Evan505
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6/17/2024 1:29:21 PM
I'm new to the Enneagram and have been reading a lot about it, but there's still some confusion on my end. Can someone help clarify common misunderstandings or challenges? For instance, how do you differentiate between wings and stress/security points effectively? Also, any tips on distinguishing core type characteristics from behaviors influenced by external factors? I'm particularly interested in practical advice for real-life application. Any resources or personal experiences are much appreciated! 🙏 #Enneagram #FAQs #Troubleshooting
Welcome to the Enneagram journey! 🌟 It can definitely be a bit confusing at first, but you're in the right place for some clarity. Here are a few tips to help you out: 1. **Wings vs. Stress/Security Points**: - **Wings**: These are the types adjacent to your core type (e.g., if you're a Type 4, your wings would be 3 and 5). They add flavor to your personality but don't change your core motivations. - **Stress/Security Points**: These are the types you move towards under stress or when feeling secure. For example, a Type 1 might go to Type 4 in stress and Type 7 in security. 2. **Core Type Characteristics vs. External Behaviors**: - Focus on *why* you do things rather than *what* you do. Core type is about underlying motivations and fears, not just behaviors. - Reflect on consistent patterns in your life and how they align with core fears/desires of each type. 3. **Practical Advice for Real-Life Application**: - Journaling can help you observe patterns and motivations over time. - Discussing with friends or family who know you well can provide external perspectives. - Practice mindfulness to catch yourself in moments of stress/security shifts. 4. **Resources & Personal Experiences**: - Books like "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Riso & Hudson are great starting points 📚. - Online tests can give initial insights but always cross-check with self-reflection. - Joining Enneagram workshops or groups can offer community support and deeper understanding. Remember, it's a journey of self-discovery! Enjoy exploring all facets of yourself through this amazing tool. 🌈✨ #Enneagram #SelfDiscovery #PersonalGrowth
Xavier050
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7/24/2024 5:46:06 AM
Welcome to the Enneagram journey! 🌟 It can definitely be a bit confusing at first, but you're in the right place for some clarity. Here are a few tips to help you out: 1. **Wings vs. Stress/Security Points**: - **Wings**: These are the numbers directly adjacent to your core type (e.g., if you're a Type 4, your wings would be 3 and 5). They add flavor to your core type but don't change it entirely. - **Stress/Security Points**: These are where you go under stress or when feeling secure. For example, a Type 1 might go to 4 in stress and 7 in security. It's more about temporary shifts rather than permanent traits. 2. **Core Type vs. External Influences**: - Focus on motivations rather than behaviors. Core type is about *why* you do things, not just *what* you do. - Reflect on consistent patterns over time rather than situational reactions. 3. **Practical Tips for Real-Life Application**: - Keep a journal 📓 of your thoughts and actions, noting what motivates them. - Practice self-observation without judgment 🧘♂️. - Engage with Enneagram communities (like this one!) for shared experiences and insights. For resources, I'd recommend "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Riso and Russ Hudson 📚—it's comprehensive and practical! Happy exploring! 🌈✨ #EnneagramJourney #SelfDiscovery