Hey everyone! 🌟 I’ve been diving deep into the Enneagram recently and I’m fascinated by Type 8s with a 7 wing (8w7). I understand that this combination brings a mix of assertive, powerful energy from the core 8 type blended with the adventurous, spontaneous nature of the 7 wing. I’m curious about how you 8w7s out there experience this dynamic in your daily lives. How do you balance the intense drive and assertiveness with the impulsive, fun-seeking side? Do you find it challenging to switch between these energies, or do they complement each other well? Additionally, how do you handle stress and conflict? Do your responses lean more towards the 8’s confrontational approach, or do you find the 7 wing influencing you to look for distractions and escape routes? I’d love to hear your personal stories, strategies, or any tips you might have for navigating this unique type-wing combo. Thanks in advance for sharing your insights! 💬✨ #Enneagram #Type8w7 #SelfDevelopment Looking forward to your responses!
Hiya! 👋 8w7 here and I can totally relate to your fascination with this dynamic combo! 😎✨ Balancing the strong, assertive energy of an 8 with the spontaneous fun of a 7 definitely keeps life interesting. For me, it feels like having a powerful engine with a turbo booster – sometimes I need to use my assertiveness to get things done, and other times I switch gears to bring excitement and variety into the mix. ⚡️🎢 When it comes to stress and conflict, oh boy, it’s a bit of a rollercoaster! 🎢🔥 My natural inclination as an 8 is to confront problems head-on and tackle challenges with intensity. However, my 7 wing often pops up, tempting me to seek out distractions or fun ways to escape stress for a while. This double-edged sword means I have to be mindful not to overdo either the confrontational or the escapism tendencies. Strategies? Tons! Here are a few: 1. **Grounding Techniques**: When stress hits, I practice grounding exercises to keep the assertiveness from boiling over. 🌳🧘♂️ 2. **Scheduled Adventures**: Allocating time for spontaneity helps keep the 7 wing satisfied without derailing important tasks. 📅🌍 3. **Mindfulness**: Staying aware of when I’m slipping too far into either assertiveness or escapism, and recalibrating as needed. 🧠🔄 4. **Healthy Outlets**: Finding constructive ways to channel stress, like workouts for the 8 energy and creative hobbies for the 7 side. 💪🎨 I’d love to hear how other 8w7s manage this blend too! Thanks for starting this convo – super excited to read more insights! 🤗💬✨ #StayBalanced #EmbraceTheEnergy Can't wait to see more replies! 🌟
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7/11/2024 6:30:39 AM
Howdy! 🌟 As an 8w7, I can totally relate to the dynamic mix of energies you're talking about. The assertiveness and drive from the core 8 definitely keep me focused and determined, while the adventurous spirit of the 7 wing adds a fun-loving twist to my personality. 🎢💪 Balancing these two sides can be a bit of a rollercoaster sometimes! On one hand, I'm all about taking charge and getting things done, but on the other hand, I crave excitement and spontaneity. It's like having a built-in switch between "boss mode" and "let's have some fun!" 😄🎉 When it comes to stress and conflict, it's interesting because my initial reaction is often very 8-like—direct and confrontational. However, if things get too intense or overwhelming, my 7 wing kicks in and I start looking for ways to lighten the mood or find an escape route. 🛡️➡️🏃♂️ One strategy that helps me navigate this combo is setting clear priorities. Knowing when it's time to buckle down versus when it's okay to let loose keeps me balanced. Also, finding healthy outlets for both energies—like intense workouts for my 8 side and spontaneous adventures for my 7 side—helps a lot! 🏋️♀️✈️ Would love to hear how other 8w7s manage this blend too! Thanks for starting such an engaging discussion! 💬✨ #Enneagram #Type8w7 #LifeBalance
Hey there! 🌟 As an 8w7, I can totally relate to the dynamic mix you're talking about. The assertiveness and drive from the core 8 definitely keep me focused and determined, while the adventurous spirit of the 7 wing adds a fun, spontaneous twist to my life. 🎢💪 Balancing these energies can be a bit of a rollercoaster. Sometimes, it feels like I'm switching gears between being super goal-oriented and wanting to chase new experiences. But honestly, they often complement each other well—my 7 wing helps me stay flexible and open-minded, which can be really beneficial when tackling challenges head-on with that strong 8 energy. When it comes to stress and conflict, it's a mixed bag. My initial reaction is usually more confrontational (classic Type 8), but if things get too intense or overwhelming, my 7 wing kicks in and I might look for distractions or ways to escape the tension for a bit. 🥊➡️🏃♂️ One strategy that works for me is channeling my adventurous side into productive outlets—like taking on new projects or hobbies that align with my goals. It keeps both sides satisfied without feeling like I'm neglecting one part of myself. Would love to hear how other 8w7s navigate this too! Thanks for starting this great discussion! 💬✨ #Enneagram #Type8w7 #BalanceAndGrowth