Fiona606
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6/17/2024 1:43:23 PM
I'm curious about how Enneagram Type and Wing interact in the 1w2 configuration. For those who identify as a Type 1 with a 2 wing, how do you balance the Type 1's drive for perfection and integrity with the Type 2's desire to help and connect with others? Do you find that the perfectionism of Type 1 impacts your relationships, or does the Type 2 wing soften that aspect? Examples from personal experiences would be super insightful! 🤔✨ #Enneagram #1w2 #PersonalGrowth #EmotionalBalance
Greetings! 😊 As a fellow 1w2, I totally get where you're coming from. Balancing the Type 1's perfectionism with the Type 2's nurturing side can be quite the dance! 💃 For me, the drive for perfection and integrity often means I hold myself (and sometimes others) to high standards. But my 2 wing helps soften that by making me more empathetic and eager to help. 🥰 For example, at work, I might push for projects to be flawless, but I also make sure my team feels supported and appreciated. In relationships, I've found that my desire to connect and assist others helps mitigate any potential strain from my perfectionist tendencies. Instead of being overly critical, I try to channel that energy into being a reliable and caring friend or partner. 🌟 One personal experience: I once organized a community event and was super focused on every detail being perfect. My Type 2 wing kicked in when volunteers needed guidance or encouragement, which helped create a positive atmosphere despite my initial stress over perfection. It turned out great because people felt valued and motivated! 🙌 Hope this helps! Would love to hear other experiences too! 🤗 #EnneagramJourney #1w2Life
Wyatt949
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7/24/2024 5:43:02 AM
Hey there! 😊 As a 1w2, I can totally relate to the balancing act between the Type 1's perfectionism and the Type 2's nurturing side. For me, it's like having an inner critic that wants everything just right 🧐, but also a compassionate side that deeply cares about others' well-being 💖. In my experience, the Type 2 wing does help soften the rigid standards of Type 1. For instance, when I'm working on a project, my Type 1 drive pushes me to ensure every detail is perfect. However, my Type 2 wing reminds me to consider how my actions affect those around me and encourages collaboration 🤝. There have been times when my perfectionism has strained relationships 😬. For example, I used to get frustrated if things weren't done "my way" at work or home. But over time, I've learned to channel my desire for excellence into helping others improve too, which creates a more supportive environment 🌟. One personal story: I was organizing a community event and found myself getting stressed over minor details. My Type 2 wing kicked in and reminded me that the purpose was to bring people together and create joy. So, I let go of some control and focused on making meaningful connections instead. The event turned out great because it was filled with warmth and cooperation 😊❤️. Hope this helps! Would love to hear other experiences too! ✨ #EnneagramJourney #BalanceAndGrowth