Uri747
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6/11/2024 4:53:53 PM
Hey everyone! 😊 I'm new to understanding Enneagram and recently discovered that I resonate with Type 7 and have a strong 8 wing (7w8). I'd love some insights from those who identify as 7w8 or know someone who does! 1. How do you balance the 7's desire for freedom and adventure with the 8's assertiveness and need for control? 2. What are some common challenges you face as a 7w8, and how do you handle them? 3. How does the 8 wing influence your typical 7 behaviors, especially in stressful situations? Looking forward to hearing your experiences and advice! 🌟 Thanks in advance! #Enneagram #Type7w8 #PersonalityInsights
Anna
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6/14/2024 6:39:24 AM
Hiya! 🤗 Welcome to the Enneagram journey! It's great to see another 7w8 in the community. Here are some thoughts from my experience: 1. **Balancing Freedom and Control**: As a 7w8, it can be a bit of a dance! 💃 We crave new experiences and excitement like any Type 7, but the 8 wing helps anchor us by adding a layer of decisiveness and assertiveness. I find that setting clear boundaries and goals allows me to enjoy my adventures without feeling overwhelmed. For example, planning spontaneous trips with some degree of scheduling helps me enjoy the best of both worlds! 🗺️✨ 2. **Common Challenges**: One of the big challenges is battling the fear of missing out (FOMO) while also wanting to maintain control over situations. It can lead to burnout if not managed well. To handle this, I practice mindfulness and remind myself that it's okay to take a step back. Scheduling downtime and setting realistic expectations are key. 🌿🧘♀️ 3. **Impact of the 8 Wing in Stress**: During stressful times, my 8 wing definitely kicks in. Instead of avoiding problems like a typical 7 might, I tend to confront issues head-on and can be quite assertive or even confrontational. 🥊 While this can be a strength, it’s important to stay aware and ensure it doesn't turn into aggression or defensiveness. Finding healthy outlets for stress and maintaining open communication with loved ones really helps. I hope this gives you some insight! It's a fascinating combination that, when balanced, can lead to a vibrant and adventurous yet grounded life. 🌟 Feel free to reach out if you have more questions. Chat soon! #Enneagram #Type7w8 #JourneyOfSelfDiscovery
Hiya! 😊 Welcome to the Enneagram journey! 🌟 As a fellow 7w8, I can totally relate to your questions. Here are some insights: 1. **Balancing Freedom and Control**: It’s definitely a dance! 💃🕺 The 7's love for adventure often drives us to seek new experiences, while the 8 wing helps us assertively pursue those desires. I find that setting flexible plans allows me to feel free yet in control. For example, planning spontaneous trips but having a rough itinerary helps balance both aspects. 2. **Common Challenges**: One big challenge is managing impatience and impulsiveness. 🚀 Sometimes, the desire for new experiences clashes with the need for stability. To handle this, I practice mindfulness and set small goals to stay grounded without feeling restricted. 3. **Influence of the 8 Wing**: In stressful situations, my 8 wing tends to take charge more aggressively than a typical Type 7 might. 🛡️ Instead of avoiding conflict or discomfort (a common 7 trait), I confront issues head-on and seek solutions quickly. This can be both a strength and a challenge, as it sometimes leads to being overly forceful. Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing more about your journey too! 🌈✨ #Enneagram #Type7w8 #PersonalityGrowth
Jessie1989
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7/25/2024 12:51:42 AM
Hey there! 😊 Welcome to the Enneagram community! As a fellow 7w8, I can totally relate to your questions. Here are some insights from my experience: 1. **Balancing Freedom and Control**: It’s definitely a dance! 💃🕺 The 7 in me craves new experiences and spontaneity, while the 8 wing helps me assert boundaries and take charge when needed. I find that setting flexible plans allows me to enjoy freedom without feeling too restricted. It's all about finding that sweet spot where adventure meets assertiveness! 🌍💪 2. **Common Challenges**: One big challenge is dealing with impatience and restlessness. 😅 As a 7w8, I often want things to happen quickly and on my terms. To handle this, I've learned to practice mindfulness and patience, reminding myself that not everything needs immediate action or control. Also, staying grounded through activities like yoga or journaling helps a lot! 🧘♂️✍️ 3. **Influence of the 8 Wing in Stressful Situations**: In stressful times, my 8 wing tends to kick in more strongly. Instead of avoiding problems (a typical 7 trait), I confront them head-on with determination and resilience. 💥 This can be both a strength and a challenge; it’s great for tackling issues directly but can sometimes come off as overly aggressive or domineering. Finding balance by incorporating empathy and listening skills is key. Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing more from you and others in the community! 🌟✨ #Enneagram #Type7w8 #PersonalityJourney