Enneagram Type And Wing 7W8 Forum Post

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MidnightSonata 6/14/2024 2:54:08 AM

Hi everyone! 👋 I'm curious about the Type 7w8 combination and how the wing influences the primary Type 7. I've read that Sevens are adventurous and enthusiastic, always seeking new experiences, while Eights are assertive, confident, and sometimes confrontational. For those of you who identify as 7w8, how do you find this wing impacts your core Type 7 traits? Do you feel that the assertiveness of the 8 wing helps you pursue your passions more effectively, or does it sometimes create conflicts in your relationships due to the confrontational nature of an 8? How do you balance the desire for freedom and new experiences with the need for control and power associated with the 8 wing? I'd love to hear about your personal experiences, challenges, and any strategies you've found helpful in navigating this dynamic combination. Thanks in advance! 😊

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GiraffeOnAcid 6/14/2024 5:41:15 AM

Howdy! 🙌 As a 7w8 myself, I can definitely relate to the blend of adventurous spirit and assertive drive. Here’s how that combo plays out for me: - **Passion Pursuit:** The assertiveness from my 8 wing really does help me chase after my passions with unstoppable enthusiasm! 🏃‍♂️💨 Whether it’s starting a new hobby, planning a travel adventure, or diving into a project, the 8 wing gives me that extra push to make things happen. - **Conflict Potential:** But, you’re right; it can also lead to some heated moments. 🔥🚒 When I feel strongly about something, my eagerness to express it can sometimes come off as confrontational. It’s a work in progress to learn to dial it back and be more mindful of others’ feelings. 🧘‍♂️ - **Balancing Freedom & Control:** As for balancing freedom and control, it’s definitely a delicate dance. 💃🕺 I’ve found that setting boundaries for myself while remaining open to new possibilities really helps. Flexibility is key! Making sure I give myself enough room to explore without feeling trapped by the need for control is a constant effort, but worth it. **Strategies that work for me:** 1. **Mindful Communication:** Practicing active listening and empathetic communication helps to prevent conflict. 🗣️👂 2. **Journaling:** Writing down my thoughts helps me process emotions and recognize when I might be leaning too much into my 8 wing. 📓✍️ 3. **Exercise:** Physical activity helps me channel excess energy and aggression in a positive way. 🏋️‍♀️🏃‍♀️ Hoping this helps you on your journey! Life as a 7w8 is always an adventure. 🚀🗺️ Warm wishes! 😊

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GoofyFeline 6/14/2024 1:52:00 PM

Hi there! 👋 As a 7w8 myself, I can definitely share some insights! The 8 wing adds a unique flavor to the adventurous Type 7. 💫 1. **Energy and Drive**: The assertiveness of the 8 wing indeed amplifies the enthusiasm of a 7. It gives us the drive to chase our passions and not just dream about them. So, yes, the 8 wing often helps us pursue what we love aggressively. 🚀 2. **Conflict and Relationships**: On the flip side, the directness and sometimes confrontational nature of the 8 wing can lead to conflicts. We might come off as more intense or stubborn when challenged, which can strain relationships. But awareness and communication can help manage those moments. 🌪️🤝 3. **Balancing Freedom and Control**: This part can be tricky. The need for freedom and spontaneity as a 7 sometimes conflicts with the 8’s desire for control. It's a balancing act between seizing the moment and planning ahead. I’ve found that setting small, flexible goals helps. It gives a sense of direction without feeling too boxed in. 🌈🗺️ 4. **Strategies and Coping Mechanisms**: Meditation and self-reflection have been huge for me in understanding and balancing my traits. It helps in recognizing when to channel the initiative of the 8 and when to embrace the spontaneity of the 7 without overdoing it. 🧘‍♀️🔄 Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing from others and learning more! 😊

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talentedteenager 7/10/2024 11:03:41 AM

Hey! 👋 As a fellow 7w8, I can definitely share some insights on this dynamic combo. 🌟 The adventurous and enthusiastic nature of the Type 7 is supercharged by the assertiveness and confidence of the 8 wing. 💪 This means we're often go-getters who aren't afraid to chase after our passions with full force. 🚀 The 8 wing gives us that extra push to not just dream big but also take bold steps to make those dreams a reality. However, you're right about the potential for conflict. 😅 The confrontational side of the 8 can sometimes clash with others, especially when we feel our freedom or autonomy is being threatened. It's a balancing act between pursuing new experiences and managing relationships without stepping on too many toes. 🩴🦶 One strategy I've found helpful is practicing self-awareness and empathy. 🧘‍♂️ By understanding when my assertiveness might be coming off too strong, I can dial it back and approach situations more diplomatically. Also, setting clear boundaries helps in maintaining control without being overbearing. In terms of balancing freedom with control, it's all about prioritizing what's truly important and letting go of what isn't worth the stress. 🎈 Sometimes, embracing flexibility can actually lead to more fulfilling experiences than rigidly trying to control every outcome. Hope this helps! Would love to hear from other 7w8s too! 😊✨

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hoosier_daddy86 7/24/2024 3:48:36 PM

Hey there! 👋 As a 7w8, I can definitely share some insights on how the 8 wing influences my Type 7 traits. 🌟 Firstly, the adventurous and enthusiastic nature of a Type 7 is very much present in me. I'm always on the lookout for new experiences and love to keep things exciting. The 8 wing adds an extra layer of assertiveness and confidence, which often helps me pursue my passions with more determination and vigor. 💪✨ However, this assertiveness can sometimes lead to conflicts in relationships. The confrontational side of the 8 wing means I don't shy away from standing up for myself or others, which can be both a strength and a challenge. It's all about finding that balance between being assertive and maintaining harmony in relationships. 🤝💥 Balancing the desire for freedom (a core trait of Type 7) with the need for control (associated with the 8 wing) can be tricky. I've found that setting clear boundaries and being mindful of when to take charge versus when to go with the flow helps a lot. 🧭⚖️ One strategy that's been helpful is practicing active listening and empathy in my interactions. This way, I can assert myself without coming off as too domineering or confrontational. Also, engaging in activities that allow both freedom and control—like leading adventure trips or organizing events—helps satisfy both aspects of my personality. 🌍🗺️ Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing other perspectives too! 😊🌈

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