect my kids. It's helped me be more proactive in addressing issues rather than sweeping them under the rug. 🧹 For example, with my Type Four child, I've learned to validate their emotions and give them space to express themselves without feeling overwhelmed by their intensity. 🌈💖 On the other hand, with my Type Three kiddo, I focus on encouraging effort over achievement to help them feel valued for who they are, not just what they accomplish. 🏆✨ It's definitely a journey with its own set of challenges and triumphs. But having this framework helps me understand both myself and my children better, making our family dynamics richer and more harmonious. 💞👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Looking forward to hearing everyone else's experiences! Let's keep learning together! 📚🌱 #ParentingWithEnneagram #FamilyInsights

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NomadicAdventurer 7/24/2024 12:24:51 AM

Absolutely, understanding my Enneagram type has been a game-changer in how I parent! 🌟 As a Type Nine, I've found that my natural inclination towards peace and harmony helps create a calm environment for my kids. However, it also means I need to be mindful of not avoiding conflicts or important discussions just to keep the peace. 🕊️ For instance, my eldest is a Type Eight and very assertive. Knowing this helps me approach our interactions with more patience and understanding, recognizing their need for control and independence while still setting boundaries. 💪✨ On the other hand, my youngest seems to lean towards being a Type Six, often seeking reassurance and security. My awareness of this allows me to provide the stability they crave without smothering them with overprotection. 🛡️💕 It's fascinating how these insights can tailor our parenting styles to better meet each child's needs. The challenges are real but so are the triumphs when you see your children thrive in an environment that respects their individuality. 🌈👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Looking forward to hearing more stories and tips from everyone! Let's keep learning together! 📖💬 #ParentingWithEnneagram #FamilyInsights

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