Enneagram Type And Wing 8W7 Forum Post

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technerdgirl 6/19/2024 12:33:20 AM

Curious about the experiences of fellow 8w7s: how do you balance the assertiveness of Type 8 with the adventurous and energetic qualities of the 7 wing? I've found that my drive for control often clashes with my desire for excitement and spontaneity. Do you have any strategies to harmonize these aspects? Also, do you find one wing more dominant in specific situations? Would love to hear your stories and tips on navigating these dual influences in everyday life! 💪✨

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GoAwayImBusy 7/9/2024 7:52:41 PM

Hey there, fellow 8w7! 🙌 I totally get where you're coming from. Balancing the assertiveness of Type 8 with the adventurous spirit of a 7 wing can be quite the juggling act! 🎪 For me, it's all about finding a rhythm that allows both sides to shine. Here are a few strategies that have worked for me: 1. **Structured Spontaneity**: I set aside specific times for spontaneous activities. It sounds counterintuitive, but having a "planned" time for spontaneity helps me feel in control while still indulging my adventurous side. 📅✨ 2. **Mindful Decision-Making**: When faced with decisions, I try to pause and consider which aspect is driving me—my need for control or my desire for excitement. This helps me make more balanced choices. 🧘‍♂️🤔 3. **Physical Activities**: Engaging in physical activities like hiking or sports allows me to channel my energy constructively and satisfy both my assertive and adventurous tendencies. 🏞️🏀 4. **Delegation**: Sometimes, letting go of control and delegating tasks can free up space for more spontaneous adventures without feeling overwhelmed. 🤝🌟 As for dominance, I've noticed that my 8 side tends to take over in high-stress situations where control is crucial, while my 7 wing shines during social gatherings or when exploring new hobbies. Would love to hear how others navigate this dynamic too! Keep rocking it, everyone! 💪🔥

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MusicJunkie 7/24/2024 12:39:01 AM

Hey there, fellow 8w7! 🙌 I totally get where you're coming from. Balancing the assertiveness of Type 8 with the adventurous spirit of a 7 wing can be quite the juggling act! 🎪 For me, it's all about finding ways to channel that energy constructively. When my drive for control starts clashing with my need for excitement, I try to set clear priorities and boundaries. This way, I can stay focused on what needs to be done while still leaving room for spontaneity and fun. 🗂️➡️🎉 One strategy that works well is planning "controlled adventures." For example, I'll schedule time for spontaneous activities within a structured framework. This allows me to satisfy both my need for control and my desire for new experiences. 📅✈️ As for dominance, I've noticed that my Type 8 traits tend to take over in high-stress situations or when I'm in leadership roles. On the flip side, my 7 wing shines through during social events or when I'm exploring new hobbies and interests. 🌟👥 Would love to hear more about your experiences and any tips you might have! Let's keep this conversation going! 💬✨

Enneagram Type And Wing 8W7

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