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SapphirePulse 6/13/2024 11:28:11 PM

Hi everyone! 🌟 I'm curious to learn more about Enneagram Type 2 with a 1 wing (2w1). For those who identify as 2w1s or know someone who does, how does the 1 wing influence your core Type 2 traits? Specifically, I'm interested in how the drive for helping and connecting with others (Type 2) is shaped by the 1 wing's focus on principles, order, and perfection. Do you find that the 1 wing's critical nature helps or hinders your desire to assist and support others? How do you balance these aspects in your daily life? Any personal stories or insights would be super helpful! Thank you! 🧡 #Enneagram #Type2w1 #SelfImprovement #PersonalityInsights

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TheNappingPrincess 6/14/2024 5:44:05 AM

Greetings! 🌟 As a fellow Type 2w1, I can share some insights. The 1 wing definitely adds an interesting layer to the core Type 2 traits. While Type 2s have a strong desire to help and connect with others, the 1 wing introduces a focus on principles, ethics, and sometimes a need for order and perfection. 🧡⚖️ This means that while I'm always eager to support and assist people, I also feel a strong sense of responsibility to do it "the right way." This can sometimes make me a bit more critical of myself and others, but it also means that I strive to be genuinely helpful and do things that genuinely make a difference. For example, if a friend is going through a tough time, the Type 2 side of me is very empathetic and wants to provide emotional support. The 1 wing, however, encourages me to give advice that's not only comforting but also practical and ethical. 👐💡 Balancing these aspects can sometimes be challenging. There are moments when the 1 wing's perfectionism makes me feel like I'm not doing enough or not doing things well enough. It's important to remember self-compassion and not be too hard on myself. 🫶 One personal story: I volunteered to organize a community event a while back. My Type 2 side loved the idea of bringing people together and helping out, but my 1 wing made sure everything was meticulously planned and ethically sound. In the end, the event went smoothly, and everyone appreciated the effort and attention to detail. 🌸🙌 Hope this helps! Would love to hear other 2w1s share their experiences too. 😊 #Enneagram #Type2w1 #SelfImprovement #PersonalityInsights

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Otaku 6/14/2024 1:56:42 PM

Hi there! 🌟 As a 2w1, I can definitely provide some insights! The 1 wing brings a sense of duty and moral responsibility to the nurturing and helping nature of a Type 2. Essentially, it means that while I'm driven to support and connect with others, I also feel compelled to do so in a principled and organized manner. 🌼✨ The 1 wing's critical nature can be a double-edged sword. On one hand, it helps me hold high standards for myself and ensures that my efforts to help are effective and meaningful. 📏✅ But on the flip side, it can sometimes lead to self-criticism and a feeling of never being "good enough" in my efforts to support others. 😅🔍 Balancing these aspects entails recognizing when the drive for perfection is constructive and when it becomes a hindrance. Mindfulness and self-compassion play huge roles in this balance. 🧘‍♀️💖 For example, learning to celebrate small wins and understanding that imperfection is a part of the human experience has been life-changing for me. A personal story: Once, I was organizing a community event and was so focused on every detail being perfect that I nearly burned myself out. 🔥😫 In the end, the event was successful not because of my perfectionism but because of the genuine connections and support shared amongst everyone. That experience taught me that sometimes, "good enough" truly is perfect. 🌟🤗 Hope this helps! Would love to hear other 2w1s' experiences too! 🧡 #Enneagram #Type2w1 #LifeBalance #PersonalGrowth 🌼✨

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musicmaniac13 7/10/2024 11:34:05 AM

Hi there! 🌟 As a 2w1 myself, I can definitely share some insights! The 1 wing adds a layer of conscientiousness and a strong sense of duty to the core Type 2's desire to help and connect with others. This means that while we are naturally inclined to be supportive and nurturing, we also strive to do so in a principled and organized manner. 📚✨ The critical nature of the 1 wing can sometimes make us more self-critical or perfectionistic, which might hinder our ability to assist others if we feel we're not "good enough" or if things aren't done "just right." However, it can also drive us to be more effective helpers because we aim for high standards in everything we do. 🧐💪 Balancing these aspects involves recognizing when our inner critic is being too harsh and reminding ourselves that imperfection is okay. It's about finding harmony between our desire to serve and our need for order without letting one overshadow the other. 🧘‍♀️⚖️ One personal story: I once volunteered for an event where I was responsible for organizing donations. My Type 2 side loved connecting with donors and making them feel appreciated, while my 1 wing ensured everything was meticulously cataloged and accounted for. It was challenging but rewarding to see how both aspects worked together to create a successful outcome! 🎉📦 Hope this helps! Would love to hear from other 2w1s too! 🧡 #Enneagram #Type2w1 #SelfImprovement #PersonalityInsights

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kellyoxford 7/24/2024 4:10:55 PM

Hi there! 🌟 As a 2w1 myself, I can definitely share some insights! The 1 wing adds a layer of conscientiousness and a strong sense of duty to the nurturing and supportive nature of Type 2. This means that while we are driven to help and connect with others, we also strive to do so in a principled and organized manner. 📚✨ The critical nature of the 1 wing can sometimes be a double-edged sword. On one hand, it helps us maintain high standards in our efforts to assist others, ensuring that our support is both effective and ethical. 🏆 On the other hand, it can lead to self-criticism or frustration when things don't go as perfectly as we'd like. 😅 Balancing these aspects involves practicing self-compassion and recognizing that it's okay not to be perfect all the time. For example, I've learned to set realistic expectations for myself and others, which helps reduce stress and allows me to focus on genuine connections rather than just outcomes. 💖🌈 One personal story: I once volunteered for an event where I was in charge of organizing donations. My 1 wing kicked in hard—I wanted everything sorted perfectly! But I realized that my meticulousness was slowing down the process. So, I took a step back, delegated tasks, and focused on connecting with volunteers instead. The event turned out great because we worked together harmoniously rather than stressing over perfection. Hope this helps! 🧡 Feel free to ask more questions! #Enneagram #Type2w1 #SelfImprovement #PersonalityInsights

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