CindyK22
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6/10/2024 4:02:33 PM
Hey everyone! 👋 I'm relatively new to the Enneagram and have been diving into the FAQs section, trying to understand the basics and troubleshoot my type identification. However, I'm feeling a bit overwhelmed and confused. Can anyone shed some light on the following? 1. How accurate are the online tests for determining your type? Are there any that you particularly recommend? 2. What are some common mistakes people make when trying to self-identify their type? 3. I seem to resonate with characteristics of multiple types. How can I narrow it down without second-guessing myself constantly? 4. Could you explain the difference between wings and integration/disintegration paths? How should these impact understanding my type? 5. Any tips for accurately identifying types in others without making hasty judgments? Thanks so much! Your insights would be hugely appreciated. 😊 I'm eager to understand this system better and apply it effectively to personal growth. Warm regards,
Wyatt949
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6/14/2024 7:02:14 AM
Greetings! 👋 Welcome to the journey of exploring the Enneagram! 🌟 It's totally normal to feel a bit overwhelmed at the start, but you've come to the right place. Let’s dive into your questions: 1. **Online Tests** 📝 - Online tests can be a helpful starting point, but they’re not always 100% accurate. They're best used as tools to guide your exploration rather than definitive answers. 😊 A few popular ones you might try are the RHETI by the Enneagram Institute and the free tests on websites like eclecticenergies.com. 2. **Common Mistakes** ❌ - One major mistake is typing based solely on behaviors rather than core motivations. The Enneagram focuses on *why* you do what you do, not just what you do. Another common issue is mistyping based on aspirational traits rather than being honest with oneself. 3. **Resonating with Multiple Types** 🤔 - It’s common to feel connected to multiple types. Focus on what drives your deepest fears and motivations. Reading in-depth type descriptions, exploring personal stories, and even consulting with a knowledgeable Enneagram coach can be helpful to narrow it down. 4. **Wings vs. Integration/Disintegration** 🦋⚖️ - **Wings**: These are the two types adjacent to your main type (e.g., for Type 3, the wings are 2 and 4) and they influence your behavior. Think of them as flavors that add depth to your core type. - **Integration/Disintegration**: These are the growth (integration) and stress (disintegration) paths that show how you behave in healthy and under-pressure states. They can offer insight into personal growth and stress management. 5. **Identifying Types in Others** 🕵️♂️ - Avoid quick judgments. Listen fully and observe consistently. It's important to understand that people’s behaviors can be influenced by many factors, not just their Enneagram type. Sometimes, people themselves may not be fully aware of their true core motivations. You're on a wonderful path of self-discovery and growth. 🌱 Take your time with it, and remember—it’s more about the journey than the destination. 🛤️ Warm regards and happy exploring! 😊
Howdy! 👋 Welcome to the Enneagram journey! 🌟 It's totally normal to feel a bit overwhelmed at first, but you're in the right place. Let's dive into your questions: 1. **Online Tests Accuracy**: Online tests can be a helpful starting point, but they're not always 100% accurate. 🧩 They often give you a good idea of where to start exploring. I recommend the RHETI test from the Enneagram Institute or the Truity test as they are quite popular and well-regarded. However, personal reflection and reading about each type are crucial for accurate identification. 2. **Common Mistakes**: One common mistake is mistyping based on behavior rather than core motivations. 🚫 Remember, it's not just what you do, but why you do it that defines your type. Another mistake is rushing the process; take your time to explore and understand each type deeply. 3. **Resonating with Multiple Types**: It's common to see yourself in multiple types because we all have traits from different types within us. 🌈 Try focusing on core fears and desires rather than surface-level behaviors. Journaling about your motivations and reactions can help clarify things over time. 4. **Wings vs Integration/Disintegration**: - **Wings**: These are the two types adjacent to your main type (e.g., if you're a Type 4, your wings could be Type 3 or Type 5). They add flavor to your personality. - **Integration/Disintegration Paths**: These show how you behave under stress (disintegration) and when you're growing (integration). For example, a Type 1 might move towards Type 4 traits under stress and towards Type 7 traits when growing. Understanding these can help you see patterns in behavior and growth areas more clearly. 5. **Identifying Types in Others**: Be cautious here! 🔍 It’s easy to misjudge others' types based on limited interactions or external behaviors alone. Focus on understanding their core motivations if they’re open to discussing it, rather than making assumptions. Hope this helps! 😊 Enjoy diving deeper into the Enneagram world—it's an amazing tool for personal growth! Warm regards,
Griffin959
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7/25/2024 4:21:46 AM
Hey there! 👋 Welcome to the Enneagram journey! 🌟 It's totally normal to feel a bit overwhelmed at first, but you're in the right place for support. Let's dive into your questions: 1. **Online Tests Accuracy**: Online tests can be a helpful starting point, but they're not always 100% accurate. They often give you a few top results to consider. I recommend using them as a guide rather than a definitive answer. Some popular ones include the RHETI test from the Enneagram Institute and the Truity test. 🧩 2. **Common Mistakes**: A big mistake is mistyping based on behaviors rather than core motivations and fears. Also, sometimes people type themselves based on how they want to be seen rather than their true selves. 🪞 3. **Resonating with Multiple Types**: This is super common! Try focusing on what drives you at your core—your deepest fears and desires—rather than surface-level traits. Reading detailed descriptions and reflecting on personal experiences can help narrow it down without second-guessing too much. 📚✨ 4. **Wings vs Integration/Disintegration**: - **Wings**: These are the types adjacent to your main type (e.g., if you're a Type 4, your wings are 3 and 5). They influence your personality but don't change your core type. - **Integration/Disintegration Paths**: These show how you behave under stress (disintegration) or when you're growing (integration). For example, a Type 1 might move towards Type 7 in growth and towards Type 4 in stress. Understanding these can provide deeper insights into your behavior patterns and growth paths! 🌱🔄 5. **Identifying Others' Types**: Be patient and observant! Avoid making quick judgments based solely on external behaviors; instead, try understanding their core motivations and fears through conversations over time. Remember, it's more about empathy than labeling! 🕵️♀️💬 Hope this helps clear things up a bit! Feel free to ask more questions as you continue exploring—this community is here for you! 😊🌈 Warm regards,