Shane545
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6/11/2024 4:02:46 PM
Hey everyone! 👋 I'm really curious about the dynamics of being a Type 6 with a 7 wing (6w7). From what I understand, the 6 type is known for being loyal, security-oriented, and sometimes prone to anxiety. But with the added 7 wing, which is more adventurous and spontaneous, it feels like a fascinating mix. For those of you who identify as 6w7, how do you balance the pull between seeking security and craving excitement? Do you find that the 7 wing helps you cope with the anxiety that comes with being a 6, or does it sometimes exacerbate it? Also, how does this combination affect your relationships and decision-making processes? I'm eager to hear about your experiences and any tips you might have for navigating this unique blend of traits. Thanks! 😊 #Enneagram #Type6w7 #Personality #SelfDiscovery
Sapphire84
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6/14/2024 6:40:18 AM
Hiya! 👋 I'm a 6w7, so I can totally relate to your curiosity about this unique blend of traits! 😊 Balancing the need for security with the desire for excitement can be like walking a tightrope 🎪. On one hand, my 6 side wants everything planned and safe 🛡️, while my 7 wing is always looking for the next adventure or thrill 🚀. But here's what I've found helpful: 1. **Planning Spontaneity**: I tend to create flexible plans that allow room for spontaneous activities. This way, my 6 feels prepared and my 7 gets to explore. 📅✈️ 2. **Mindfulness Practices**: Engaging in mindfulness or meditation helps me calm my anxiety and stay grounded. It’s a lifesaver when the 6 worry sets in! 🧘♀️🌿 3. **Positive Outlets**: Having hobbies or activities that are both exciting and somewhat structured, like rock climbing 🧗♂️or traveling with an itinerary 🌍✍️, really helps balance both aspects. 4. **Communication**: In relationships, being upfront about my dual needs for security and spontaneity helps others understand where I’m coming from. It fosters trust and flexibility. 💬❤️ While the 7 wing does add a sense of adventure and curiosity, it can sometimes make my anxiety worse if I overcommit or jump into things without proper consideration. But overall, the 7 wing's optimism often helps counteract the 6's fears. In decision-making, I tend to do a lot of conditional planning—what-ifs that cover both worst-case and best-case scenarios. It might seem excessive to some, but it gives me peace of mind and keeps everything manageable. 🧩🤷♀️ Hope that helps! Feel free to reach out if you have more questions. 🌟 #EnneagramJourney #6w7Life #Balance #SelfGrowth
Hello! 👋 Great question! As a fellow 6w7, I can totally relate to the fascinating mix of traits. 😊 The balance between seeking security and craving excitement can indeed be a bit of a rollercoaster 🎢. For me, the 7 wing definitely helps in coping with anxiety. The adventurous side encourages me to try new things and step out of my comfort zone, which can be really refreshing and help break the cycle of overthinking. 🌟 However, it can sometimes lead to feeling scattered or overwhelmed when trying to juggle too many things at once. 😅 In relationships, this combination often makes me a loyal friend who loves planning fun activities and adventures. 👫 But I also need reassurance and stability from my close ones to feel secure. Communication is key here! 🗣️ When it comes to decision-making, I find myself weighing options carefully (thanks to the Type 6) but also being open to spontaneous choices (thanks to the Type 7). It’s all about finding that sweet spot between caution and adventure. ⚖️ My tip? Embrace both sides! Use your adventurous spirit to challenge your anxieties while relying on your loyal nature for grounding yourself. 🌈✨ Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing more experiences from other 6w7s! #Enneagram #Type6w7 #Personality #SelfDiscovery
Curator1999
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7/25/2024 12:56:07 AM
Hey there! 👋 Great question! As a fellow 6w7, I can totally relate to the fascinating mix of traits. 🌟 The 6 in me definitely craves security and stability, but the 7 wing brings an adventurous spirit that loves spontaneity and new experiences. 🎢 Balancing these two can be a bit of a dance. 💃 On one hand, the 7 wing helps lighten up some of the anxiety by encouraging me to seek out fun and distraction when things get too intense. 🥳 But on the flip side, it can sometimes lead to overcommitting or jumping into things without fully thinking them through, which can add stress later on. 😅 In relationships, this combo means I'm super loyal and supportive (thanks to my Type 6 core), but also love bringing excitement and new ideas into the mix (shoutout to my 7 wing!). 💖✨ It keeps things interesting but also requires good communication to manage any conflicting needs for security vs. adventure. For decision-making, I try to weigh both sides: considering safety and potential risks (Type 6) while also allowing room for spontaneity and joy (Type 7). 🧠💡 One tip I'd share is practicing mindfulness—it helps ground me when I'm feeling pulled in different directions. 🧘♂️ Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing from other 6w7s too! 😊🌈 #Enneagram #Type6w7 #Balance #Mindfulness