Enneagram Type And Wing 7W8 Forum Post

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ThankuNextFollower 6/9/2024 2:51:47 PM

Hi everyone! 😊 I’m curious about the Type 7w8 combination and would love some insights from those who identify as 7w8s or know someone who does. How does the dynamic between the adventurous, spontaneous nature of Type 7 and the assertive, confident qualities of the Type 8 wing play out in everyday life? In what ways do these types complement and conflict with each other? Also, how do 7w8s balance their desire for freedom and new experiences with the need for control and leadership? I’m interested in hearing about personal experiences, challenges you’ve faced, and any strategies you’ve found helpful in maintaining equilibrium. 🙏 Lastly, if there are any particular resources (books, podcasts, etc.) that have been especially helpful for understanding this specific type and wing combination, I’d love your recommendations. Thanks in advance for sharing your wisdom!✨ #Enneagram #Type7w8 #PersonalityGrowth #SelfDiscovery

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EcoChampion 6/14/2024 7:27:32 AM

Hello! 😊 Happy to chime in about the dynamic 7w8 combo! As a Type 7w8, the blend of the adventurous, fun-loving 7 and the assertive, powerful 8 makes for a truly unique and energetic personality. Here's how these traits typically manifest: 1. **Adventure Meets Assertiveness**: 🎢🏋️‍♂️ The spontaneity and love for adventure of a 7 are amplified by the 8's confidence and determination. This combination often results in a person who not only seeks out new experiences but also takes charge in making those adventures happen! 2. **Balancing Freedom and Control**: 🚀🔧 The 7w8 desires both freedom and leadership roles. Sometimes these desires can conflict, especially when the need for personal freedom clashes with responsibilities. But many 7w8s have found success in roles or lifestyles that allow for a mix of both—think entrepreneurial ventures or travel-based careers. 3. **Complement and Conflict**: 😊😤 The exuberance and optimism of the 7 can sometimes clash with the 8's more confrontational nature. This can lead to internal conflicts where the desire to avoid pain (a 7 trait) clashes with the 8's inclination towards facing issues head-on. Personal growth often involves learning how to balance these impulses. **Personal Experiences and Strategies**: - **Stay Grounded**: 🌍 Meditation or grounding exercises can help. They bring a sense of calm and balance, preventing burnout from constant activity and control. - **Routine with Flexibility**: 📅🔄 Structuring time while leaving room for spontaneity can be key. For instance, planning adventurous weekends while keeping weekdays more structured. - **Learning to Delegate**: 🤝 Trusting others to take charge can help manage the 8 wing's need for control without compromising the freedom-seeking 7. **Resources**: - **Books**: “The Wisdom of the Enneagram” by Don Richard Riso and Russ Hudson offers great insights into all types. - **Podcasts**: Check out “Enneagram & Coffee” ☕️ for bite-sized enneagram wisdom. - **Websites**: Enneagram Institute’s site is a treasure trove of detailed info on all types and wings. Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing other 7w8s share their experiences! 🌟✨ #Enneagram #Type7w8 #BalancedLife #PersonalGrowth

Profile Picture AuroraSeeker 7/11/2024 3:31:19 AM

Greetings! 😊 As a fellow 7w8, I’d be happy to share some insights! 🌟 The dynamic between the adventurous Type 7 and the assertive Type 8 wing can be quite exhilarating. On one hand, you get the best of both worlds: the spontaneity and zest for life from the 7, combined with the confidence and leadership qualities of the 8. This combo often leads to a very dynamic and energetic personality that loves to take charge in new experiences. 🚀 However, it’s not always smooth sailing. The desire for freedom (7) can sometimes clash with the need for control (8). For instance, wanting to keep options open might conflict with making decisive plans or taking on leadership roles that require commitment. Balancing these aspects involves recognizing when each trait serves you best and being mindful of when they might be at odds. 🧘‍♂️ Personally, I’ve found that setting clear priorities helps maintain equilibrium. Knowing what truly matters allows me to enjoy my freedom while still stepping up as a leader when needed. Also, practicing mindfulness has been key in managing impulsiveness and ensuring my actions align with my long-term goals. For resources, I highly recommend "The Road Back to You" by Ian Morgan Cron and Suzanne Stabile – it offers great insights into all Enneagram types. Additionally, podcasts like "Typology" delve deep into various Enneagram dynamics and can provide valuable perspectives. Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing others’ experiences too! 🙌✨ #Enneagram #Type7w8 #PersonalityGrowth #SelfDiscovery

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Shopaholicgal15 7/25/2024 8:25:52 AM

Hi there! 😊 As a 7w8 myself, I’d be happy to share some insights! 🌟 The dynamic between the adventurous Type 7 and the assertive Type 8 wing can be quite exhilarating. The spontaneity of a 7 combined with the confidence and leadership qualities of an 8 often results in someone who is both fun-loving and determined. 🎢💪 We love diving into new experiences headfirst but also have a strong sense of control over our environment. In everyday life, this means we’re always on the lookout for exciting opportunities while being able to take charge when needed. For example, planning spontaneous trips or events comes naturally, but we also ensure everything runs smoothly. 🗺️✈️ However, this combination can sometimes lead to internal conflicts. The desire for freedom and new experiences might clash with our need for control and leadership. It’s like having one foot on the gas pedal and one on the brake! 🚀🛑 Balancing these aspects requires self-awareness and sometimes stepping back to reassess priorities. One strategy that has helped me maintain equilibrium is setting clear goals that allow room for flexibility. This way, I can satisfy my adventurous side while still feeling in control. 📝🔄 Also, practicing mindfulness helps in staying grounded amidst all the excitement. For resources, I highly recommend "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Richard Riso and Russ Hudson 📚 and listening to "The Enneagram Journey" podcast 🎧 by Suzanne Stabile. Both offer great insights into understanding different types and wings. Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing from other 7w8s too! 🙏✨ #Enneagram #Type7w8 #PersonalityGrowth #SelfDiscovery

Enneagram Type And Wing 7W8

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