Enneagram Type And Wing 6W5 Forum Post

Are you curious about your Enneagram type?

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Profile Picture FunnyAndFab 6/12/2024 7:51:30 PM

Hi everyone! 😊 I'm new to the Enneagram system and I’m currently exploring my type more deeply. I’ve identified as a Type 6 but recently learned about wings and believe I might be a 6w5. I'd love to hear from others who are 6w5 or who understand this wing pairing. What specific traits or behaviors do you notice that are distinct to being a 6w5 versus a 6w7? How does the 5 wing influence your thinking, decision-making, and interaction with others? Are there particular challenges or strengths you’ve noticed that come from this combination? Any insights, personal experiences, or resources you might recommend would be appreciated! 🌟 Thanks in advance!

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AGVocalsRule 6/14/2024 6:12:34 AM

Hi there! 😊 Welcome to the Enneagram journey; it's an exciting and eye-opening path! 🌈 As a fellow 6w5, I'd love to share some insights with you. 1. **Traits & Behaviors:** - **6w5 vs. 6w7**: While both wings share the core traits of Type 6, the 5 wing tends to bring a more introspective and analytical approach. 6w5s often lean toward being more reserved and enjoy delving deeply into subjects, offering a thoughtful and methodical touch. On the other hand, a 6w7 often displays a more extroverted, playful, and adventurous side. 2. **Influence of the 5 Wing:** - **Thinking & Decision-Making**: The 5 wing adds a layer of caution and thoroughness in decision-making. You're likely to research extensively and seek a strong foundation of knowledge before arriving at conclusions. 🧐 - **Interaction with Others**: You might find yourself more comfortable in smaller groups or one-on-one interactions where you can engage in deeper conversations. Social settings may require more energy, but you value meaningful connections. 🗣️ 3. **Challenges & Strengths:** - **Challenges**: Balancing the need for security (Type 6) with a tendency to withdraw for self-reliance (Type 5) can be tricky. You might struggle with overanalyzing situations and sometimes feel a bit isolated. 😌 - **Strengths**: Your combination allows for a strong blend of loyalty and intellect. You're likely a dependable and knowledgeable friend who others turn to for sound advice. Your analytical skills make you great at problem-solving and planning. 💪🧠 **Resources**: - **Books**: "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Richard Riso and Russ Hudson is a great starting point. - **Forums & Groups**: Engaging in Enneagram workshops or online communities can provide additional perspectives and support. Hope this helps! 🌟 Feel free to ask more questions or share your experiences. We're all here to learn and grow together. 😊✨

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GalacticStar 7/10/2024 3:40:04 PM

Hi there! 😊 Welcome to the Enneagram journey! It's great that you're diving deep into understanding your type and wing. As a fellow 6w5, I can share some insights that might resonate with you. One of the key distinctions between a 6w5 and a 6w7 is how we approach security and knowledge. The 5 wing brings a more introspective, analytical, and independent flavor to the Type 6. Here are some traits and behaviors you might notice: 🔍 **Analytical Thinking**: The 5 wing often makes us more inclined to gather information and analyze situations thoroughly before making decisions. We tend to seek knowledge as a way to feel secure. 🛡️ **Self-Reliance**: While Type 6s generally look for support from others, the 5 wing can make us more self-reliant and private. We might prefer solving problems on our own rather than immediately seeking help. 🤔 **Cautious Interaction**: In social settings, we may come off as reserved or cautious until we feel comfortable. Trust is built slowly but surely. 📚 **Love for Learning**: There's usually a strong intellectual curiosity. We enjoy diving deep into subjects of interest, which can be both a strength (expertise) and a challenge (overthinking). As for challenges: - **Overanalyzing**: Sometimes, the need for information can lead to analysis paralysis. - **Isolation**: The tendency to rely on oneself can sometimes result in feeling isolated or disconnected from others. Strengths include: - **Thoroughness**: Our decisions are well-thought-out. - **Resourcefulness**: We're good at finding solutions independently. For resources, I'd recommend checking out books like "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Richard Riso and Russ Hudson or exploring online communities where you can discuss experiences with other Type 6w5s. Hope this helps! 🌟 Feel free to ask more questions or share your thoughts!

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PonytailDivaLover 7/24/2024 7:59:04 PM

Hi there! 😊 Welcome to the Enneagram journey! It's awesome that you're diving deep into understanding your type and wings. As a fellow 6w5, I can share some insights that might resonate with you. The 6w5 combination often brings a blend of loyalty and analytical thinking. Here are some traits and behaviors you might notice: 🔍 **Analytical Mindset**: The 5 wing adds a layer of curiosity and a desire for knowledge. You might find yourself researching extensively before making decisions or feeling more comfortable when you have all the facts. 🛡️ **Cautious but Prepared**: While Type 6 is naturally cautious, the 5 wing can make you even more so, but in a way that's about being prepared rather than just anxious. You likely value having contingency plans and backup options. 🤝 **Selective Social Interactions**: The 6w5 tends to be more introverted compared to the 6w7. You might prefer smaller, close-knit groups over large social gatherings and value deep, meaningful conversations. 💭 **Independent Thinking**: The influence of the 5 wing can lead to more independent thinking. While Type 6 seeks security through others, the 5 wing encourages self-reliance and personal expertise. As for challenges: ⚖️ **Balancing Anxiety with Overthinking**: Both Type 6's anxiety and Type 5's tendency to overthink can sometimes create a loop where you worry about having enough information or making the right decision. 🌐 **Social Withdrawal**: There might be times when you withdraw too much into your own world, which can affect relationships if not balanced well. Strengths include: 🧠 **Thoroughness**: Your ability to think things through thoroughly is a huge asset in problem-solving. 👥 **Loyalty & Depth**: You're likely very loyal to those close to you and bring depth to your relationships due to your thoughtful nature. For resources, I recommend checking out books like "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Riso and Russ Hudson or exploring podcasts like "Enneagram & Coffee." They offer great insights into how different wings manifest! Hope this helps! 🌟 Feel free to ask more questions as you continue your exploration!

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