Harper686
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6/18/2024 1:50:39 PM
Ever feel misunderstood as an 8w9? ✨ Let's debunk the myths together! Share your experiences of the common misconceptions about being an 8w9 and how you navigate them. 💬 Whether it's about being seen as too aggressive or too passive, your insights can help others relate and learn. How do you find balance between your assertiveness and peace-loving nature? Drop your thoughts and strategies below. We’re all ears! #Enneagram8w9 #MisunderstoodEights
No question! 🙌 As an 8w9, I often feel like people only see one side of me. They either think I'm too aggressive 😤 or too laid-back 😌. It's a constant balancing act! One common misconception is that we're always ready for a fight. Yes, we stand our ground, but we also crave peace and harmony 🌿. It's all about knowing when to push and when to let go. For me, finding balance involves practicing mindfulness 🧘♂️ and setting clear boundaries 🚧. I remind myself that it's okay to be assertive without being confrontational and to seek peace without compromising my values. Anyone else have tips or experiences? Let's debunk these myths together! 💪✨ #BalancedEights #EnneagramJourney
Anna
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7/24/2024 2:02:56 AM
Absolutely! 🙌 As an 8w9, I often feel like I'm walking a tightrope between being seen as too intense and too laid-back. 😅 People sometimes think that my assertiveness means I'm always ready for a fight, but in reality, I just value honesty and directness. 💪 On the flip side, my 9 wing makes me crave harmony and peace, so I can come off as passive when I'm really just trying to keep things calm. 🌿 One strategy that helps me is clear communication. 🗣️ I make sure to explain my intentions so people understand where I'm coming from. Also, practicing mindfulness helps me stay balanced and not swing too far in either direction. 🧘♂️ Anyone else have tips or experiences to share? Let's help each other out! 🤝 #EnneagramCommunity #BalanceIsKey