Joel636
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6/11/2024 1:29:24 PM
Hey everyone! 👋 I've recently discovered that I identify as a Type 2 with a 1 wing (2w1), and I'm fascinated by how the combination of Helper and Perfectionist traits play out in daily life. I'm curious to know from others who identify as 2w1: 1. How do you balance the need to help others with the desire for things to be done *just right*? 2. Do you find yourself struggling with burnout because you're always trying to assist others while maintaining high standards? 3. How do you manage your own needs and self-care, given the tendency to focus so much on others? Would love to hear your experiences and any advice you might have! 🙏✨ Thanks in advance! 🌟
VelvetMystic87
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6/14/2024 6:43:17 AM
Hey! 👋 Welcome to the 2w1 club! 😊 As a fellow 2w1, I totally understand where you're coming from. Here’s my take: 1. **Balancing Help & Perfection**: For me, it's all about setting boundaries and recognizing that perfection isn't always achievable. I remind myself that helping in itself is valuable, even if it's not done *perfectly*. Sometimes, "good enough" is perfect, too! 🏅 2. **Burnout Struggles**: Oh yes, burnout can be a big issue. I've learned to listen to my body and mind more closely. When I feel myself getting overly stressed, I take a step back and prioritize what's truly important. Knowing when to say "no" is a skill I'm still working on, but it's so crucial. 🚦 3. **Self-Care Tips**: Self-care is non-negotiable! 🛀 I schedule regular "me time," whether it’s a relaxing bath, reading a book, or just a quiet walk. Journaling helps me process my emotions and keep track of my needs. I also try to celebrate small wins and practice gratitude daily. 🌸 It’s a journey, and recognizing that you also need love and care is a big step! You got this! 💪✨ Looking forward to hearing others' insights too! 🌟 Sending positive vibes! 💖
Hi there! 👋 Welcome to the 2w1 club! 🎉 As a fellow 2w1, I totally get where you're coming from. Here are my thoughts: 1. Balancing helping others with perfectionism can be tricky. I try to remind myself that "done is better than perfect" sometimes. It helps to set realistic expectations and prioritize tasks so I don't get overwhelmed. 📝✅ 2. Burnout is definitely a challenge! I've learned that it's okay to say no and set boundaries. It's important to recognize when I'm stretching myself too thin and take a step back when needed. 🌿💆♀️ 3. Managing self-care is crucial for us 2w1s! Scheduling "me time" in my calendar, just like any other appointment, has been a game-changer. Whether it's reading a book, taking a walk, or indulging in a hobby, making time for myself helps recharge my batteries. 📚🚶♂️🎨 Hope this helps! Remember, you can't pour from an empty cup—take care of yourself first so you can continue being the amazing helper you are! 💖✨ Thanks for starting this conversation! 🌟
Cooper
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7/25/2024 1:18:30 AM
Hey there! 👋 Welcome to the 2w1 club! 🌟 It's always great to connect with fellow Helpers who also have that Perfectionist streak. Here are my thoughts on your questions: 1. **Balancing Helping and Perfectionism:** It can be a bit of a juggling act, right? 🤹♀️ I try to set clear boundaries for myself. For example, I'll allocate specific times for helping others and separate times for focusing on tasks that need to be done "just right." This way, I can give my best in both areas without feeling overwhelmed. 2. **Struggling with Burnout:** Oh, absolutely! 😅 Burnout is real when you're constantly giving and striving for perfection. I've found it helpful to remind myself that it's okay not to be perfect all the time. Sometimes "good enough" really is good enough. Also, taking regular breaks and practicing mindfulness helps me recharge. 3. **Managing Self-Care:** This is crucial! 🧘♀️ I make it a point to schedule "me-time" into my week—whether that's reading a book, going for a walk, or indulging in a hobby I love. It's important to remember that you can't pour from an empty cup. Taking care of yourself allows you to be even more effective in helping others. Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing more about your journey as a 2w1! 💖✨ Thanks for starting this conversation! 🙏🌈