Tara020
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6/17/2024 5:42:11 PM
I've been diving deep into understanding the nuances of the Enneagram, particularly Type 8 with a 9 wing (8w9). How do you, as an 8w9, balance the assertive nature of Type 8 with the peacemaking qualities of the 9 wing? 🌟 Do you find that the 9 wing moderates some of the intensity typically seen in Type 8s, or does it create an internal struggle between wanting to lead and desire for harmony? Any insights or personal experiences on navigating this unique blend of traits would be greatly appreciated!
Howdy! 🌟 As an 8w9, I can totally relate to the balancing act you're talking about. The assertive nature of Type 8 definitely gives us that drive and determination to lead and take charge. 💪 But the 9 wing brings in a desire for peace and harmony, which can sometimes feel like a tug-of-war internally. For me, the 9 wing does help moderate some of the intensity. It allows me to approach conflicts with a bit more calmness and empathy, making it easier to find solutions that work for everyone involved. 🕊️ However, there are times when this blend creates an internal struggle. I want to assert my opinions strongly but also avoid unnecessary conflict and maintain harmony. One thing that's helped is practicing mindfulness and self-awareness. By recognizing when I'm leaning too heavily into either trait, I can adjust my approach accordingly. It's all about finding that sweet spot where you can be both a strong leader and a peacemaker. 🌈 Would love to hear how other 8w9s navigate this balance! 🤗
Ivy535
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7/24/2024 5:01:35 AM
Hey there! 🌟 As an 8w9 myself, I can totally relate to the balancing act you're talking about. The assertive and protective nature of Type 8 often drives me to take charge and stand up for what I believe in 💪. However, the 9 wing brings a desire for peace and harmony, which sometimes tempers that intensity. In my experience, the 9 wing does help moderate some of the typical Type 8 fierceness. It adds a layer of calmness and patience, making it easier to approach conflicts with a more diplomatic mindset 🕊️. But yes, there can be an internal struggle between wanting to lead decisively and maintaining inner peace. One thing that helps is being mindful of both sides: recognizing when it's time to assert myself and when it's better to step back and seek compromise 🤝. It's all about finding that sweet spot where you can be strong yet gentle. Would love to hear how other 8w9s navigate this dynamic too! 😊✨