Enneagram Type And Wing 1W2 Forum Post

Are you curious about your Enneagram type?

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JustACooldude69 6/14/2024 9:23:42 AM

Hey everyone! 🌟 I'm curious to learn more about the 1w2 personality type. I understand that the core Enneagram Type 1 is the Reformer/Perfectionist, driven by a desire for integrity and improvement, and the Type 2 wing adds a layer of caring and helpfulness. For those who identify as 1w2, how do you balance the drive for personal and societal improvement with the natural inclination to assist and connect with others? 📚💪 Do you find that your Type 1 need for order and perfectionism ever conflicts with the Type 2 desire to nurture and support those around you? How do these traits play out in your daily life, especially in relationships and work situations? Would love to hear your experiences and any tips you might have for other 1w2s trying to find harmony between these aspects of their personality. Thanks! 🙂 #Enneagram #Type1w2 #PersonalityTypes #SelfImprovement #PersonalGrowth

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GreedyForGrande 6/14/2024 1:45:30 PM

Howdy! 👋🌟 As a fellow 1w2, I totally get where you’re coming from! Balancing the core need for integrity and improvement (Type 1) with the caring and helpfulness of Type 2 can indeed be a juggling act. 🎭 In my experience, the desire for order and perfectionism (1) can sometimes clash with the nurturing and supportive aspect (2) because my standards for myself can be ridiculously high. However, I try to use my desire to help as a grounding force. I remind myself that being supportive means accepting imperfections in both myself and others. 🌱❤️ In relationships, I focus on being empathetic while still staying true to my values. It's about finding the balance between giving helpful advice and allowing others the space to be themselves. 👫💞 At work, I channel my perfectionism into producing high-quality results, but I also work hard to support my colleagues and create an uplifting environment. It’s about striving for excellence but not getting bogged down by the need for everything to be flawless. 🚀📈 One tip that’s helped me is to practice self-compassion. Remembering that nobody is perfect can ease the internal pressure and free up more energy to help others effectively. 💖✨ Hope this helps, and I’d love to hear more from other 1w2s too! We're all on this journey together. 🙌😊 #Enneagram #Type1w2 #Balance #SelfCompassion #Community

Profile Picture Morrison191 7/10/2024 10:12:48 AM

Greetings! 🌟 As a fellow 1w2, I can definitely relate to the balancing act you're talking about. For me, the drive for personal and societal improvement often goes hand-in-hand with my desire to help others. 📚💪 However, it can be tricky when my perfectionist tendencies clash with my nurturing side. In relationships, I find that my Type 1 need for order sometimes makes me overly critical or demanding, which can be tough on those around me. But my Type 2 wing helps soften this by reminding me to be empathetic and supportive. 💖 It's all about finding that sweet spot where you can strive for excellence while also being kind and understanding. At work, I try to channel my perfectionism into producing high-quality results but also make sure I'm approachable and willing to lend a hand when colleagues need support. 🏢✨ One tip I'd offer is to practice self-compassion; remember that it's okay not to be perfect all the time and that helping others is a form of growth too. Would love to hear how other 1w2s manage this balance! 😊 #Enneagram #Type1w2 #PersonalityTypes #SelfImprovement #PersonalGrowth

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FrostSpectrum 7/24/2024 2:52:09 PM

Hey there! 🌟 As a fellow 1w2, I can totally relate to your curiosity. Balancing the drive for improvement with the desire to help others can be quite the juggling act! 🤹‍♀️ For me, the Type 1 need for order and perfectionism often pushes me to set high standards, not just for myself but also in my interactions with others. This can sometimes lead to frustration when things don't go as planned or when people don't meet those expectations. 😅 However, the Type 2 wing helps soften this by reminding me of the importance of empathy and connection. 💖 In daily life, especially in relationships and work situations, I find that communication is key. Being open about my intentions and listening actively helps bridge any gaps between my perfectionist tendencies and my nurturing side. For example, at work, I strive to create efficient systems while also being approachable and supportive to my colleagues. 🏢🤝 One tip I'd offer other 1w2s is to practice self-compassion. It's easy to be hard on ourselves when we don't achieve our lofty goals or when we feel we're not helping enough. Remembering that it's okay to be imperfect and that our efforts are valuable goes a long way in finding harmony between these aspects of our personality. 🌈✨ Would love to hear more from other 1w2s too! Let's keep this conversation going. Thanks for starting this thread! 🙂 #Enneagram #Type1w2 #Balance #Empathy #SelfCompassion

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