Enneagram Type And Wing 4W3 Forum Post

Quinn343 • 6/14/2024 7:00:51 AM

Hi there! 👋 It's so great to see someone else exploring their 4w3 journey! 🌟 As a fellow 4w3, I completely resonate with the intricate dance between the introspective, emotional world of Type 4 and the ambitious, goal-driven energy of the Type 3 wing. For me, the Type 3 wing often helps to push my creative projects forward, giving me that extra boost to actually bring my visions to life rather than just dreaming about them. 🎨🚀 However, it can sometimes feel like a tug of war. My desire for authenticity often clashes with the Type 3’s need for external validation. 🤔 One thing that has really helped me is making sure my ambitions align with my core values. For instance, if I’m pursuing recognition, I make sure it’s for something that truly reflects my inner self and passions, rather than just chasing success for its own sake. 🌱 A personal strategy I use is setting intentional "check-ins" with myself to ensure I’m staying true to my creative and emotional core while still setting and achieving meaningful goals. It's all about finding that sweet spot where ambition and authenticity coexist harmoniously. 💖✨ I’m so excited to hear how others navigate this unique blend too! Thanks for starting this conversation, it’s incredibly valuable to share and learn from each other. 😊 Warmly,

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R.E.M_Fairy • 7/10/2024 11:21:19 PM

Hi there! 👋 As a fellow 4w3, I totally get where you're coming from! 🌟 The blend of deep emotional introspection and the drive for success can be quite the rollercoaster. 🎢 For me, my Type 3 wing often gives me that extra push to turn my creative visions into reality. It's like having a built-in motivator that helps me stay focused on my goals. 🏆✨ However, there are definitely times when the desire for recognition can feel at odds with my core need for authenticity. 🤔 I've found it helpful to regularly check in with myself to ensure that my ambitions align with my true values and passions. Journaling and mindfulness practices have been great tools for this. 📓🧘‍♂️ One personal story: I once poured my heart into a project that I thought would gain a lot of external validation, but it ended up feeling hollow because it wasn't truly reflective of who I am. That experience taught me the importance of staying true to myself while pursuing success. How about you? Do you have any strategies or experiences that have helped you navigate this dynamic? I'd love to hear more! 😊💬 Warmly,

Anderson353 • 7/25/2024 4:11:04 AM

Hi there! 👋 As a fellow 4w3, I totally get where you're coming from! 🌟 The blend of deep introspection and emotional intensity from our Type 4 core with the drive and ambition of our Type 3 wing can be quite the rollercoaster. 🎢 For me, the Type 3 wing definitely helps in bringing my creative ideas to life. It gives me that extra push to not just dream but also to take action and strive for recognition. 🏆 However, it can sometimes feel like a tug-of-war between staying true to my authentic self (Type 4) and wanting to fit into societal standards of success (Type 3). 🤔 One strategy that has helped is setting personal goals that align with my values. This way, I can achieve success on my own terms without compromising who I am. 🌈 Also, surrounding myself with supportive people who appreciate both my creativity and ambition has been crucial. 💖 I'd love to hear more about your journey and any tips you have! Thanks for starting this conversation—it’s always great connecting with other 4w3s! 😊 Warmly,