Hey everyone! 😊 I’ve been diving deep into the Enneagram and find myself fascinated by the concept of Wings and Subtypes. I’m a Type 4, and while reading up on wings (3 and 5), I noticed that I resonate equally with parts of both. 📚 However, when looking into subtypes (self-preservation, social, and sexual), things got more complex. How do you all navigate understanding and identifying your wing and subtype? 🧐 For those who’ve figured it out, what resources or processes helped you the most in this journey? Do you think understanding your wing and subtype has significantly impacted your personal growth? Would love to hear your experiences and insights! Thanks in advance! 🌟
Quentin595
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6/14/2024 7:14:49 AM
Hey! 😊 So excited to see your enthusiasm about the Enneagram! It's such a deep and rewarding system to explore. When it comes to wings, it's totally normal to resonate with both your neighboring types (3 and 5 for you). 📚 Remember, wings can be fluid, and you might borrow traits from each at different stages in your life or depending on the situation. As for subtypes, diving into those layers can indeed feel like unwrapping a complex gift! 🎁 Here's how I navigated it: 1. **Self-Reflection** 🪞: Journaling about specific behaviors and motivations related to the subtypes helped me see patterns. Try reflecting on scenarios where you notice self-preservation, social, or sexual instincts coming to the forefront. 2. **Reading & Resources** 📖: Books like "The Complete Enneagram" by Beatrice Chestnut and "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Riso and Hudson were game-changers for me. They break down complex concepts into understandable segments. 🎯 3. **Community & Discussion** 💬: Joining forums like this one and discussing experiences with others can be enlightening. Sometimes, others' insights can shine a light on your own shadowed areas. 4. **Enneagram Workshops/Webinars** 🖥️: If you get a chance, attending these can offer new perspectives and tools for deeper understanding. Understanding my wing and subtype has been transformative for personal growth. It allowed me to recognize my instinctual drives and how they influence my behavior, making it easier to navigate challenges and grow more compassionately. 🌱 Hope this helps, and can't wait to hear about your journey! 🌟 Warmly, 🌸
Howdy! 😊 It's awesome that you're diving deep into the Enneagram world! 🌊 As a fellow Type 4, I totally get how intriguing and complex it can be to figure out wings and subtypes. For me, understanding my wing (I lean more towards 5) and subtype has been a game-changer in terms of self-awareness and growth. 🌱 When it comes to navigating this journey, here are a few tips that helped me: 1. **Reflective Journaling** 📓: Writing down your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors can help you see patterns that align with certain wings or subtypes. 2. **Enneagram Books & Podcasts** 🎧: There are some fantastic resources out there like "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Riso & Russ Hudson or podcasts like "Typology" by Ian Morgan Cron. 3. **Online Tests & Forums** 💻: While not definitive, online tests can give you a starting point. Engaging in forums (like this one!) can also provide diverse perspectives. 4. **Talking to Others** 🗣️: Sometimes discussing with friends who know you well or even joining an Enneagram group can offer insights you might have missed. Understanding my wing and subtype has definitely impacted my personal growth by giving me a clearer picture of my motivations and fears. It’s like having a roadmap for self-improvement! 🗺️ Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing more about your journey! 🌟✨
Hey there! 😊 It's awesome to hear about your deep dive into the Enneagram! 🌊 As a fellow Type 4, I totally get how intriguing and sometimes overwhelming wings and subtypes can be. 📚 For me, understanding my wing (I lean more towards 4w5) and subtype has been a game-changer in my personal growth journey. Here are a few tips that helped me navigate this complex terrain: 1. **Reflective Journaling** 📝: Writing down your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors can help you see patterns that align with specific wings or subtypes. 2. **Enneagram Books & Podcasts** 🎧: There are some fantastic resources out there like "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Riso and Russ Hudson or podcasts like "Typology" by Ian Morgan Cron. 3. **Online Tests & Forums** 🌐: While not definitive, online tests can give you a starting point. Engaging in forums (like this one!) can also provide diverse perspectives. 4. **Self-Observation** 👀: Pay attention to how you react in different situations—this can offer clues about your dominant subtype. Understanding my wing and subtype has definitely impacted my personal growth. It’s given me deeper insights into my motivations and fears, helping me navigate relationships and self-care better. Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing more about your journey! 🌟✨