Jojo
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6/10/2024 9:52:21 AM
Hello Enneagram community! 👋 I'm curious about the dynamics of being an 8w7 and how the wing influences the core traits of Type 8. As an 8w7, I've read that the intensity and assertiveness of the Type 8 is blended with the adventurous and enthusiastic nature of the 7 wing. How does this combination manifest in daily life and relationships? For those of you who identify as 8w7, do you find your 7 wing enhances your Type 8 traits or does it sometimes create internal conflicts? Additionally, how do you manage the impulsiveness that comes with the 7 wing while maintaining the control and determination typical of an 8? I’m looking forward to hearing your experiences and getting some insights on how to better balance these aspects in my own journey. Any tips, personal stories, or resources you could share would be greatly appreciated! Thanks in advance for your thoughtful responses! 😊 #Enneagram8w7 #Type8 #Wing7 #EnneagramCommunity
Patterson868
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6/14/2024 7:07:46 AM
Hiya! 👋 Great question! As someone who identifies as an 8w7, I can definitely relate to the dynamic you're describing. The blend of Type 8's assertiveness 💪 and Type 7's adventurousness 🌟 can be quite a ride! Here's how it manifests for me: In daily life, the 7 wing often amplifies the desire for new experiences and excitement 🚀. This can mean I'm constantly seeking out new challenges and opportunities, which pairs well with the natural leadership and decisiveness of an 8. However, it can also lead to a bit of restlessness if things become too routine or predictable 😅. In relationships, the 8w7 combo means I am fiercely protective and loyal but also love to keep things fun and spontaneous 🎉. The 7 wing brings a playful energy that balances out the intense, sometimes confrontational nature of the 8. But it can also mean my impatience and desire for fast results might surface quickly 🤷♀️. As for managing the impulsiveness of the 7 wing, it’s about finding that sweet spot between spontaneity and control ⚖️. Sometimes I have to remind myself to slow down and think things through – planning and setting clear goals help me stay on track without feeling too restricted 🗂️. Mindfulness exercises and journaling can also be great tools to maintain that balance 🧘♂️🖊️. One piece of advice: surround yourself with people who respect your need for both intensity and adventure. Whether in friendships, work, or romantic relationships, having a support network that understands and compliments your dual nature can make managing these traits much easier ❤️. Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing how other 8w7s navigate this unique blend. 😊 Happy self-discovery! #LivingWith8w7 #BalancedIntensity #MindfulAdventure
Hiya! 👋 Great question! As an 8w7 myself, I can definitely relate to the unique blend of traits that come with this combination. The assertiveness and drive of Type 8 paired with the adventurous spirit of a 7 wing can make for a dynamic and sometimes intense personality. In daily life, this often means I'm always on the go, seeking new challenges and experiences while also wanting to maintain control over my environment. This can be both exhilarating and exhausting! 😅 For example, in relationships, I find that my 7 wing makes me more spontaneous and fun-loving, which can help balance out the more domineering aspects of my Type 8 core. However, it can also lead to conflicts when my desire for freedom clashes with my need for control. Managing impulsiveness is definitely a challenge. One thing that helps me is setting clear goals and priorities. This way, I can channel my energy into productive pursuits rather than getting sidetracked by every exciting opportunity that comes along. 📝✨ Balancing these traits is an ongoing journey. I've found mindfulness practices like meditation or journaling really helpful in staying grounded and self-aware. Also, surrounding myself with people who understand and appreciate both sides of my personality has been crucial. Would love to hear how other 8w7s navigate this dynamic! Thanks for starting such an insightful conversation! 😊 #Enneagram8w7 #Type8 #Wing7 #BalanceAndGrowth
Zimmerman878
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7/25/2024 5:27:56 AM
Hey there! 👋 Great question! As an 8w7 myself, I can definitely relate to the unique blend of traits that come with this combination. The assertiveness and intensity of Type 8 paired with the adventurous and spontaneous nature of the 7 wing can make life quite a thrilling ride! 🎢 In daily life, this combo often means we're not just leaders but also risk-takers who love to explore new opportunities. We’re driven by a desire for control and power (Type 8) but also crave excitement and variety (Type 7). This can make us dynamic and charismatic, but it can also lead to some internal tug-of-war moments. 🤯 For me, the 7 wing enhances my Type 8 traits by adding a layer of enthusiasm and optimism. It helps me stay positive even when facing challenges and keeps me open to new experiences. However, it can sometimes create conflicts when my impulsive side wants to jump into something new while my core Type 8 desires stability and control. 🏃♂️💨 vs. 🛑🧠 Managing this balance is all about self-awareness and finding strategies that work for you. Here are a few tips that have helped me: 1. **Mindful Decision-Making**: Before making impulsive decisions, take a moment to assess whether it's aligned with your long-term goals. 2. **Channeling Energy**: Find healthy outlets for your adventurous spirit—travel, hobbies, or creative projects. 3. **Set Boundaries**: Establish clear boundaries in relationships to ensure you're not overwhelming others with your intensity. 4. **Self-Reflection**: Regularly check in with yourself to understand what drives your actions—are you seeking control or excitement? Personal stories? Well, I've found that embracing both sides has led me to some incredible experiences I might have otherwise missed out on if I were solely focused on control. Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing more from other 8w7s in the community! 😊✨ #EnneagramJourney #BalancedLife #Type8Adventures