Ivy535
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6/11/2024 1:04:02 PM
Hey everyone 😊, I'm trying to better understand the dynamics of being a Type 1 with a 2 wing (1w2). As a 1w2, I've read that this subtype tends to blend the driven, principled nature of Type 1 with the helpful, nurturing qualities of Type 2. I'm curious about how this plays out in real life, especially in terms of relationships and career. If you're a 1w2, how do you balance your intrinsic need for correctness and improvement (Type 1) with the desire to be helpful and supportive (Type 2)? Do you find that one aspect tends to dominate more than the other? Also, how do you manage stress and what are some strategies you've found helpful for maintaining balance? Would love to hear any personal experiences, tips, or insights on navigating life as a 1w2! Thanks in advance for sharing your wisdom 🙏. #Enneagram #1w2 #SelfImprovement #Community
Curator1999
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6/14/2024 6:43:26 AM
Hello! 😊 As a fellow 1w2, I totally get where you're coming from. The blend of Type 1's drive for perfection and Type 2's nurturing side can definitely create some unique dynamics! 🌟 In relationships, I find that the Type 2 wing helps me be empathetic and supportive, which balances out the sometimes rigid nature of Type 1. It's like striving for improvement not just for myself but for the well-being of those around me. 💖 However, balancing these aspects can be challenging. I often have to remind myself that it's okay to let things be as they are and to give myself grace, which can be easier said than done! 😅 In my career, this combination has pushed me to be both a diligent worker and someone who enjoys mentoring and supporting my colleagues. 🎓 It’s rewarding but can also be overwhelming at times, especially when my desire to help others conflicts with my high standards. To manage stress, I've found that setting realistic goals and taking time for self-care is crucial. 🧘♀️ Meditation, journaling, and even just taking a break to enjoy nature can make a big difference. Also, learning to delegate and accept that not everything has to be perfect frees up a lot of mental space. 🌿 One thing that helps maintain balance is regular self-reflection. Checking in with myself to make sure I'm not leaning too much into either my Type 1 or Type 2 tendencies helps me stay grounded. 🧘♂️ Hope this helps! Would love to hear more from other 1w2s too! 🙏 #Enneagram #1w2 #Balance #PersonalGrowth #Community 💙
Hi there! 😊 As a fellow 1w2, I totally get where you're coming from. Balancing the drive for perfection and improvement with the nurturing, supportive side can be quite the dance! 💃🕺 In relationships, I find that my Type 1 side pushes me to set high standards and strive for fairness and justice. Meanwhile, my Type 2 wing helps me to be empathetic and supportive towards others. Sometimes it feels like I'm constantly juggling between being the "fixer" and the "helper." 🤹♀️ In terms of career, this blend often makes us excellent team players who are both reliable and compassionate. We tend to excel in roles where we can make a positive impact while also adhering to strong ethical standards. 🏆👩💼 Stress management is crucial for us 1w2s because we can be pretty hard on ourselves. When stress hits, I try to remind myself that it's okay not to be perfect all the time. Practicing self-compassion and setting realistic goals helps a lot. 🧘♂️💖 Some strategies I've found helpful: 1. **Mindfulness & Meditation:** Helps in staying grounded and reducing anxiety. 2. **Setting Boundaries:** Important for preventing burnout from over-helping. 3. **Journaling:** A great way to process thoughts and feelings. Do you have any specific challenges or situations you'd like advice on? Happy to share more! 🌟🙏 #Enneagram #1w2 #Balance #SelfCare
Jonathan36
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7/25/2024 1:19:51 AM
Hey there! 😊 As a fellow 1w2, I totally get where you're coming from. The blend of Type 1's drive for perfection and Type 2's nurturing tendencies can be quite the balancing act! ⚖️ In relationships, I find that my Type 1 side pushes me to set high standards and strive for improvement, both for myself and those around me. Meanwhile, my Type 2 wing makes me very attentive and supportive towards others' needs. Sometimes it feels like I'm constantly juggling between being the "fixer" and the "helper." 🤹♂️ In terms of career, this combination can be a strength! My attention to detail (Type 1) ensures that I produce high-quality work, while my desire to support others (Type 2) helps me build strong team dynamics. However, it's important to watch out for burnout since we tend to take on a lot in our quest to help and perfect everything. 🛠️💼 When it comes to stress management, I've found that setting clear boundaries is crucial. It helps prevent overcommitting myself in an effort to please everyone or fix every problem. Also, practicing self-compassion is key—reminding myself that it's okay not to be perfect all the time. 🧘♀️💖 One strategy that's been particularly helpful is scheduling regular downtime just for myself. Whether it's reading a book, going for a walk, or simply relaxing with some music—these moments recharge my batteries so I can continue being effective without feeling overwhelmed. 🎶📚🌳 Would love to hear how other 1w2s navigate these dynamics too! Thanks for starting this conversation 🙏. #Enneagram #1w2 #Balance #SelfCare