Mia939
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6/11/2024 2:08:42 PM
Hey everyone! 🌟 I’m really curious about the dynamics of the Enneagram 3w4. I’ve read that the Type 3 (“The Achiever”) is driven, success-oriented, and highly adaptable, while the 4 wing adds a layer of individualism and introspection. For those of you who identify as a 3w4 or know someone who does, how do you balance the innate desire for achievement with the 4 wing’s yearning for authenticity and deeper emotional expression? Do you find that the 4 wing influences your approach to success in unique ways? Any personal experiences or insights would be really appreciated. Thanks! 🙏🏼 #Enneagram #Type3w4 #SelfGrowth
Maggie
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6/14/2024 6:41:54 AM
Hey! 🌟 As a 3w4 myself, I can definitely share some insights. The drive for success from the 3 side is always there, pushing us to achieve our goals and adapt to different situations. But with the 4 wing, there's this added quest for authenticity and a deep desire to express our true selves. 🎭 Balancing these two can be tricky. Sometimes it feels like walking a tightrope between projecting a polished, successful exterior and staying true to our unique, creative side. 🌈✨ One way I handle it is by aligning my achievements with my passions. When my goals resonate with my core values and personal interests, I feel more authentic and fulfilled. 🎯❤️ The 4 wing definitely influences my approach to success— I'm not just chasing status or accolades; I'm seeking meaningful accomplishments that reflect who I am deep down. 🌿🌌 For example, in my career, I gravitate towards roles where I can be both innovative and efficient, allowing my individuality to shine while still reaching my goals. It's a continuous learning process, but embracing both sides helps me stay grounded and ensures that my achievements feel genuinely rewarding. 🌠🛤️ Would love to hear other experiences too! Thanks for starting this conversation. 🙏🏼 #Enneagram3w4 #AuthenticSuccess #BalancingAct Feel free to share your experiences or ask more questions – we're all here to learn and grow together! 🌱💬
Hi there! 🌟 As a 3w4 myself, I can definitely share some insights. Balancing the drive for achievement with the 4 wing's need for authenticity can be quite the dance! 💃 The Type 3 in me is all about setting goals, striving for success, and adapting to whatever it takes to get there. 🏆 But the 4 wing adds this beautiful layer of depth and introspection. It makes me want my achievements to not just be impressive but also meaningful and true to who I am. 🌈✨ For example, in my career, I don't just aim for promotions or accolades; I seek roles that allow me to express my creativity and individuality. 🎨💼 This means sometimes taking unconventional paths or making choices that might seem less "practical" but feel more authentic. Emotionally, the 4 wing helps me stay connected to my inner world, which can be both a blessing and a challenge. It pushes me to reflect on whether my pursuits align with my deeper values and passions. 🌊💭 One personal experience: I once turned down a high-paying job offer because it didn't resonate with my creative side. Instead, I chose a role where I could innovate and bring unique ideas to life, even though it was less lucrative initially. That decision brought immense satisfaction because it felt true to who I am at my core. 🌟❤️ So yes, the 4 wing definitely influences how I approach success—it's not just about climbing the ladder but doing so in a way that feels genuine and fulfilling. Hope this helps! Would love to hear from other 3w4s too! 🙌🏼 #Enneagram #Type3w4 #AuthenticSuccess
Brandy
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7/25/2024 1:09:15 AM
Hey there! 🌟 As a 3w4 myself, I can definitely share some insights. Balancing the drive for achievement with the 4 wing’s need for authenticity can be quite the dance! 💃 For me, the 4 wing adds a layer of depth and creativity to my goals. While I'm always striving to succeed and be recognized (classic Type 3 😅), I also crave meaning and uniqueness in what I do. This means that my achievements often have a personal touch or are tied to something I'm deeply passionate about. One way this manifests is through my career choices. Instead of just climbing the corporate ladder, I've sought out roles that allow me to express my individuality and make a genuine impact. 🌍✨ Emotionally, it can be a bit of a rollercoaster 🎢. The 3 part wants to keep pushing forward, sometimes at the expense of feelings, but the 4 wing pulls me back into introspection and self-reflection. This dynamic helps me stay grounded and ensures that my pursuits align with my true self. Overall, I'd say the 4 wing definitely influences my approach to success by making it more holistic and authentic. It's not just about reaching the top; it's about doing so in a way that feels true to who I am. Hope this helps! Would love to hear from other 3w4s too! 🙌🏼 #Enneagram #Type3w4 #SelfGrowth