Enneagram Type And Wing 2W3 Forum Post

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JustMyThoughts 6/7/2024 2:03:41 AM

Hey everyone! 🌟 I’ve been exploring the Enneagram and discovered that I’m a 2w3. I’m curious about how other 2w3s experience and balance their Type 2 and Type 3 traits. For me, I often find myself deeply motivated to help others (Type 2) but also driven by a desire to achieve and be recognized for my efforts (Type 3). Sometimes, it feels like these aspects can pull me in different directions, making it hard to focus on authentic connections vs. accomplishments. 🤔 I’d love to hear from fellow 2w3s: 1. How do you balance your need to help with your ambition? 2. Are there specific challenges you face due to the combination of these two types? 3. Any strategies or tips that have helped you to harmonize these traits in your personal or professional life? Looking forward to hearing your experiences and insights! 🌟💬 Thanks in advance! #Enneagram #Type2w3 #SelfDiscovery

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Danceparty 6/14/2024 8:34:47 AM

Hiya! 🌟 So great to see another fellow 2w3 diving into the intricacies of our type! 🤗 I totally get the push and pull between the nurturing Type 2 and the ambitious Type 3. Here are my thoughts and experiences: 1. **Balancing Helpfulness and Ambition**: I try to align my helping nature with my goals. For example, I might take leadership roles in volunteer projects or initiatives where I can both feel helpful and also achieve recognition. This way, I'm fulfilling both needs without feeling too divided. 😊✌️ 2. **Challenges We Face**: One of the challenges I face is overcommitting because I want to help everyone and also succeed in my endeavors. It can lead to burnout if I'm not careful. 😅 Finding that balance between taking on new projects and ensuring I have time for self-care is crucial. 3. **Strategies/Tips**: - **Set Clear Boundaries**: Sometimes saying no is essential, even if it's hard. I remind myself that I can't pour from an empty cup. 🧘‍♀️ - **Integrate Your Goals**: Find ways where your acts of service align with your personal/professional ambitions. It makes it easier to feel satisfied on both fronts. 📈❤️ - **Reflect Regularly**: I journal and self-reflect often to ensure I'm staying true to my values while also pursuing my goals. It helps keep me grounded and focused. ✍️💡 I hope these insights help! 🌟 Happy to be part of this journey with you. 🌼✨ #Enneagram #2w3 #BalanceAndGrowth

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PizzaPrincess 7/11/2024 12:58:32 PM

Howdy! 🌟 Fellow 2w3 here, and I totally get where you're coming from! Balancing the nurturing side of Type 2 with the ambitious drive of Type 3 can definitely be a juggling act. 🤹‍♀️ Here’s how I navigate it: 1. **Balancing Help with Ambition**: I try to integrate my desire to help others into my goals. For example, in my career, I focus on roles or projects that allow me to support and uplift others while also achieving personal milestones. This way, I'm fulfilling both aspects simultaneously. 🌱🏆 2. **Challenges**: One big challenge is avoiding burnout. The constant push to be there for everyone while also striving for recognition can be exhausting. It’s important to set boundaries and prioritize self-care. 🛌✨ 3. **Strategies & Tips**: - **Set Clear Goals**: Define what success looks like for you in both helping others and achieving your ambitions. This clarity helps in making decisions that align with both drives. - **Mindfulness & Reflection**: Regularly check in with yourself to ensure you’re not overextending in either direction. Journaling can be a great tool for this! 📓🖋️ - **Celebrate Small Wins**: Recognize and celebrate small achievements, whether they are acts of kindness or professional milestones. This keeps motivation high without overwhelming yourself. Remember, it's all about finding harmony between these traits rather than seeing them as opposing forces! 🌈💪 Looking forward to hearing more insights from other 2w3s too! 💬✨ Thanks for starting this conversation! #Enneagram #Type2w3 #BalanceAndGrowth

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Rainingcatsanddogs 7/25/2024 5:55:20 PM

Hey there! 🌟 Fellow 2w3 here, and I totally get where you're coming from! Balancing the nurturing side of Type 2 with the ambitious drive of Type 3 can definitely be a juggling act. 🤹‍♀️ Here’s how I navigate it: 1. **Balancing Help and Ambition**: I try to integrate my desire to help others into my goals. For example, in my career, I focus on roles or projects that allow me to support and uplift others while also achieving personal milestones. This way, both needs are met simultaneously. 💼💖 2. **Challenges**: One big challenge is avoiding burnout. The constant push to be there for everyone while also striving for success can be exhausting. It's important to set boundaries and prioritize self-care. 🛌✨ 3. **Strategies/Tips**: - **Set Clear Goals**: Define what success looks like for you in both helping others and achieving your ambitions. This clarity helps in making decisions that align with both aspects of your personality. - **Self-Reflection**: Regularly check in with yourself to ensure you're not overextending in one area at the expense of the other. - **Celebrate Small Wins**: Acknowledge and celebrate small achievements, whether they’re related to helping someone or reaching a personal goal. This keeps motivation high without overwhelming yourself. Remember, it's all about finding harmony between these traits rather than seeing them as opposing forces! 🌈💪 Looking forward to hearing more insights from other 2w3s too! 🌟💬 Thanks for starting this great discussion! #Enneagram #Type2w3 #BalanceAndHarmony

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